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[Erzengel]

I really want to smell Jennifer Aniston's perfume. According to her, it smells like: "the ocean, sea air, blooming jasmine, and tropical oils. It's my memories of California nights in the summer."

If it smells like that for real, it will instantly become my favorite perfume and I will buy it forever! Haha

I thought it would smell of bitterness and not moving on.

 

[AndThePickles]

Don't hate! I love:heart::heart: Jen.

 

[NotAHenchwench]

I thought it would smell of bitterness and not moving on.

I love you for this, Erz. Sooo much.

 

[Anita18]

I thought it would smell of bitterness and not moving on.

 

[AndThePickles]

Ew, I'm assuming you guys like Homewrecker Jolie

 

[katie_girl09]

I guess so. Of course, I don't understand why some people seem to think that they have to hate Jennifer Aniston to like Angelina Jolie. I think Aniston handled the whole ordeal with class. She moved on and didn't even talk about it until just recently. She should be commended, not made fun of.

 

[AndThePickles]

I guess so. Of course, I don't understand why some people seem to think that they have to hate Jennifer Aniston to like Angelina Jolie. I think Aniston handled the whole ordeal with class. She moved on and didn't even talk about it until just recently. She should be commended, not made fun of.

I agree Having your marriage end can't be easy; I think she did the best she could to handle it well.

 

[Hound55]

I guess so. Of course, I don't understand why some people seem to think that they have to hate Jennifer Aniston to like Angelina Jolie. I think Aniston handled the whole ordeal with class. She moved on and didn't even talk about it until just recently. She should be commended, not made fun of.

I think people are more making fun of the charicature of Jen that the tabloids have helped create than the actual Jennifer Aniston.

 

[Anita18]

Ew, I'm assuming you guys like Homewrecker Jolie

Personally I think the tabloids make up a lot of drama that doesn't exist. I'm sure Jen is doing perfectly fine, no matter how much the tabloids try to spin her love life. They're just trying to make their readers feel okay with their love life failures.

What's funny to me is how adamant the tabloids are that Jen is desperate to settle down, etc etc. They're just trying to draw out the drama that's passed years ago, IMO.

I like Jolie since she and Brad seem to be good parents and they do a lot of humanitarian work. Heck if I know what their love lives are really like.

 

[NotAHenchwench]

Ew, I'm assuming you guys like Homewrecker Jolie

Well, I've always seen it this way: If Brad didn't want to be with Angelina, he would have stayed with Jennifer. It was a two way street, and Brad is more the homewrecker than Angelina.

I'm of the mind that if some other woman thinks she can take my man from me, she's off her rocker. If he CHOOSES to go to her, then I'm finished with him. It's that simple. Homewrecker status belongs to the male, not the female.

I never understood the hate for Angelina instead of Brad. Seriously, think about it. HE CHOSE to leave. How is Angelina at fault for that?

 

[AndThePickles]

I'm not a fan of either of them, to be honest. And it takes two to tango- I think that Jolie and Brad are equally at fault. She knew he was a married man, and he's an ass for leaving his wife the way he did. But I also never cared for Jolie long before the relationship drama went down.

 

[Erzengel]

I don't care either way. I just thought it was funny.

But, yeah the Tabloids don't help. I remember one of the People's magazines that was like 5 Years After Brad and what she was doing now. And I was like really?

I'm all for the sanctity of marriage but I always felt that Pitt wanted kids and Aniston wanted to focus on her career. *snicker* Again, not defending anyone, just saying that there could be hidden aspects that people may not be aware of.

 

[NotAHenchwench]

And the subject of kids is NEVER something you can compromise on in a relationship. At all. If you don't want children and you're with someone who does, better to end it sooner than later so you don't get hurt.

/soapbox.

 

[Anita18]

And the subject of kids is NEVER something you can compromise on in a relationship. At all. If you don't want children and you're with someone who does, better to end it sooner than later so you don't get hurt.

/soapbox.

Yeah I agree.

My cousins exist because when I was born, my uncle took one look at me and decided he really REALLY wanted kids too. His wife didn't REALLY want kids but went along anyway. Now that they're in their teens, the older college-age daughter doesn't like her mom at all and the parents (now divorced) are in the middle of a bitter custody battle over the younger son who they completely disagree on how to raise.

Oh, and my family is unofficially siding with my aunt since we're blood relatives. I say unofficially because I was apparently the only one who talked to said uncle at my cousin's bar mitzvah. He was nice as always, and I didn't know that we were supposed to be enemies until my mom (who wasn't present) told me later. My response was, "Why? He's still Uncle Bruce to me!"

I don't understand why people always have to "pick sides" with these things. It's so immature.

 

[NotAHenchwench]

Yeah I agree.

My cousins exist because when I was born, my uncle took one look at me and decided he really REALLY wanted kids too. His wife didn't REALLY want kids but went along anyway. Now that they're in their teens, the older college-age daughter doesn't like her mom at all and the parents (now divorced) are in the middle of a bitter custody battle over the younger son who they completely disagree on how to raise.

Oh, and my family is unofficially siding with my aunt since we're blood relatives. I say unofficially because I was apparently the only one who talked to said uncle at my cousin's bar mitzvah. He was nice as always, and I didn't know that we were supposed to be enemies until my mom (who wasn't present) told me later. My response was, "Why? He's still Uncle Bruce to me!"

I don't understand why people always have to "pick sides" with these things. It's so immature.

I agree with you too. It's ridiculous that so many families are broken up because of a ridiculous "compromise". I'm trying not to turn this into a childfree crusade, but it's difficult, haha.

 

[Anita18]

I agree with you too. It's ridiculous that so many families are broken up because of a ridiculous "compromise". I'm trying not to turn this into a childfree crusade, but it's difficult, haha.

Well it's not to say that couples have to be 100000% sure they want kids before they have them, but if one person really wants kids and the other person doesn't, that's definitely a red flag.

My aunt is a plastic surgeon and wanted to focus entirely on her career. Raising children was something she could obviously do financially, but not emotionally. That's why they originally got divorced - she wanted to take a chance and open her own clinic, but he wanted some stability for the kids.

My mom even said that when my cousins were born, my uncle was the best father she'd ever seen. He took care of everything. It's sad that some members of my family have to ostracize him for that.

 

[NotAHenchwench]

Sorry to hear that, Anita...

 

[Anita18]

Sorry to hear that, Anita...

Thanks, but I think it'll turn out okay. We're a little bit worried about the younger son, but his older sister is a smart gal and I think she'll watch out for him. And no matter what happens with the custody dispute, his dad will always be there as well.

It's just...awkward at family get-togethers.

 

[Harls]

I hope things work out okay, Anita

So, hey guys. I know I haven't really been active on this thread but I decided to pop by and see what's going on Also, I've been easing myself into the idea of exercising daily and whatnot to get in better shape, and I'd like to tone up too, but I can't shake this silly fear of losing too much in the chest. It sounds weird, I know, but I really love my boobs and would be pretty upset if I got the rest of my body trimmed up and then have none at all, you know? Okay, so to the point... have any of you noticed a serious drop in that when exercising and whatnot? I realize that my whole body will lose so of course they will too, and it depends on genetics a lot as well, but.... I figured I'd ask you gals anyways.

 

[AndThePickles]

I hope things work out okay, Anita

So, hey guys. I know I haven't really been active on this thread but I decided to pop by and see what's going on Also, I've been easing myself into the idea of exercising daily and whatnot to get in better shape, and I'd like to tone up too, but I can't shake this silly fear of losing too much in the chest. It sounds weird, I know, but I really love my boobs and would be pretty upset if I got the rest of my body trimmed up and then have none at all, you know? Okay, so to the point... have any of you noticed a serious drop in that when exercising and whatnot? I realize that my whole body will lose so of course they will too, and it depends on genetics a lot as well, but.... I figured I'd ask you gals anyways.

It depends- do you have large breasts because you're overweight, or is it genetic in the first place? I have never lost weight in my chest from working out, but I also had a big chest even back when I was young and 100 pounds, haha.

If you do exercises to strengthen your chest muscles, that will help a bit. However, I do know someone who was fat and then slimmed way down and yes, she lost a good 2 cup sizes.

Try to think of it in terms of improving your health for the rest of your life, though. The better shape you're in, the better chance you have for a longer life expectancy and overall better health! Diet and exercise are so important.

The heat this summer has made me fall off the exercising regularly wagon HARD I feel the difference, too, and not in a good way. I have less energy and I feel less healthy because of it. Exercising will make you feel so much better. If it helps, you and I can both post in this thread to encourage each other!!

 

[Anita18]

Yeah most of it is genetic. I have a friend who's a 30E, and she's ASIAN to boot. Talk about winning the lottery, right? She's not as thin as I am but she's obviously pretty darned petite.

The only way to tell is to look at your other female relatives, really. My aforementioned cousin (with the drama) got boobs from her Jewish father's side. All of us on the Asian side are flat as washboards. I can't even get breast implants or wear push-up bras without looking ridiculous because you can literally do laundry on my chest - my sternum sticks out like woh.

My illness from last fall has made me fall off the exercising wagon hard as well. I did buy some 12-lb weights and I've been trying to lift those at home sorta casually, but it would be nice to get back into the gym to really lift. I can tell when I haven't exercised in a while - my leg muscles start to seize and get restless.

 

[Harls]

AndThePickles, Hmm, my female relatives on both of my parent's sides are pretty well endowed even when they were young and fit, and it passed onto my mother as well, so I should be okay I think. I plan to do a ton of cardio though and for some reason in my mind it's a bit weird.

I expect them to go down a bit but hopefully the rest of me will, too, so even though they will be smaller they will look fine in proportion to the rest of my body, you know? I know girls with smaller cup sizes than me, but with tinier bodies and thus their chests do look bigger, and then I know girls with the same or larger cup sizes than me but they are also heavier than I so mine look bigger. It's strange, haha.

Pickles, I'd love it if we did that here! I used to exercise pretty regularly but then sustained a back injury and pretty much quit. But now, a few weeks ago I bought an elliptical machine (love it!) so I expect to use that quite a lot.... maybe after a month or so I will add in weights again. I used to just totally use weights and I lost inches, but not pounds, so maybe with a combo of cardio + strength training it'll even out. Not that I mind losing inches over pounds anyways

Anita18, 30E, that's crazy! But I personally believe that the female body is the most beautiful thing ever, no matter the size or shape - actually, diversity is what makes us beautiful. If we all were size 2's with giant comic-esque boobs and super long legs, that would just be the norm, so none of us would really be gorgeous, yannow? Besides, more things are sexy about woman than just butts, boobs, and legs :P

The reason why I'm concerned about my breasts is because, well, they're mine and I love them and I'd feel pretty bad if I didn't have them anymore. They aren't really huge at all, 36D, but still... it would be strange having to get used to a whole 'nother body.

Sounds like we've all fallen off the exercise wagon... you should totally post here about how you're doing and stuff with Pickles & I It'll be great encouragement.

I know what you mean about the feeling gross when you don't exercise - I'm there right now. When I eat badly I feel nasty and sluggish and when I don't exercise I feel sleepy and lazy all the time; ick!

Soooo, on that note, I think it's time for a dip in the pool and then a ride on the elliptical. Or perhaps the other way around, iunno.

 

[Erzengel]

It's funny that over the past 10-15 years the average breast size went from 34 B to 36 C in America.

 

[AndThePickles]

Haha, yeah. I still consider 36D to be "big" in terms of breast size

 

[Anita18]

I expect them to go down a bit but hopefully the rest of me will, too, so even though they will be smaller they will look fine in proportion to the rest of my body, you know? I know girls with smaller cup sizes than me, but with tinier bodies and thus their chests do look bigger, and then I know girls with the same or larger cup sizes than me but they are also heavier than I so mine look bigger. It's strange, haha.

Pickles, I'd love it if we did that here! I used to exercise pretty regularly but then sustained a back injury and pretty much quit. But now, a few weeks ago I bought an elliptical machine (love it!) so I expect to use that quite a lot.... maybe after a month or so I will add in weights again. I used to just totally use weights and I lost inches, but not pounds, so maybe with a combo of cardio + strength training it'll even out. Not that I mind losing inches over pounds anyways

Anita18, 30E, that's crazy! But I personally believe that the female body is the most beautiful thing ever, no matter the size or shape - actually, diversity is what makes us beautiful. If we all were size 2's with giant comic-esque boobs and super long legs, that would just be the norm, so none of us would really be gorgeous, yannow? Besides, more things are sexy about woman than just butts, boobs, and legs :P

The reason why I'm concerned about my breasts is because, well, they're mine and I love them and I'd feel pretty bad if I didn't have them anymore. They aren't really huge at all, 36D, but still... it would be strange having to get used to a whole 'nother body.

Losing inches is preferable to pounds, IMO. Muscle is denser than fat so the same amount of muscle would weigh more. That meant you were gaining more muscle while losing fat, especially since you did lose inches.

And yeah, it's all relative. If you lost weight everywhere, your proportions would stay the same.

And it's also how everything sits on our bodies. I'm a B cup but that's because it's spread out. If you just took a look at me, I'd look like an A. My 30E friend doesn't look ridiculously huge, because hers are spread out as well. Otherwise I'd peg her as a D.

Human bodies are all very cool, male or female whatever the shape. But yeah, I know what you mean about being attached to certain body parts. I get sad when my butt shrinks.

It's funny that over the past 10-15 years the average breast size went from 34 B to 36 C in America.

Well, the average American woman HAS gotten heavier in general.