One of the things that I love about these movies are the CHARACTERS. It's more than just the action and wham bang pow! It's the internal and external conflicts that these characters have to deal with...
A couple of the complaints, I really can't get.... for starters, didn't Harry get amnesia in the comics??? Hello, that's something Stan Lee came up with- NOT RAIMI. It's part of the history and Raimi used that turn perfectly. He used this plot device from the comics to harken back to the day that Peter, Harry and MJ were all friends and then that all came tumbling back down when MJ left him. To me personally, I loved this because it was a similar paralllel to Harry's journey in the first Spider-Man. Harry walks in on MJ and Peter and then he goes to his father and tells him that he's right about everything...
This movie has perhaps the most poetic scene and artistic scene that I have ever seen on film- and that is the creation of Sandman. That shot and how they did that was perfectly executed and came off like a piece of beautiful poetry.
Yeah, Peter was retro... but, hey he was also cool and sadistic as well. Is this that hard to remember? "Good Riddence", "Oh, is Goblin Jr. going to cry?" Peter was out-right sadistic in this film! He got a kick out of making people suffer... he got a certain high from it. Sure it was mixed in with some humor, but it worked... it was fun all up to the moment Peter knocks MJ to the ground. That scene, in both audiences I've seen it with, caused a "oh ****!" reaction. It was kind of like being snapped out of a dream or some kind of power trip- the exact emotion that Peter felt during that scene of realization hit everyone across the room that you can almost litterally feel it. Now that's powerful stuff right there, it was set up as "being bad is fun" to have that scene of realization carry that impact.
Peter crying complaints? Well, remember- Uncle Ben's death is the most impactful moment in Peter's life, so of course he is still going to be carrying around the same feelings he had the night Uncle Ben died. MJ's leaving him? Peter was going to ask MJ to mary him and to be rejected like that- am I one of the only people man enough to admit that if I ever loved a woman that much, to mary her, to see all that taken away in an instant would make me cry? MJ isn't just his girl friend, MJ was the one- the woman he was going to marry... huge difference. And then we've got, hmm- crying over his best friends death. All of these moments, people would usually cry unless their emotionally hollow.
Okay, now that I've gotten all of that out of the way. Much better the second time around. I would say equal to the second. And just a plug- stay tuned to the forums and my sig for a 'Spider-Man 4' screenplay that I cooked up that should be premiering sometime this week.