Nah son. Doc Ock and Green Goblin are mad because Spider-Man consistently ruins their plans, and even puts them in prison. That is solid reasoning to hate his guts.
The idiot known as Eddie Brock on the other hand hates Spider-Man because Eddie published a news story about Sin Eater's identity that turned out to be false when Spidey caught the real Sin Eater. He got fired and his life went to crap, and he blames Spidey for that. All Spidey did was catch a serial killer. He didn't even know Eddie from Adam. They never met. Spidey was not an obstacle to Eddie writing a good honest news story. But Brock, being the weak minded moron he is, blames the hero who captured the serial killer.
Comic book Venom has one of the stupidest motives in comic book history. He's also one of the most overrated characters ever. Why is he considered a top Spidey villain, who some rank beside Goblin and Ock? Because he has similar powers to Spidey? Whoop dee doo. He knows Spidey's identity? Big deal. What's he ever done with that? Stalk him? Scare MJ once? Pathetic and boring.
What did Goblin do when he learned Spidey's identity? Killed Gwen. What did Ock do when he found out Spidey's identity? Killed Peter himself and stole his body. That's not even counting all the other major stuff these guys did like Captain Stacy's death, hospitalizing Aunt May, making Peter and MJ lose their baby etc. Venom has never done anything that hard hitting. Not even close.
Venom is a classic example of style over substance. A character who rose to popularity because of cool look and powers. Scratch that surface and there's not much underneath. That's why Marvel writers are always palming the Venom symbiote off on anyone, from the freakin' Scorpion to Flash Thompson.
And as for Venom making Spidey fear for his loved ones, and run for his life, both Ock and Gobby did that to Spidey long before Venom's overrated ass ever showed up. Spider-Man used to s*** himself every time he was around Norman for fear Norman would strike at his loved ones. And it eventually happened when Gwen copped it. He had Doc Ock living under the same roof as Aunt May once, which ended with May having a stroke and being hospitalized.
Ock put the fear of god so badly into Spidey once that Spider-Man went and said goodbye to all his friends and loved ones because he was sure Ock was going to kill him in an upcoming battle of vengeance Ock swore on him (this was right after Ock beat Black Cat to near death which put her on life support in intensive care). One of my all time favorite stories called The Long Goodbye:
See that's the difference between Gobby and Ock with Venom. They earned their fearsome A-list status as his deadliest greatest enemies. Venom never did. Venom is a trash character who is not fit to lick Ock and Goblin's shoes. In fact I'd rate just about every major Spidey villain that Stan Lee created over that long tongued, brain eating, pathetic excuse for a villain.