Don't be too hard on yourself!
I was pretty stupefied about how amazing this movie was, and I'm sure I missed certain things... But I really did try to soak it all up as much as I could!
I did go in with great expectations, but all the while I still had this sick feeling in my stomach that I'd been sucked into the hype, that I'd seen the best this movie had to offer, and I let a few bad apples worry me with their reviews... But as the movie rolled along, I had a hard time keeping my jaw off the floor...
When this started, and I saw how hard Favreau was working to make this successful, I really was geeked and had a gut feeling that this would be the comic movie we'd been waiting for;
he really cared what the fans had to say, and he knew the importance of not deviating too far from the comics if it wasn't necessary, he's one of the first comic book movie directors to realize that the pool of ideas in the Marvel mythos is vast enough so that you don't need to interject some fresh ideas and go your own direction...
I'm no Iron Man expert, but to me this felt more like a Iron Man movie then Spider-Man felt like a Spidey movie, or that X-Men felt like a X-men movie... Just blown away man... BLOW AWAY