I lost both my mother and grandmother this year, just a month apart from each other. In my grandmothers final few days my mum found out she had pancreatic cancer. She didn't want my grandmother to know as she didn't want that to be her last thought before she passed, so she kept it to herself. Just two months later my mother was was gone too. It's not days apart like this situation but having not gotten over the grieving of my grandmother yet and then losing my mother has been the hardest time in my life. I can identify with Carrie's Daughter a great deal. I just hope she deals with it better than I did. Poor girl.