Serene said:
He did? Because last I saw, he chose not to love her, or at least not to be with her.. and from where she stands, is there a difference?
But he did love her and I'm sure he still does, and I think she knows that and I can also completely understand that she has had enough of the bull****.
As far as her supposed knowing that he was lying to her - whether she knew or not.. does that make it better? So, even if she did suspect he was lying to her.. he's still breaking it off, in no uncertain terms. I'm not sure I would have wanted her to grovel at that point and beg him to stay with her because she suspected that he still loved her and was just breaking it off again for some reason. Enough is enough..
I wouldnt want her to grovel either, that was what he was trying to avoid by breaking it off with her so uncermoniously. He did start a sentence by saying he didnt want to hurt her, but Lana has this habit of cutting him off whenever he tries to explain something to her.
Me, I would have groveled..because, you know.. it's CLARK.
But *ideally* I don't think that would have been easy or very realistic to watch.
Me too.


And I think she'll realise that, but it'll be too late.
If you remember back to Arrival Lana asked Clark if he believed in life on other planets. He answered her honestly that he did and he even went to the crash site. Then by Hidden she was saying people look at you funny when you start talking about spaceship and aliens. I think she chose to believe that no one would take her seriously because of the way Lex treated her in Arrival.
Lana made the mistake of turning to Lex in Splinter. That's when Lana
also started lying to Clark and when their relationship started to go south.
Besides.. her anger was part of the setup for her turning so quickly to Lex for comfort.
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. It is interesting to watch, but I dont like to see people who love each other hurt each other. I have no doubt that they will come back stronger as a result.

She made it clear to him that she was willing to wait for the truth - she did not push him away.. quite the opposite.
Well I think she started to push him away before that. She pushed him for answers in Fanatic, which is when she should have been giving him time. She pushed him to the point that he had to tell her in Reckoning, and it was pretty clear at that time she wasnt ready for the truth. So he was right in not telling her.
By the time we get to Hypnotic he can see that by having her wait for him to be ready was never going to happen, because of what happened prior, that's why he let her go.
FWIW, I think she IS owed the truth.. just as any woman who he claims to love enough to want to marry should be.
She is owed the truth up to a point. Its a pretty HUGE secret that he is carrying around with him and he HAS to be sure that whoever he shares it with is ready for the responsibility of it. As I said she showed us in Reckoning that she wasnt ready for the responsibility.
His future with Lois will work because she WILL know the truth. Without that, the relationship would never be complete.
But he has the benefits in the future of just being able to be plain old Clark Kent. Now if Lois were to have a relationship with Superman things woud be completely different.
Damn.. I keep trying to avoid the Lana debates. They just bum me out.
I'm not going to have any threads left to post in soon.
You shouldnt get bummed out, its just a discussion and I dont HATE Lana. You know that. But I will always look at things more clearly from Clark's point of view. What can I say, I'm a sucker for good looking guys with Super powers and a great body.
