Here's a TPB link which is comprehensive and has chronological order as well. Plus it's not just Superman but has Marvel and DC comics listed. There might be more but I haven't explored it much or recently.
http://tplist.millarworld.net/index.html
As for recommendations I'm still out of touch with comics. And may take years to catch up (if I can ever do so). But you've listed some of them. There's also Byrne's reboot from 1986 to kind of understand how he changed plus "Up, Up and Away" which is newer and introduces the reality of OYL (One Year Later which I presume you know about).
Do you read Superman/Batman? Also JLA/Justice League (of America)? 'Cos there's good stories there too but you might already know them (better than me too).
Angeloz