*Official* Relationship Advice Thread Strikes Back

[Anubis]

And if she is, bang her on the copy machine.

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

go for what? I just want us to be friends nothing serious and I still think its all in my head.

If you don't want anything to happen, then what's your point? If you don't want anything to happen then don't let it.

 

[NotAHenchwench]

Nell hit the nail right on the head, Kane.

 

[ComicChick]

Nell is learning

 

[Nell2ThaIzzay]

Nell is learning

I'm not hopeless afterall!!!

 

[uchiha_itachi]

So I'm gonna take this girl out...not sure if she's my type...shes like the shopping,blonde make up kinda girl and sweedish.

really aint gonna last for long lol

 

[AVEITWITHJAMON]

Well, I think my situation has finally been sorted out, but its still confusing as hell, on Friday we had a drink and talked all night, seemed to be getting on really well and had a good time, then last night we were out again, she hardly spoke to me all night and was going to a party and didnt even ask me if I wanted to go or say goodbye when she did despite me being right there, is this the biggest hint a girl can give basically that she wants nothing to do with me? Although Friday still confuses me.

 

[knowsbleed]

Maybe she had a booty call... just not with you.

 

[Rhiannon]

So I'm gonna take this girl out...not sure if she's my type...shes like the shopping,blonde make up kinda girl and sweedish.

really aint gonna last for long lol

Dated a couple boys who I had nothing in common with-- one was a total meathead and I'm a bookish, nerdy girl. We never had any stimulating conversations, but it was fun to hang out for a few months. Aside from that time he brought me to a friend's house and there were people with guns there, expecting some kind of drive-by shooting at any minute from a pseudo-gang they were at odds with...



Shopping and makeup: it isn't so bad.

 

[NotAHenchwench]

Dude, shopping for makeup is almost what I live for.

 

[AVEITWITHJAMON]

Maybe she had a booty call... just not with you.

Well that makes me feel better, thanks!

 

[Erzengel]

Well, I think my situation has finally been sorted out, but its still confusing as hell, on Friday we had a drink and talked all night, seemed to be getting on really well and had a good time, then last night we were out again, she hardly spoke to me all night and was going to a party and didnt even ask me if I wanted to go or say goodbye when she did despite me being right there, is this the biggest hint a girl can give basically that she wants nothing to do with me? Although Friday still confuses me.

Doesn't seem like she's interested. Ignore her. Stop trying to go to the bar to visit her.

 

[Frodo]

Sounds to me like she's playing hot and cold . Time to move on other wise she'll drive you nuts trying to figuare out whether she wants you or not.

 

[Anubis]

Go after her best friend.

 

[AVEITWITHJAMON]

Doesn't seem like she's interested. Ignore her. Stop trying to go to the bar to visit her.

Sounds to me like she's playing hot and cold . Time to move on other wise she'll drive you nuts trying to figuare out whether she wants you or not.

The thing is Frodo, I know she likes me, she was the one who threw the lips on me when we first met, despite me giving no indication I liked her, and every time i'm in the bar and look up, she is staring at me and quickly looks away, which makes it all the more confusing.

But yeah i'm going to leave it now as its just giving me a headache I dont need, I wont be able to ignore her completely as she's friends with a lot of mine, but i'm just going to ignore her as much as possible, she's definately playing hot and cold and I for one cant be bothered with trying to understand it, that kiss seems so long ago now! Thanks again for all the advice peeps.

 

[AVEITWITHJAMON]

Go after her best friend.

Ha ha cant she's seeing one of my friends and i'd never do that! Thanks for the advice though!

 

[BlackLantern]

Well that makes me feel better, thanks!

o well, you lost that round....move on

 

[AVEITWITHJAMON]

o well, you lost that round....move on

Going to my friend dont worry!

 

[amazingfantasy15]

So I'm gonna take this girl out...not sure if she's my type...shes like the shopping,blonde make up kinda girl and sweedish.

really aint gonna last for long lol

A girl liking shopping and makeup?!?! Holy crap! Maybe you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover, also what does being blond and sweddish have to do with anything? Why'd you ask the girl out in the first place if you think you have nothing in common?

Well, I think my situation has finally been sorted out, but its still confusing as hell, on Friday we had a drink and talked all night, seemed to be getting on really well and had a good time, then last night we were out again, she hardly spoke to me all night and was going to a party and didnt even ask me if I wanted to go or say goodbye when she did despite me being right there, is this the biggest hint a girl can give basically that she wants nothing to do with me? Although Friday still confuses me.

When you were out on Friday did anything physical happen, did you make any moves? If the answer is no to both, you're in the friendzone now and Saturday just confirms you ain't getting out of it.

 

[Mac_Hine]

Oh the dreaded friendzone. It's like a black hole. You can't get out of it. Not even light could escape it. But hey, lesson learned.

 

[Anita18]

A girl liking shopping and makeup?!?! Holy crap! Maybe you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover, also what does being blond and sweddish have to do with anything? Why'd you ask the girl out in the first place if you think you have nothing in common?

In college, my physics TA looked the epitome of a blonde ditz (although she was more naturally beautiful than artificially so...) and after college, went to Oxford to do a PhD in physics.

Yeah, don't judge a book by its cover.

 

[Kane52630]

Oh the dreaded friendzone. It's like a black hole. You can't get out of it. Not even light could escape it. But hey, lesson learned.

unless if you are the rebound

 

[Erzengel]

I always thought I'd be with a girl with dark hair and light eyes, etc. and porcelain skin and that was my "type".

I ended up with a half black/hispanic and white girl.

So much for having a type.

 

[Anubis]

Oh the dreaded friendzone. It's like a black hole. You can't get out of it. Not even light could escape it. But hey, lesson learned.

Actually, there is a way out of the friendzone. Only problem is in order to get out, you gotta be the exact opposite of the type of person who gets stuck in the friendzone.

 

[Lord Valumart]

So, I'm thinking I done a really stupid thing last week...

A week ago on Saturday I was a ta Wedding reception for a woman I work with. Now another woman brought these two girls that worked with us a few years ago. Now one of these girls I really fancied when she worked there about two years ago. We hung out for a bit at the wedding and she was just as amazing as I remembered her being.

Now on Friday just gone I asked the woman at work who is still friends with her if I could have her number to ask her out. She said she'd ask her if it was ok. I instantly regreted this and now I do think I've done something stupid. Well, not really stupid, but just a bit stupid...

Have I?