Sometimes I think the X-Men have the same dilemma as the Inhumans; they complain about all the prejudice against them, yet at nearly every opportunity act like complete ***hats.
Cyclops was also the guy who decided to send home all the X-students who were depowered on M day, because it isn't like the X-Mansion is a school that wants to promote harmony between mutants and norms (and if it is, isn't interested in leading by example). In the name of safety. They're promptly bombed to death on a bus.
I actually like Cyclops, but these last few years, he's done some harsh stuff.