The flip side of that statement, that he feels de-aged, is that a lot of us say that the marriage "aged" him. I never thought that was a good thing.
I can understand that point, and though I don't agree with it, I can understand wanting to retcon, or get rid of the marriage.
But the problem lies in the fact that they did a half assed job. Supposed everything in PEter life happened, except for Marriage Specific things. Yet they are making him act as if he is"fresh out of high school" Peter, who hasn't learned anything from living with a women (Pete and MJ DID still live together, right?) fighting supervillians and going through all the things he's delt with.
In essence, it feels like he grew, then regressed for no logical reason. And I lose respect for people who do that in real life.
So I see this change like that. Eventually, things will equilibrate again.
I dunno, I mean, the stories are decent. In 50 years, I could give an issue of BND to my grandkid, and we could be like "Hey, here's a good, random issue of Spider-man", but reading it now doesn't feel like the same character that (apparently) grew as a person.
Again, if they went balls out with a full retcon, it wouldn't be a problem because if they went back in time or something, or pretended the relationship never existed, you wouldn't have the "grow/regress" thing that bugs a lot of people.
So in not wanting to piss people off by making a bunch of stories "never happen", they STILL pissed of those people by making Peter as a character un-respectable. They should have just went balls out.
And yes, I like that term. Balls. Out.
