My wife just left us

[Outsiderzedge]

Try to either reignite your relationship with her or reason with her to stay for your child. Failing that, divorce her and have her pay child support. That's about all you can do.

 

[stryfe]

If my wife came into the room and said, "I'm not happy and I'm leaving you and the kids." A internet message board is the last place I would come to. Especially one that is about superheroes and the average age on here might be 17.

Instead go after the *****, Find out where the Hell she's going. Then you tell her that you'll give her space and let her cool off and then get together a few days and talk it out and start the divorce process and let her take her clothes and whatever else you want her to have. Then talk to your parents who live close to you and get them to help with the baby for a short time if necessary.

I understand where your coming from. She doesnt want to be here though and I tried to talk to her but she was set on leaving. I dont want to tell my family yet. I think im in shock still.

 

[twylight]

Best of luck stryfe. There's a rainbow after every storm. I don't know what I mean by that, but you know.


Also, The Joker got his face stomped all over this thread.

I want a divorce.

 

[Hades]

That's really the pits, man.

See, this is why I never want to get married, or have kids.

 

[DarthRekal]

dude im sorry stryfe.. i hope all is well and lazur gots some got advice for ya...


take care of the baby....

god bless

 

[DOG LIPS]

I want a divorce.

Fine! You can take my land. You can take my house. But you'll never take my freedddoommm!


Or my giant screen TV.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

I want a divorce.

Should we tell him about the affair.

 

[stryfe]

It was good advice. And pretty much along the lines of what me and Bill were driving at. Get an Attorney, in fact call one now. Just so he can give you the facts about what the state laws and forms/procedures you may/may not have to go through.

Be prepared. If she files for divorce before you do and if she gets custody she will take you for every last penny you have. Not trying to scare you, it's the truth.

It the woman is the plantiff the Courts will almost always side with her. If not always.

Tomorrow go consult an attorney in person, until then visit this website : http://www.divorcenet.com/

Remember in some divorces women and/or men will claim "fault grounds" (assuming you don't do mediation instead) .

She just started a full time job today. Its my apartment. She doesnt even have a place to go. Theres no way a court is going to give a damn nomad a baby. Its been a really reall ****ty 2 years. If I could draw you a timeline youd be amazed I hadnt killed myself. BTW I never would. But these last 2 years were that ****ty. (Not with her , just with life in general)

 

[stryfe]

That's really the pits, man.

See, this is why I never want to get married, or have kids.

Honestly, dont.

 

[KingOfDreams]

Shes been wanting to quit since the baby was born.

Do you think it might be post-partum depression?

 

[Lackey]

This is going to happen to me, I know it. I'm scared


My girlfriend has slept with a lot of guys, had some lesbian relationships and even had a threesome once... I'm in trouble

 

[lazur]

I understand where your coming from. She doesnt want to be here though and I tried to talk to her but she was set on leaving. I dont want to tell my family yet. I think im in shock still.

I was the same way, man. I felt like I'd let my family down, so I didn't tell my parents for a couple of weeks. I'm still actually surprised I lived through that period of my life.

But you should tell them as soon as possible. Don't try to go through this alone.

 

[twylight]

Or my giant screen TV.

The TV was in the pre-Nup so it's mine.

Should we tell him about the affair.

What? I'll lose the house then!

 

[stryfe]

Do you think it might be post-partum depression?

Shes mentioned it. Its possible but how can I help that!

 

[DOG LIPS]

The TV was in the pre-Nup so it's mine.

Pfft, I never sign pre-nups. You're confusing me with Master Bruce.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

She just started a full time job today. Its my apartment. She doesnt even have a place to go. Theres no way a court is going to give a damn nomad a baby. Its been a really reall ****ty 2 years. If I could draw you a timeline youd be amazed I hadnt killed myself. BTW I never would. But these last 2 years were that ****ty. (Not with her , just with life in general)

Don't bank on this. All the more reason for her to claim the child and get child support.

As I say, just get an attorney. You should always try to work your marriage issues out, but the attorney is important in case the situation escalates.

As Lazur said, it's dangerous. I had a friend making 75,000 a year who had to move to a one bedroom apartment after his divorce.

We've all been through tough times. More power to you for not killing yourself. But remember it could always be worse, and the worst thing you can do is let it get worse.

 

[Lackey]

Pfft, I never sign pre-nups. You're confusing me with Master Bruce.

I miss him. We were best friends

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

Are you a lego green goblin 2 inches high?

I would never hit a women or verbally abuse one. If I was so bad dont you think she would have taken our child for fear of what i would do to it?

dude go file those divorce papers!!! and stop being on the freakin 'puter.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

What? I'll lose the house then!

You can come live with me

 

[DOG LIPS]

I miss him. We were best friends

I know. That heartless bastard just doesn't care about you anymore.

 

[stryfe]

Don't bank on this. All the more reason for her to claim the child and get child support.

As I say, just get an attorney. You should always try to work your marriage issues out, but the attorney is important in case the situation escalates.

As Lazur said, it's dangerous. I had a friend making 75,000 a year who had to move to a one bedroom apartment after his divorce.

I just left the military. I dont have any money. Im in that spot right after sercive but before getting a career. Im ****ed.

 

[Dorian Gray]

Shes mentioned it. Its possible but how can I help that!

She could have just used it as an excuse.....right now you should be focusing on what you are going to do next and the welfare of that child.

 

[Bill]

Honestly, dont.

Well, I wouldn't be like that. I don't regret getting married one iota. Then again, I didn't marry a woman that is capable of leaving me out of the blue. And I'm willing to bet that once you get to thinking about it, you'll find that you did, in fact, see it coming. Most guys tend to ignore what they see because of blind love, ego or some other nonsense. I've seen plenty of friends get divorced before, and I've never seen it come out of the blue. The signs were always there, they were just ignored it until it was too late.

Don't throw away the whole barrel because of one bad apple. You may never get married again, and that's your prerogative. Just learn from this experience and be honest enough to see where you might have went wrong and wise enough to not make the same mistake when choosing a wife again if you decide to do so.

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

^^ you like wasting time do you!!

 

[KingOfDreams]

Shes mentioned it. Its possible but how can I help that!

You could try to get her into therapy.