When did you lose it?

[Lantern Venom]

An answer + a soapbox moment or two:

I was 25, and now I think I should have waited longer. Complex story.

When I see people talk about losing their virginity in high school, I'm shocked. I never even contemplated it, even with my closest girlfriends.

When I see people losing it in college, it's a little less shocking. Still, ask yourself if you know what you want to do with your life and if you want a bond with the person you are sleeping with forever? Condoms break and pills don't always work.

Lastly, your perspective on sex may change in 15-20 years. I have a wonderful wife and I still enjoy sex very much but I wonder why I spent so much time from around age 16 to about age 28, thinking about it. Yes, it's wonderful but it's NOT worth risking an unwanted pregnancy, the emotional pain of an abortion, or a disease. Just wait, kids. Your time will come.

 

[imdaly]

An answer + a soapbox moment or two:

I was 25, and now I think I should have waited longer. Complex story.

When I see people talk about losing their virginity in high school, I'm shocked. I never even contemplated it, even with my closest girlfriends.

When I see people losing it in college, it's a little less shocking. Still, ask yourself if you know what you want to do with your life and if you want a bond with the person you are sleeping with forever? Condoms break and pills don't always work.

Lastly, your perspective on sex may change in 15-20 years. I have a wonderful wife and I still enjoy sex very much but I wonder why I spent so much time from around age 16 to about age 28, thinking about it. Yes, it's wonderful but it's NOT worth risking an unwanted pregnancy, the emotional pain of an abortion, or a disease. Just wait, kids. Your time will come.

Unintentional puns are great.

 

[Lantern Venom]

Unintentional puns are great.

You're welcome.

 

[enterthemadness]

An answer + a soapbox moment or two:

I was 25, and now I think I should have waited longer. Complex story.

When I see people talk about losing their virginity in high school, I'm shocked. I never even contemplated it, even with my closest girlfriends.

When I see people losing it in college, it's a little less shocking. Still, ask yourself if you know what you want to do with your life and if you want a bond with the person you are sleeping with forever? Condoms break and pills don't always work.

Lastly, your perspective on sex may change in 15-20 years. I have a wonderful wife and I still enjoy sex very much but I wonder why I spent so much time from around age 16 to about age 28, thinking about it. Yes, it's wonderful but it's NOT worth risking an unwanted pregnancy, the emotional pain of an abortion, or a disease. Just wait, kids. Your time will come.

Good post. But it's hard, when I see to be horny almost every day. Then when I see someone who is attractive, bang, I'm horny again. I'm like 'omg, I might explode down below.'

 

[Wiseman]

Good post. But it's hard, when I see to be horny almost every day. Then when I see someone who is attractive, bang, I'm horny again. I'm like 'omg, I might explode down below.'

I know, I get so horny sometimes I see my dog humping the mailman's leg and I just can't take it, I join in on the other leg

 

[Captain_BluTac]

Good post. But it's hard, when I see to be horny almost every day. Then when I see someone who is attractive, bang, I'm horny again. I'm like 'omg, I might explode down below.'

Hehehehe, I bet it is. 24/7/365.

 

[Doctor Jones]

Still a virgin, but I'm 17, so I can wait.

Do I think about it? Hell yes. What boy doesn't at my age? But I'm not gonna wait until marriage. I'll do it when the time is right and when it's comfortable with the both of us. And it won't be because we have to prove something. It's part of love and when you feel it, go for it, but do it when you think it's right. And don't be like Superman.

 

[enterthemadness]

I know, I get so horny sometimes I see my dog humping the mailman's leg and I just can't take it, I join in on the other leg

Damn.

Hehehehe, I bet it is. 24/7/365.

Thing is, my horny level comes and goes. It died in my senior year a lot, but omg...when I worked at Walmart for the last almost 2 years before quitting like a month ago...it's at defcon ****ing 3 horny.

Still a virgin, but I'm 17, so I can wait.

Do I think about it? Hell yes. What boy doesn't at my age? But I'm not gonna wait until marriage. I'll do it when the time is right and when it's comfortable with the both of us. And it won't be because we have to prove something. It's part of love and when you feel it, go for it, but do it when you think it's right. And don't be like Superman.

don't thrust into her really hard? Wear a condom?

 

[Majic Walrus]

Still a virgin, but I'm 17, so I can wait.

Do I think about it? Hell yes. What boy doesn't at my age? But I'm not gonna wait until marriage. I'll do it when the time is right and when it's comfortable with the both of us. And it won't be because we have to prove something. It's part of love and when you feel it, go for it, but do it when you think it's right. And don't be like Superman.

Yeah... *****es hates when you heat vision their clothes off and fly-**** 'em.

 

[Captain_BluTac]

Thing is, my horny level comes and goes. It died in my senior year a lot, but omg...when I worked at Walmart for the last almost 2 years before quitting like a month ago...it's at defcon ****ing 3 horny.

Little thing called boredom my friend.

 

[AndThePickles]

17 years old

 

[Trainwreck2100]

I lost my sunglasses yesterday

Spoiler

they cost 8 dollars

 

[The Squirrel]

I'll let you know when I lose it.

 

[Ring Deacon]

I lost mine 20 years ago so that must make me very old.

 

[Ace of Knaves]

Lost mine at 15. But to be honest I think I have an unfair advantage over most people, I'm from Essex, where the girls love it. Where I live at the moment I could literally go downstairs to the shop outside my block and get a bird up to my flat pretty easily. Doesn't mean I'm a stud or anything like that, means the birds round here are slags!

But it doesn't make you a loser if you haven't lost your v-plates. And it doesn't make you some pimp daddy if you lose your v-plates when you are younger.

 

[Go Web Go!]

November 24th, 2002, following a screening of Die Another Day. She went on to break my heart a month later.

I had just turned 17.

 

[Eric Brooks]

But it doesn't make you a loser if you haven't lost your v-plates.

TRYING TO SAY I'M NOT A LOSER?

 

[Ace of Knaves]

No, course not. I just noticed some posts by the OP. Seemed like he was ashamed that he hasn't had sex yet. I was just saying it isn't a bad thing, there is nothing to be ashamed about.