My girlfriend dumped me

[Wilhelm-Scream]

Lee and Daisy are playing, like, the stupidest word game ever.

Don't be catty.

 

[Holly Goodhead]

Maybe you should change your pad?

jag

Yeah

 

[C. Lee]

Don't be catty.

He's just being bullheaded.

 

[Darren Daring]

Someone already used Bull

 

[Daisy]

Pigheadded then.

 

[Maxwell Smart]

I hate this atittude. When you make fun of everyone you meet on the internet, ther's alwyas gott abe some arrogant punk who thinks you're following him around. Like, get over yourself

What does "get over yourself" mean? I've heard this a lot but I really don't know what the hell its supposed to mean.

...after repeatedly stalking and harrassing her until she had to go to the authorities and demanding that she should be attracted to you simply because you were attracted to her, right? Am I remembering that right?

Yes except she didn't go to the "authorities" she went to the principal. And I was only 14 at the time(it was the first semester of my freshman year, b-days in january), give me a break.

hmmm....

remedy....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z2Q7YRDL90E

Dial-up is a hell of a connection.

I can't speak for the female gender but as a man, I think I'd be a lil unnerved if I met a woman who was so desperate for male companionship that she would date anyone who was remotely nice to her or showed any interest in her whatsoever. It comes off as really needy and it could be a major turnoff.

I never understood this whole thing about "desperation" being a turn off. I just don't get it.

 

[maxwell's demon]

What does "get over yourself" mean? I've heard this a lot but I really don't know what the hell its supposed to mean.



Yes except she didn't go to the "authorities" she went to the principal. And I was only 14 at the time(it was the first semester of my freshman year, b-days in january), give me a break.



Dial-up is a hell of a connection.



I never understood this whole thing about "desperation" being a turn off. I just don't get it.

 

[Darren Daring]

What does "get over yourself" mean? I've heard this a lot but I really don't know what the hell its supposed to mean.

It means stop being a arrogant Self centered Punk.

You aren't special

Please repeat that again and agian until you believe nothing else

I never understood this whole thing about "desperation" being a turn off. I just don't get it.

...

Just.. Just keep repeating

 

[Erzengel]

I never understood this whole thing about "desperation" being a turn off. I just don't get it.

Wow. Where to start?

There are a lot of men and women who want a challenge. They don't want to be handed a relationship. The thrill of the chase in so many words.

How can I get the point across that being desperate is a turnoff? It's because most people want to be with someone who can stand on their own feet, who is independent, who doesn't need to identify themselves as someone's gf or bf and has their own identity.

Being desperate, means that person has no self worth, no standards, and is willing to accept the lowest common denominator. Now what does that say about the girl or boy who accepts that person?

 

[C. Lee]

Pigheadded then.

Or birdbrained.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

Being desperate, means that person has no self worth, no standards, and is willing to accept the lowest common denominator. Now what does that say about the girl or boy who accepts that person?

and if you are distressingly starved for love/affection/sex...that means, you never get any, so you are "desperate" for some.
Which means, for some reason, there is something wrong with you (whether it's a minor hurdle like, you're shy, or you smell bad, or something deeper, like everytime you get into a relationship it ends because you're incapable of sustaining one), or you are unattractive.

Who thinks, "MMmm, YUMM-O!! There's something deeply wrong in the head with that unattractive guy!! rOwr!"?

 

[maxwell's demon]

my wife

 

[Erzengel]

I'm sure your future gf would appreciate it.

"Maxwell Smart, what was it about me that attracted you to me?"

"Well sweetie, I didn't want to be alone and I really just wanted "a" gf and you were the only girl who said yes."

 

[jaguarr]

This thread is going to stay entertaining for quite awhile, methinks.

jag

 

[Erzengel]

my wife

Stay out of thread.

I don't want to start having to say Maxwell S. and Maxwell D.

 

[Maxwell Smart]

It means stop being a arrogant Self centered Punk.

You aren't special

sorry, still don't get what you mean.

There are a lot of men and women who want a challenge. They don't want to be handed a relationship. The thrill of the chase in so many words.

Thats ****ing ******ed.

How can I get the point across that being desperate is a turnoff? It's because most people want to be with someone who can stand on their own feet, who is independent, who doesn't need to identify themselves as someone's gf or bf and has their own identity.

But why? Also I have an identity, I just want someone to be with.

Being desperate, means that person has no self worth, no standards, and is willing to accept the lowest common denominator. Now what does that say about the girl or boy who accepts that person?

I don't know..

and if you are distressingly starved for love/affection/sex...that means, you never get any, so you are "desperate" for some.
Which means, for some reason, there is something wrong with you (whether it's a minor hurdle like, you're shy, or you smell bad, or something deeper, like everytime you get into a relationship it ends because you're incapable of sustaining one), or you are unattractive.

Thats ****ed up.

 

[Darren Daring]

This kid isn't just maladjusted, he's dead dumb

 

[Maxwell Smart]

I'm sure your future gf would appreciate it.

"Maxwell Smart, what was it about me that attracted you to me?"

"Well sweetie, I didn't want to be alone and I really just wanted "a" gf and you were the only girl who said yes."

well I am sorry but thats how I am, I can't help myself. I'm someone who needs to be with somebody.

And I wouldn't answer that way, in the first place. "Its because you blah, blah, blah" I'd come up with something.

 

[maxwell's demon]

maxwell smart....
even if you don't understand it, just try it. try not being desperate. see how it works out.

 

[Maxwell Smart]

This kid isn't just maladjusted, he's dead dumb

Not so much dead dumb as I just refuse to accept certain things.

 

[Maxwell Smart]

maxwell smart....
even if yo don't understand, it, jsut try it. try not being desperate. see how it works out.

I'm not capable of that.

 

[maxwell's demon]

oh sweet holy crap.

 

[Darren Daring]

well I am sorry but thats how I am, I can't help myself. I'm someone who needs to be with somebody.

And I wouldn't answer that way, in the first place. "Its because you blah, blah, blah" I'd come up with something.

What a catch!

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

Thats ****ed up.

Welcome to reality. Once you realize that the best way to get a girl you're crazy about who will want to stay with you is to BE the kind of guy she'd be crazy about and want to stay with, you'll have a lot more success.

It's not always the rule. Sometimes people just aren't compatible even when there are no real glaringly disgusting things about either, but you'll have more success.

 

[Maxwell Smart]

I'm sorry guys, I'm just ****ed up beyond all repair. Life has made me this way.