My girlfriend dumped me

Erzengel said:
Or it's you personally she doesn't want right now in her life as a boyfriend.

****. :cmad:

Or get a degree in psychology, and become a psychologist, and turn around your patients coming to a positive realization of a negative situation into something negative, lol. Like you did just right now. It'd be awesome.
 
Maxwell Smart said:
Because shes a really great girl. I was just being too harsh because took things too personally. She likes me as a friend, thats how things started, and I took things in another direction and she realised thats not what she wants right now in her life. I was being a jerk getting indignant about it. If I really care for her, which I do, I should want her to do whats best for her.

I realise that now.
admit it. you miss tapping dat ass.
 
Maxwell Smart said:
We've been going out the past couple of months and I've never been so happy Then this morning she CALLS ME to tell me she doesn't want to date anymore, that she isn't in the right place in her life for a relationship. Shes 24 and out of college now..I really don't see it. It was basically the old "its not you, its me(but really, its you)" heave ho.. She also said she just doesn't like me "that way" and that we can't be any more than friends..ever. Gee, I feel like Adam Sandler in The Wedding Singer. You know, that information would have a lot more useful A FEW WEEKS AGO. :mad: As you all well know I'm very shy, I went through a big crush in H.S. and was harsly rejected and I had a difficult time getting over it. Am I overlysensitive? Perhaps, but 'tis the way I am. It was really hard for me to muster up the balls to be this open with this girl and pursue her, and for her to respond in kind and then a few weeks later be like "oh I didn't really feel that way" is ****ing cruel. What a psycho. I had to vent and well I don't have friends to go to and I don't think my family would understand.

It sucks that your g/f dumped you, but hey there are plenty of fish in the sea, you'll find someone thats right for you :):up:

otherwise you could you know...vandalize her house as a form of payback :o:ninja:
 
He should throw a sledgehammer through her window.
 
Maxwell Smart said:
Erzengel I realise you and Daisy have genuine reason for saying some of the things you do to me, but it does seem sometimes like you intentionally try to be as negative as you can in regards to my situations.

I can't speak for Daisy. But as for myself, while our experiences are not similar, I can emphathize with your situation.

It usually has nothing to do with looking for the negative as it is being realistic about things.
 
Erzengel said:
You lost me there. :huh:

Intolerance leads to anger? Anger Management leads to Jack Nickolson who was in a Few Good Men with Kevin Bacon!!!

I rule that game.
There's a thin line between "I don't want live near blacks" and "all n**gers should die".".
 
That would be devasting for MLB, NBA and NFL.

With the NHL no so much. :o
 
One day my spouse and I will have a laugh together about all of our past relationships,
 
...while she's begging for freedom in her cage and you're waving the marriage certificate and some chloroform?
 
Maxwell Smart said:
One day my spouse and I will have a laugh together about all of our past relationships,
by "spouse" you mean blow-up doll?
 
Maxwell Smart said:
We've been going out the past couple of months and I've never been so happy Then this morning she CALLS ME to tell me she doesn't want to date anymore, that she isn't in the right place in her life for a relationship. Shes 24 and out of college now..I really don't see it. It was basically the old "its not you, its me(but really, its you)" heave ho.. She also said she just doesn't like me "that way" and that we can't be any more than friends..ever. Gee, I feel like Adam Sandler in The Wedding Singer. You know, that information would have a lot more useful A FEW WEEKS AGO. :mad: As you all well know I'm very shy, I went through a big crush in H.S. and was harsly rejected and I had a difficult time getting over it. Am I overlysensitive? Perhaps, but 'tis the way I am. It was really hard for me to muster up the balls to be this open with this girl and pursue her, and for her to respond in kind and then a few weeks later be like "oh I didn't really feel that way" is ****ing cruel. What a psycho. I had to vent and well I don't have friends to go to and I don't think my family would understand.

i hope you ****ed her in the ass before she dumped you.
 
Maxwell Smart said:
We've been going out the past couple of months and I've never been so happy Then this morning she CALLS ME to tell me she doesn't want to date anymore, that she isn't in the right place in her life for a relationship. Shes 24 and out of college now..I really don't see it. It was basically the old "its not you, its me(but really, its you)" heave ho.. She also said she just doesn't like me "that way" and that we can't be any more than friends..ever. Gee, I feel like Adam Sandler in The Wedding Singer. You know, that information would have a lot more useful A FEW WEEKS AGO. :mad: As you all well know I'm very shy, I went through a big crush in H.S. and was harsly rejected and I had a difficult time getting over it. Am I overlysensitive? Perhaps, but 'tis the way I am. It was really hard for me to muster up the balls to be this open with this girl and pursue her, and for her to respond in kind and then a few weeks later be like "oh I didn't really feel that way" is ****ing cruel. What a psycho. I had to vent and well I don't have friends to go to and I don't think my family would understand.

Life goes on, plenty of fish in the sea. :up:
 
Mr.Census said:
i hope you ****ed her in the ass before she dumped you.

Well with her being a fat chick, that quote makes me think of Bad Santa for some reason ...

:hyper:
 
Maxwell Smart said:
We've been going out the past couple of months and I've never been so happy Then this morning she CALLS ME to tell me she doesn't want to date anymore, that she isn't in the right place in her life for a relationship. Shes 24 and out of college now..I really don't see it. It was basically the old "its not you, its me(but really, its you)" heave ho.. She also said she just doesn't like me "that way" and that we can't be any more than friends..ever. Gee, I feel like Adam Sandler in The Wedding Singer. You know, that information would have a lot more useful A FEW WEEKS AGO. :mad: As you all well know I'm very shy, I went through a big crush in H.S. and was harsly rejected and I had a difficult time getting over it. Am I overlysensitive? Perhaps, but 'tis the way I am. It was really hard for me to muster up the balls to be this open with this girl and pursue her, and for her to respond in kind and then a few weeks later be like "oh I didn't really feel that way" is ****ing cruel. What a psycho. I had to vent and well I don't have friends to go to and I don't think my family would understand.

Love hurts, Love scars, Love wounds and mars
Any heart not tough or strong enough
To take a lot of pain, take a lot of pain
Love is like a cloud, it holds a lot of rain
Love hurts, Ooo-oo Love hurts

I'm young, I know, But even so
I know a thing or two - I learned from you
I really learned a lot, really learned a lot
Love is like a flame It burns you when it's hot
Love hurts, Ooo-oo Love hurts

Some fools think of happiness, blissfulness, togetherness
Some fools fool themselves, I guess
They're not foolin' me
I know it isn't true I know it isn't true
Love is just a lie made to make you blue
Love hurts, Ooo-oo Love hurts

Solo

I know it isn't true I know it isn't true
Love is just a lie made to make you blue
Love hurts, Ooo-oo Love hurts
Ooo-oo, Love hurts Ooo-oo

:woot:
 
Darren Daring said:
Daisy's great, I love slightly bitter chicks with common sense:
....Now what? You going to make a list or post some pictures? Stop leaving us hanging with a ":"!! :cmad:
 
post loltsa pics, and let people manip them into horrific things that you post everywhere, or at least post pics so we get some perspective here!
 
Howly **** it has grown a lot...
I searched for my post.....
Page 2????
I just posted it a few hours ago :o
 
Daisy said:
I'm going to be brutally honest with you. You're not going to like it and you're not going to believe me (you'd protest until your fingers cramp), so it doesn't really matter, but I'll put it out there anyway.

You are not as mature as you think you are (Right now, you're saying to yourself: "But you don't know me, Daisy.") Overwhelmingly from what I've seen you post, you seem right about your age (And now you're saying: "But I just fool around on here. I'm not like this in real life.").

Yes, you believe yourself to be more mature than others your age. Guess what? The majority of people your age believe the same thing. I believed it of myself when I was your age. Then, at 23 or so when I had graduated college and had my first job, I thought: "Wow, how stupid I was then! NOW I'm really mature. *smugface*" By the time I was 30, I realized that I had still been a relatively immature idiot at 23-24.

And the thing is, I'm not alone. You'll hear this same story from many, many people over 30. (I know, I know... you're different than the rest of us... you really are more mature. Just wait 5 years... and then another 5.)

Further, you shouldn't be surprised that a 24-year-old who dated you turned out to be immature - and yes, she does seem immature for her age. In general, a girl that age would be immature if she's attracted to a 19-year-old.

Like I said, I'm sure you'll argue... but I won't.


In all seriousness, my advice is to stop worrying about how mature you are, stop worrying about having a 'relationship' and have fun. Meet people - both female and male - make friends, learn about the world, life and all that.

Enjoy! :)

:up:
 
Maxwell Smart said:
We've been going out the past couple of months and I've never been so happy Then this morning she CALLS ME to tell me she doesn't want to date anymore, that she isn't in the right place in her life for a relationship. Shes 24 and out of college now..I really don't see it. It was basically the old "its not you, its me(but really, its you)" heave ho.. She also said she just doesn't like me "that way" and that we can't be any more than friends..ever. Gee, I feel like Adam Sandler in The Wedding Singer. You know, that information would have a lot more useful A FEW WEEKS AGO. :mad: As you all well know I'm very shy, I went through a big crush in H.S. and was harsly rejected and I had a difficult time getting over it. Am I overlysensitive? Perhaps, but 'tis the way I am. It was really hard for me to muster up the balls to be this open with this girl and pursue her, and for her to respond in kind and then a few weeks later be like "oh I didn't really feel that way" is ****ing cruel. What a psycho. I had to vent and well I don't have friends to go to and I don't think my family would understand.

*single tear* :csad:
 
You know I just don't have a lot of interest in going out and making friends.

I'd rather have two or three close friends than a wide circle of people.
 

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