My life is falling apart!!

[Erzengel]

Because you are good enough, smart enough and dosh garnit people like you?

 

[JokerNick]

I'll say it again Joker the way you come off is you come off as one of the people who would hurt her or yourself if she ever left you. Thats why some have said get help then be with her.

i may come off like that.... yeah, you see my in person, i come off like a hard-ass. the way i talk, the way i look...... but that's not who I am inside...... I would never hurt a girl physically, let alone katie...... any guy who touches a girl is a ****ing coward...

 

[AndThePickles]

no, she doesn't fear me, not at all.... last night for instance... I was laying down, and she layed next to me on her stomach with her head on my chest... she was just looking at me, lovenly. saying that she is so proud that I am going to get help... and she knows I can do it.... she also said that she can't wait till me get married and have kids... that's not fear man....

like I said, you don't even know me man.... and if a woman leaves a guy, when he's at his weakest, then it wasn't love... as much as everyone thinks I was being the aggressor, I was being weak friday... taking out all my problems on the one I love... that is weak... she saw this... was mad at first, got some space to think and realized that I can be very weak inside, and becuase she loves me, she wants to help.....

I think that ultimately this experience will strengthen your relationship. You discovered some flaws and didn't break up over it, instead you're trying to fix it. Good job! Any relationship that doesn't experience some kind of problem won't be a lasting one, because sometimes it takes mistakes (I'm not talking massive ones, like cheating ) to grow and understand each other. The fact is, you're willing to be there for each other and help each other through this hurdle, and that's great

 

[JokerNick]

Because you are good enough, smart enough and dosh garnit people like you?

me... yes i am...

 

[Colossal Spoons]

I think that ultimately this experience will strengthen your relationship. You discovered some flaws and didn't break up over it, instead you're trying to fix it. Good job! Any relationship that doesn't experience some kind of problem won't be a lasting one, because sometimes it takes mistakes (I'm not talking massive ones, like cheating ) to grow and understand each other. The fact is, you're willing to be there for each other and help each other through this hurdle, and that's great

You're such a Hallmark card

I'm calling you Ms. Deeds from now on lol.

 

[Erzengel]

me... yes i am...

It's almost more like you are trying to convince yourself but hey if positive affirmations works for some people.

 

[Erzengel]

You're such a Hallmark card

I'm calling you Ms. Deeds from now on lol.

She's quite a catch. You should ask her out.

 

[AndThePickles]

You're such a Hallmark card

I'm calling you Ms. Deeds from now on lol.

Hey, just trying to give some advice What else do you expect from a writer? lol

 

[November Rain]

14 pages...

is this thing still on topic?

any plausible thing i can add that hasnt been mentioned in other permutations?

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

hopefully this will be the last time you ever lose control of yourself and hurt the one you claim to love most

lol

 

[JokerNick]

I think that ultimately this experience will strengthen your relationship. You discovered some flaws and didn't break up over it, instead you're trying to fix it. Good job! Any relationship that doesn't experience some kind of problem won't be a lasting one, because sometimes it takes mistakes (I'm not talking massive ones, like cheating ) to grow and understand each other. The fact is, you're willing to be there for each other and help each other through this hurdle, and that's great

and that's what I;'m saying, and you can tell, there are many people on these boards that have such a negative outlook on everything.... yeah, we fought, but neither one of us are quiters.... we aren't giving up, for every 1 problem we have, there are 100 things that are great.... people seem to forget, couples fight and have seriuos trouble being together... but if both parties want it to work, it will work.... and that's what this country forgot, 50% divorce rate...... very sad

 

[JokerNick]

It's almost more like you are trying to convince yourself but hey if positive affirmations works for some people.

i know what I know, and I know that you don't know me.... enough said

 

[Colossal Spoons]

She's quite a catch. You should ask her out.

I'm shy

 

[AndThePickles]

She's quite a catch. You should ask her out.

Cool with me, but we'd better go somewhere nice or I'll tell all the other girls that he's a nerd.

 

[Erzengel]

i know what I know, and I know that you don't know me.... enough said

You're right I don't know. But I know behavior, repetitive reactions, as well as recurring statements. Most of the time you connect the dots and it paints an accurate picture.

 

[Ultimate_Superman]

and that's what I;'m saying, and you can tell, there are many people on these boards that have such a negative outlook on everything.... yeah, we fought, but neither one of us are quiters.... we aren't giving up, for every 1 problem we have, there are 100 things that are great.... people seem to forget, couples fight and have seriuos trouble being together... but if both parties want it to work, it will work.... and that's what this country forgot, 50% divorce rate...... very sad

I am sure the people she works with feels the same as well as her family members. After that stunt you pulled at her job your lucky she didn't lose it.

 

[Erzengel]

I'm shy

ATP, my friend Spoons here likes you, likes you and if you feel the same way please mark the box "Yes" on this note.

 

[AndThePickles]

ATP, my friend Spoons here likes you, likes you and if you feel the same way please mark the box "Yes" on this note.

I'll have to go consult my friends first, is there a "maybe" box?

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

and that's what this country forgot

Oh Jesus, lol.
Start up the National Anthem...
"'Cause damn it, you say smoking's harmful?, you say booze'll turn your liver into tapioca?, you say a man and a woman shouldn't live together in an eternal cycle of abuse, guilt and denial?....well WE'RE NOT QUITTERS!!! :stiffClintonlip:"

Hahahaha

 

[Erzengel]

"Everywhere around the world.......they come to America...."
"Everytime that flag's unfurled.......they come to America...."



"Today!!!!!"

 

[JokerNick]

Oh Jesus, lol.
Start up the National Anthem...
"'Cause damn it, you say smoking's harmful?, you say booze'll turn your liver into tapioca?, you say a man and a woman shouldn't live together in an eternal cycle of abuse, guilt and denial?....well WE'RE NOT QUITTERS!!! :stiffClintonlip:"

Hahahaha

no, but many of us are weak, and when the four letter word, WORK, comes into play... we ***** out.... FACT

 

[JokerNick]

You're right I don't know. But I know behavior, repetitive reactions, as well as recurring statements. Most of the time you connect the dots and it paints an accurate picture.

most the time., but not all the time......

 

[JokerNick]

I am sure the people she works with feels the same as well as her family members. After that stunt you pulled at her job your lucky she didn't lose it.

well, it was after hours, and it's only a waitressing job she is quiting this thrusday..... not that it makes what I did any better...

some of you have such a negative outlook on life.... no one can change.. no one should try to work things out, just take everything as it is...... ****ing sad

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

"Everywhere around the world.......they come to America...."
"Everytime that flag's unfurled.......they come to America...."



"Today!!!!!"

Neil Diamond! I want to see the divorce rate cut in HALF!

 

[Ultimate_Superman]

well, it was after hours, and it's only a waitressing job she is quiting this thrusday..... not that it makes what I did any better...

some of you have such a negative outlook on life.... no one can change.. no one should try to work things out, just take everything as it is...... ****ing sad

No I don't have a negative outlook on life. I do however have a negative outlook on people who verbally abuse females and be little them in pubic.