JStorm
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Spider-Who, don't know if this will help, but I agree with AM15 for the main reason: she has a boyfriend.
I've been here before and it never turns out well. Honestly, she probably liked the extra attention, other than just from her boyfriend - all people do. Do I shy away from a girl flirting with me at a club or party - no. I enjoy the attention, conversation, etc. When the time comes - if I'm in a relationship - I bow out.
Devil and I met in Atlanta, years ago, because his wife has business there for the weekend. One of her co-workers flirted with me throughout, so much so that Devil even noticed. She had a boyfriend, mentioned him a few times, and I think one of our friends even told me "the hell with it, just try."
Moral of the story, I lived around two hours away and when she got back, I did EXACTLY what you did - the whole Facebook thing. What happened? She started her life back. . now she's married to the dude.
I know this will come off as crude, and I am prepared to take the backlash. . but if I meet a girl - in this exact situation - and there isn't OVERT come-ons, flirting, a phone number given, or a good night kiss she would give to her boyfriend. . then it's a no go.
As MrvlKnight21 says "girl's lie."
I've been here before and it never turns out well. Honestly, she probably liked the extra attention, other than just from her boyfriend - all people do. Do I shy away from a girl flirting with me at a club or party - no. I enjoy the attention, conversation, etc. When the time comes - if I'm in a relationship - I bow out.
Devil and I met in Atlanta, years ago, because his wife has business there for the weekend. One of her co-workers flirted with me throughout, so much so that Devil even noticed. She had a boyfriend, mentioned him a few times, and I think one of our friends even told me "the hell with it, just try."
Moral of the story, I lived around two hours away and when she got back, I did EXACTLY what you did - the whole Facebook thing. What happened? She started her life back. . now she's married to the dude.
I know this will come off as crude, and I am prepared to take the backlash. . but if I meet a girl - in this exact situation - and there isn't OVERT come-ons, flirting, a phone number given, or a good night kiss she would give to her boyfriend. . then it's a no go.
As MrvlKnight21 says "girl's lie."