Nice guys DO finish last

[Erzengel]

Do you know what a pet peeve of mine is? When guys call themselves "nice guys" and then whinge about how they can't get girls. Sure, I whinge about how I can't get girls all the time, but at least I don't call myself "nice" while I do it. Guys that call themselves "nice guys" are usually *****es.

I know you mean well, but maybe you should just sit this one out, champ.

 

[terry78]

Kaz, you said the whole thing wrong. It's prononuced "arse."

 

[kainedamo]

I know you mean well, but maybe you should just sit this one out, champ.

 

[Kyalesyin]

Waaaaaggh! Scary! I have to to bed soon!

Thats better.

 

[Kyalesyin]

Waaaaaggh! Scary! I have to to bed soon!

Thats better.

 

[Castlewood]

There are several reasons why that picture doesn't do much for me. I'm a "nice guy" though (remember?), so I'll refrain from giving them.

Also... I haven't really read the past couple of pages... and I think that's probably a good thing. I definitely regret starting this thread.


Now, I must get back to lighting my candles in the dark and obessing over black & white pictures I have of her on my bedroom wall... and write down my plans on how I'll rape her when she's walking down a dark alley. Wish me luck!

 

[Duende Verde]

Now, I must get back to lighting my candles in the dark and obessing over black & white pictures I have of her on my bedroom wall... and write down my plans on how I'll rape her when she's walking down a dark alley. Wish me luck!

Don't forget to whisper in her ear, "I'm doing this because I love you", while you rape her.

 

[kainedamo]

There are several reasons why that picture doesn't do much for me. I'm a "nice guy" though (remember?), so I'll refrain from giving them.

Also... I haven't really read the past couple of pages... and I think that's probably a good thing. I definitely regret starting this thread.


Now, I must get back to lighting my candles in the dark and obessing over black & white pictures I have of her on my bedroom wall... and write down my plans on how I'll rape her when she's walking down a dark alley. Wish me luck!

See??

Guys that have to point out how "nice" they are usually... aren't.

 

[Erzengel]

There are several reasons why that picture doesn't do much for me. I'm a "nice guy" though (remember?), so I'll refrain from giving them.

Also... I haven't really read the past couple of pages... and I think that's probably a good thing. I definitely regret starting this thread.


Now, I must get back to lighting my candles in the dark and obessing over black & white pictures I have of her on my bedroom wall... and write down my plans on how I'll rape her when she's walking down a dark alley. Wish me luck!

Seriously, for like the 5th or 6th or 10th time.

Has this girl ever gotten therapy for the abuse she suffered as a child?

I feel like this is a blind_fury thread.

 

[Castlewood]

See??

Guys that have to point out how "nice" they are usually... aren't.

I was being sarcastic, jackass.

If you want me to be mean about that picture... I could be.

But right now I'm kind of busy putting on black clothes and a ski-mask, so I can hide in the bushes tonight.... Because I :heart: her.

 

[Castlewood]

She's never had therapy. But I agree... she definitely needs it.

And apparently I do too... because as I type this, I'm putting on lipstick and listening to Fall Out Boy... and I'm cutting myself because it helps me stop thinking about how much I :heart: her.

I'm actually having a blast with this thread now. Please keep up the uninformed, ignorant, and immature statements... it fuels my creative writing even more.

Actually, tonight, I plan on writing a poem about her... with my blood.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

I know you mean well, but maybe you should just sit this one out, champ.

hahaha
I think he just posted that phonetically from someone else's.

 

[kainedamo]

I noticed that too, Wil. My immediate thought was that Erz has went insane.

 

[Erzengel]

She's never had therapy. But I agree... she definitely needs it.

Seriously, how can you expect her to have any sort of healthy relationship?

And dude, I don't know you but you could be the greatest guy in the world, but that won't help her and her outlook on life won't change because she has somebody who literally worships her.

She needs counseling before she can enter any type of relationship.

 

[Castlewood]

Seriously, how can you expect her to have any sort of healthy relationship?

And dude, I don't know you but you could be the greatest guy in the world, but that won't help her and her outlook on life won't change because she has somebody who literally worships her.

She needs counseling before she can enter any type of relationship.

Well, my theory is that the FIRST step to becoming a better person, and to get "well"... is getting rid of her a**hole boyfriend.

The SECOND step is finding a guy who would treat her 1,000 times better (that would be me... or ANY guy that would treat her great... it doesn't HAVE to be me). I wish her nothing but happiness, with or without me being the cause of her happiness.

The THIRD step would be talking to SOMEONE about the details of what happened to her. She's given me a cliff's notes version... but not the whole thing.

If she can put up with an a**hole for 3 1/2 years after what happened to her, I'm sure she'd be okay with me. I am by no means the greatest guy in the world (I often question my goodness by not telling her how I feel, and whether NOT telling her actually makes me a liar, and thus, I'm a bad person).... but regardless... I would NOT do the things he's done to her.




So nobody wants my comments on that picture?

 

[Iron kid]

wow..... since the 6th grade..... listen to Motown Marvel, that is the right thing to do

 

[Erzengel]

Well, my theory is that the FIRST step to becoming a better person, and to get "well"... is getting rid of her a**hole boyfriend.

The SECOND step is finding a guy who would treat her 1,000 times better (that would be me... or ANY guy that would treat her great... it doesn't HAVE to be me). I wish her nothing but happiness, with or without me being the cause of her happiness.

The THIRD step would be talking to SOMEONE about the details of what happened to her. She's given me a cliff's notes version... but not the whole thing.

If she can put up with an a**hole for 3 1/2 years after what happened to her, I'm sure she'd be okay with me. I am by no means the greatest guy in the world (I often question my goodness by not telling her how I feel, and whether NOT telling her actually makes me a liar, and thus, I'm a bad person).... but regardless... I would NOT do the things he's done to her.




So nobody wants my comments on that picture?

Uh therapy should be the 1st step.

 

[Castlewood]

Uh therapy should be the 1st step.

'kay, so she's going to get therapy... and at the same time, have a boyfriend that calls her trash, cheats on her, and is nothing but mean to her. After going to her therapy session, she'll immediately call him and be treated like crap.
I think those two will cancel each other out my friend. Being with him WHILE getting therapy won't solve a damn thing. It will keep her neutral.

1.) She needs to get rid of him. Only then will she not have to worry about his hateful comments, and she won't be bothered or tied down from an abusive relationship. She would be one step closer to healing.

2.) If she gets a better guy who will treat her right, he can comfort her, and be there for her WHILE she is getting therapy, and it wil be easier for her to open up to a therapist, because she has the love and support from someone who actually cares about her.

3.) If she does 1 and 2.... THEN I think she'll be ready to go to therapy... and I support her getting therapy 100%.

1-2-3 = a better person.

That's my opinion. I could very well be wrong.



The conundrum... is convincing her to dump him.

Her whole family HATES him... and they all love ME. I just talked to her mother on the phone last night about all this, and she told me that she really wants me to "show her the light" and take care of her... because she knows I'd treat her better. Her sister said this too.

So... I know you guys don't know me (which is why you call me a potential rapist)... but her family DOES know me, and I pretty much gave them the same shpiel from the first post... and they really want me to be with her.

Say what you will, I suppose.

 

[kainedamo]

I just don't like guys that whinge about how nice they are.

I think Erz is right, sounds like the girl needs therapy, NOT a new boyfriend. Why do you think she needs a boyfriend at all, TempleFugit? Maybe she needs to stand up on her own two feet.

For all of your talk of being a nice guy, have you ever confronted her boyfriend? No, too much of a ***** I suspect.

 

[Superman79]

Now, I must get back to lighting my candles in the dark and obessing over black & white pictures I have of her on my bedroom wall... and write down my plans on how I'll rape her when she's walking down a dark alley. Wish me luck!

BWAHAHAHA!!!

I just had flashbacks to Jason Schwartzman in "Slackers" t:

EDIT: Upon further review of the situation and relevant precedents, I side 100% with Erz on this one...

 

[Superman79]

For all of your talk of being a nice guy, have you ever confronted her boyfriend?

For once I believe I am with KD...unless this guy is a 300lb 'roid freak...you should try calling him out on it the next time he says something to her in your presence. You might be surprised how calling him out could change things...but again, that's only if you are sure you won't get pummelled, or have a good lawyer in the event you do...

 

[Erzengel]

'kay, so she's going to get therapy... and at the same time, have a boyfriend that calls her trash, cheats on her, and is nothing but mean to her. After going to her therapy session, she'll immediately call him and be treated like crap.
I think those two will cancel each other out my friend. Being with him WHILE getting therapy won't solve a damn thing. It will keep her neutral.

1.) She needs to get rid of him. Only then will she not have to worry about his hateful comments, and she won't be bothered or tied down from an abusive relationship. She would be one step closer to healing.

2.) If she gets a better guy who will treat her right, he can comfort her, and be there for her WHILE she is getting therapy, and it wil be easier for her to open up to a therapist, because she has the love and support from someone who actually cares about her.

3.) If she does 1 and 2.... THEN I think she'll be ready to go to therapy... and I support her getting therapy 100%.

1-2-3 = a better person.

That's my opinion. I could very well be wrong.



The conundrum... is convincing her to dump him.

Her whole family HATES him... and they all love ME. I just talked to her mother on the phone last night about all this, and she told me that she really wants me to "show her the light" and take care of her... because she knows I'd treat her better. Her sister said this too.

So... I know you guys don't know me (which is why you call me a potential rapist)... but her family DOES know me, and I pretty much gave them the same shpiel from the first post... and they really want me to be with her.

Say what you will, I suppose.

Yet it's been 3 and a half years and she's still with him, even though you, her family and friends all dislike him. What realization is she going to have now that she hasn't in the past 3 and a half year?

Therapy might give her just that. She will come to a lot of realizations on her own just by talking.

Seriously, your scenario has her coming to a 3 and 1/2 year conclusion, and having a white knight in shining armor ride her off in the sunset. Like I said, no great guy is going to just go in there and fix everything for her.

She's going to have to help herself first.

 

[Superman79]

One: I'm a chick
Two: I managed to get married, which is better than you've ever done
Three: Despite being a chick, I somehow STILL manage to have bigger balls than you.

OK, now I want to go switch my vote to you Kaz, not for the pic (while it was very fine) but for the fits of laughter you're giving me beating down GR87 like that...top notch m'dear t:

 

[Castlewood]

For all of your talk of being a nice guy, have you ever confronted her boyfriend? No, too much of a ***** I suspect.

1.) I have talked to him many times in order to get two perspectives of the situation, so I'm not a "*****".

2.) I don't like you.

3.) I already said I wasn't a nice guy, because I obsess over her, cut myself, and intend to rape her in the near future, while sacrificing small kittens with my fellow cult members.

 

[Ghostrider87]

Being able to get married makes me less of a loser, for one. Besides, who said that I can't win the fights I pick?

I said you can't win fights that you pick. Another thing if you are saying that anyone that has not got married is a loser then you just insulted a lot of people. If you are saying by me not being married makes me a loser that is another thing you are mistaken about.