I am sorry Vid Electricz if I gave you the wrong impression or made you feel as though you were being attacked, but some of the comments you've made have been nasty and insulting. Everyone who thinks that looks do play into MJ's character is not just some "ignorant" "pedantic" "pathetic" "childish" "uninformed" fanboy. That, my friend, is a "lame" attempt to undermine MY argument(your words), and you've essentially vilified yourself. As Spund said, you are clearly an intelligent person and capable of debating an issue, but your arguments are laced with blatantly rude and condescending remarks.
We can agree to disagree about 616 MJ, Raimi's MJ, and Webb's future MJ, but resorting to insults over a disagreement that is so petty(a fictional character) is ridiculous.
I have never been one to insult Shailene's appearance- I think she's very pretty- but based on her performances I think that there may be better choices for this particular character. Acting ability is important, but (unrealistic comic book beauties aside) the look and feel of the character matters as well. 616 MJ is a bit of a maneater and a seductress. Shailene just doesn't strike me as that type of girl. Then again, Webb may choose to lose that aspect of the character... or ...better yet, I may be totally wrong about her, but time will tell.
Moving on:
In my opinion, 616 Mary Jane Watson IS an
"interesting, realistic, multivalent", and three dimensional female character, despite being one of the most gorgeous women in comic book lore. I believe that her type of "physical attractiveness"
does play an important role in her character development (unlike Gwen, Liz, Betty, etc), without undermining her strength of character. I think that she is a very positive female role model. She's confident, opinionated, and anything but the damsel in distress archetype. For crying out loud, this woman was able to outwit the Chameleon (a master of disguise) and kick his ass. What has Raimi's MJ done besides screaming at the top of her lungs for Spider-Man to save her? One of the reasons why most people who haven't read the comics can't stand the character.
And this isn't coming from some "uninformed" pervy fanboy. It's coming from a person who's read the comics, appreciates the character, and is looking forward to seeing her come to life on the big screen.