Nell2ThaIzzay
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lol, wow I certainly didn't expect a 3 page debate to arise out of this.
My 2 cents is that when my mom and dad met, my dad already had a child from a previous marriage. My mom didn't let that stop her from getting with my dad. They are happily married now for 28 years, I was born - into a very happy and healthy family environment - and everything turned out okay.
Sure, not all situations like that turn out okay, but they can. I'm not inherently against dating a girl who has a child. It just depends on if that's a responsibility that I can take on. Honestly, that's one of those things that I'll never know until I'm in the situation. I've had more than a couple of my friends get into relationships with someone who already had children and it was never a problem.
And to be honest, we're not talking about a relationship yet anyways. I think she's cute, and she's a blast to be around. She makes me laugh -constantly- when I'm around her. I think she's interested in me too. That's about all I know right now. I'm still trying to find out ways for her and I to get to know each other better. We're not quite at the "relationship" stage yet. I'm not even sure that her and I are in the "talking" stage yet.
My 2 cents is that when my mom and dad met, my dad already had a child from a previous marriage. My mom didn't let that stop her from getting with my dad. They are happily married now for 28 years, I was born - into a very happy and healthy family environment - and everything turned out okay.
Sure, not all situations like that turn out okay, but they can. I'm not inherently against dating a girl who has a child. It just depends on if that's a responsibility that I can take on. Honestly, that's one of those things that I'll never know until I'm in the situation. I've had more than a couple of my friends get into relationships with someone who already had children and it was never a problem.
And to be honest, we're not talking about a relationship yet anyways. I think she's cute, and she's a blast to be around. She makes me laugh -constantly- when I'm around her. I think she's interested in me too. That's about all I know right now. I'm still trying to find out ways for her and I to get to know each other better. We're not quite at the "relationship" stage yet. I'm not even sure that her and I are in the "talking" stage yet.