Were you the bully or the...."bullee" in school?

What was your role in the educational jungle?

  • I was the one getting the daily swirlie

  • I kicked the **** out of geeks during my lunch period

  • I got occasionally picked on, but not seriously

  • I picked on other people, but it was all just jolly good ribbing


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So will mine, daughter/son, when I have one. I think that learning martial arts is good for children. It teaches them discipline and how to use what they've learned to protect themselves.

Self-discipline is something so many kids lack these days. Being involved in something like martial arts or music can help them quite a bit in that aspect and that can lead to good self-esteem levels, which is something most kids struggle with anyway.

jag
 
I was kinda both, some of the big guys picked on me, and in turn I enjoyed dealing my wrath over the smaller weaker kids. Girls too sometimes.
 
As the only black kid in the majority of my classes; most bullies left me alone out of fear of committing a hate crime. I had Cochran's number on speed dial too :o
 
As the only black kid in the majority of my classes; most bullies left me alone out of fear of committing a hate crime. I had Cochran's number on speed dial too :o
That's how it always is in that situation, particularly in a suburban school that's mostly white.

Those kids fear that back hand of the black kid.
 
I was neither. Thankfully, I was treated nicely by everyone and I tried to be kind to all.
 
I never got picked on or picked on anyone else. I was well liked. I guess I was a normal school kid.
 
I was a bully. I just liked to fight (still do really, I just channel it in Martial Arts training). Used to pretend to be Wolverine or a Wrestler (me and a friend would be Hawk & Animal) in grade school. We particularly abused this one kid. Still not sure why, we were just being kids, Law of the Jungle type stuff. I grew out of it by middle school.
 
Throughout my grade school years, I was always bullied. It started up in the first grade, when I attended a city elementary school. I was the victim of racial violence, being one of three white kids in the room: every day they waited for me in the lunch line and leaving school. The routine went something like this: they saw me in the lunch line, made a beeline (exclaiming/calling, "Whitebread motherf***er") for me, and began the festivities by punching me in the stomach and/or my nose. I usually left with a bloody nose. Then, they pushed me and started tearing my clothes/drawing on my new clothes with a permanent marker. They would continue until the teacher made the yearly appearance, and then left off. Leaving school, they waited at the front entrance, and ambushed me. It became so bad that I stayed in school well until everybody had left, then I would go outside.
The school refused to help.
Finally, we relocated (after all, the only other educational alternative was a Christian school,and my parents wanted me to have a solid education,) and I ended up going to a rural school. Not much of an improvement. On the first day at 'Valley, I was sitting outside reading a book when the twins in my class came up, tore the book in half, pinned me down, and ran off with my shoes. So, if you want to have an idea of what my years in the country were like, there's a film that captures the society of the sticks well: Deliverance. And, I am not exaggerating.

I never did anything to attract attention - I spoke rarely, and never brandished my grades as others did - but, I was an easy target. It was not until high school that I finally lashed back. I was not a weakling, but refused to bring myself down to the level of the heathens. However, during the last week in the city school, I grabbed the ringleader and pinned him against the wall. I looked at him and said,"This ends now."
However, I never found out if it worked, because it was my last day of school there.
At the 'Valley, the moronic evil I battled was a hydra: every bully that ceased was replaced by another one. Generations of inbreeding do terrible, but astonishing things...
 
I was neither, really. I never bullied anyone, and I never got bullied in return. I guess I got lucky.
 
I got somewhat picked on (most of the time it was just harmless ribbing) in Middle School because i was the new kid but in High School it was way different, I was liked by almost everybody and the ribbing was amongst friends.
 
I was a beef squasher in High School. I was part of this program that would use high school students for conflict resolutions.
 
The thing is part of the reason people get bullied (and i'm only speaking for the harmless ribbing) is because they lack in sense of humor. Just because someone made fun of your shirt or whatever does not mean you have to get uptight and think they are after you.
 
Frick I saw jag's post at the top of the page and got all excited. Then I noticed the date :csad:

None of the poll options apply to me.
 
I was bullied by three people during middle and high school. Tenth grade year I snapped and stood up to one(Bully #3). Dealing with each of them made me more jaded/cynical. I am glad it happened though, it was a reminder of what not to become.

Bully #1: Died in a car accident a few months ago while being an idiot.

Bully #2: Now overweight and a father.

Bully #3: Dropped out during Junior Year and have not seen him since.

Now in my twenties I find that dealing with "friends" is a lot more trouble than dealing someone who is an ******* to me directly.
 
I was somewhere in the middle... I got bullied a lot by stronger, tougher kids, and then I bullied those weaker than me in return...

It was a s***ty system, and I'm ashamed to admit it, but I was 8 to 12 years old at the time...

I was pretty much left alone by the time High School kicked in, and I walked along the New Wave/Punk Rock kids and felt part of a gang for the time ever...

:yay:

Basically this. Minute the whole New Wave thing.
 
I was the guy that never started **** or took **** from anyone. Everyone saw how little of ****s I gave any quite literally just left me alone.

Made friends that way, which is beyond me now. lol
 
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I was the bullied one. Nothing serious, now when I look back at it, but it was enough to create parts of my current personality that I'm ashamed of. I also do my own private happy dance when a bully get their comeupence in a movie. LOVED, Let Me In!
 
Yeah, I loved seeing young teenage kids brutally slaughtered in a swimming pool! :up:
 
I got picked on a couple of times, but nothing serious or traumatizing. I did have a boy harass me one time though, so i had my dad go to school and talk to my teacher lol. After growing up i realized that's what boys to do girls when they like them :oldrazz:
 
We used to do something called muffing people. All you did was push someone down by the back of their head. It was stupid, and every dude did it back then. Sometimes it got heated because someone did it on the wrong day, but no beefs came because of it.

Personally I know I took it too far with one person in particular. His name was Ahmad, and we were cool all throughout high school. I was one of the strongest people in school, so when I would muff someone they would go flying. We also used to push each other because we were stupid teens in high school, and when I pushed someone they went pretty far. Eventually people kept wanting me to push people and all, and I know I took it too far with Ahmad. Sometimes I'd even "score" way too hard on him because I would make fun of him making bad grades. I was no good with the verbal ribbing because to me no topic is off limits. In the end it was all good ribbing to all of us, but I feel bad for some of the **** I said and did sometimes.

No one really got bullied after elementary though. Sure people used to make fun of other people, but that's just how it is in high school. That's just how it was at my high school. of course people had beef with each other, but no one was bullied because it was always a two way street of talking **** to each other.
 
It depends what you mean by bullied. I was mocked a bit the first few years of secondary school but I wouldn't really call it bullying. It didn't happen like every day, more like once a month and wasn't even that bad. When I got more confidant they stopped.

Never bullied anyone nor do I think I ever could. I don't like hurting people's feelings for no good reason other than my own gratification. Don't see the point.
 
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