Girl Advice

[heypapajinx]

pass her a note... girls like notes.

 

[Fried Gold]

Yeah, they orgasm whenever you hit F#

 

[heypapajinx]

Yeah, they orgasm whenever you hit F#

uhm.... sure. of course we do.

 

[Erzengel]

Kinda didin't wanna do this...but it's ftw

Anyways, at my school, there is a girl who I really like...And I can't seem to muster up the courage to talk to her because I'm one shy guy.And the thing is I like everything about her...and it's killing me that I can't really talk to her.

Any advice?

 

[Kyalesyin]

Damnit. You got there before I did.

 

[Dangerous]

My advice would be get drunk, then talk to her.

 

[Canadian Rider]

Most woman appreciate you just talking to them.

Be specific and know what you are doing / wanting to do.

"Hi there. I think you're great. Would you be open to having coffee/grabbing some lunch on Friday/Saturday"?

That cuts to the chase and let's her know you want to connect but also let's her let you know what she thinks of you.

If she says she is busy and blows you off then you know. If she says not this week but sets a different day/time ... then go with it and move on from there.

 

[Dangerous]

In all seriousness though,- its just cause you are putting the ***** on a pedestal.

The key is to think/and actually know, that you are the more powerful entity.
That is what your mind set should be when talking to her. Cock sure.

Just make small talk w/ her to start with.
But if you are not feeling like you are above her (in a power sense, not better than her) then she will sense this and not think of you in the way you would like her to think of you.
Talk to her politely, but like you are not at all interested in her in a boy/girl way.

She will sense this, and if you can keep it up and also become her friend she will think you are unlike other guys and mysterious or deep too.
It's basic reverse psychology.

If you are nervous you lose.
Best thing to do is have a wank first.

 

[cujo66]

There's no need to be shy, 10 years from now it isn't going to matter and you'll laugh at the whole situation. I was shy a little and in high school and just dense. I looked back on it years later and realized things that were obvious, girl's who liked me, girls that were a waste of my time.
Just get her attention somehow, if she doesn't know your interested nothings ever going to happen. And who cares if you make a fool of yourself, in a couple of years, you'll never see her again.

 

[Mee]

Kinda didin't wanna do this...but it's ftw

Anyways, at my school, there is a girl who I really like...And I can't seem to muster up the courage to talk to her because I'm one shy guy.And the thing is I like everything about her...and it's killing me that I can't really talk to her.

Any advice?

Write down on a piece of paper, "wanna date me? Check yes or no and send back." Fold it into a paper plane and throw it at her.

 

[Erzengel]

There's no need to be shy, 10 years from now it isn't going to matter and you'll laugh at the whole situation. I was shy a little and in high school and just dense. I looked back on it years later and realized things that were obvious, girl's who liked me, girls that were a waste of my time.
Just get her attention somehow, if she doesn't know your interested nothings ever going to happen. And who cares if you make a fool of yourself, in a couple of years, you'll never see her again.

Actually this is pretty good advice. He's right, you'd be lucky if you talk to like 3 people you went to high school with.

Don't build this up in your head. Just ask her out, if she says yes, fine, no, it's the worst thing she could say.

It won't mean much in a few years.

 

[November Rain]

Kinda didin't wanna do this...but it's ftw

Anyways, at my school, there is a girl who I really like...And I can't seem to muster up the courage to talk to her because I'm one shy guy.And the thing is I like everything about her...and it's killing me that I can't really talk to her.

Any advice?

to cut a story short and fast forward a couple of years/decade

you don't really like her.

once you understand this now,you can ask her out and not worry about the consequences since....that's right....you won't like her somewhere down the line.

you might as well take the level warp instead of going through the emotions of a long dragged out young school fascination, self-embarassment and heartbreaking

 

[Movies205]

Kinda didin't wanna do this...but it's ftw

Anyways, at my school, there is a girl who I really like...And I can't seem to muster up the courage to talk to her because I'm one shy guy.And the thing is I like everything about her...and it's killing me that I can't really talk to her.

Any advice?

Stop being a ***** and ask her on a date

 

[Movies205]

here, just go up to her and say that you think she is the bes thing you ever say in your school and you cant stop thinking about her. then walk away and just ignore her for the rest of the day, hopefully she would be spending alot of the day thinking about what you said and the more she thinks about what you said the more she is thinking about you and slowly her feelings start to grow for you as well.

She'd be creep the **** out... This ain't not ****ing movie, there ain't no crackjack box solution.. She either likes you back or she doesn't, it's the luck of the dice...

 

[Movies205]

While that may be true...I have no idea why the statement "chicks like to talk about themselves" makes you think this. They do. And I'd be willing to bet in any given conversation you do to. That's what conversation usually entails. If you make a point to talk about yourself readily that is poor social skills, especially when you "want" something from the other party. Anything you say about yourself needs to only be in the context of what others say about themselves, otherwise you'll just come across as an arrogant braggart where ever you go.

While I can be manipulative in a conversation, I would only be a sociopath if I did not conform to societal norms...as all sociopathic behavior is constrained around the notion of feeling oneself above laws and ethics.

Don't worry Shadow, I'll always remember you as that guy who's concern about his best bud's sex life because he needs to spread the "wealth"...

 

[Movies205]

4th Post... In this ******ed thread... It occur to me that you barely know this girl, which means she's probably hot hence why you really like her. In which case it means your shallow and way out of your league. If this is the case, then give up. However if you do know her and this is a little deeper than that, then just ask her out... I can't wrap my head on why there are 30+ posts in this thread, it isn't rocket science folks.

 

[Dangerous]

We were just all offereing are different opnions since he asked.
I don't think you have to be a rocket scientist to understand that.

 

[Movies205]

Girls are not mystical beings, there people... Treat them like a person and not some far away goddess, and you'll probably get better results is my point. Passing notes implies your too much of a ***** to talk to them. Telling her how great seh is when you barely know her, implies your creepy and revere her for no reason. Etc... If you know her at all, just go up to her, and ask her on a date. If she doesn't like you at all, she'll say no...

 

[04nbod]

talking is a good start but don't get into the guy who is a friend catagory- i would never date one of my guy friends, ever!

 

[Dangerous]

Girls are not mystical beings, there people... Treat them like a person and not some far away goddess, and you'll probably get better results is my point. Passing notes implies your too much of a ***** to talk to them. Telling her how great seh is when you barely know her, implies your creepy and revere her for no reason. Etc... If you know her at all, just go up to her, and ask her on a date. If she doesn't like you at all, she'll say no...

Ok thats you opinion, and I agree.
Peeps were just posting there own slant.
For eg- my post detailed a particular approach and frame of mind to take, tactically speaking.

 

[Movies205]

Ok thats you opinion, and I agree.
Peeps were just posting there own slant.
For eg- my post detailed a particular approach and frame of mind to take, tactically speaking.

Ah, that's cool... I was just replying to Kaleb's post and for this kid's own benefit making it painfully clear, do not try to pull a movie romance move or something way over the top... they don't work. I mean if a girl doesn't like you, all the roses in the world isn't going change that, but thank god for movies... It's wonderful escapism.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

I'm really sick of these threads.
How on Earth did I ever figure out how to meet girls, tell them I liked them, ask them if they wanted to hang out, get into bed with them and have sex before the internet was around?!?

Go out and live your life. Learn from your mistakes. Enjoy your successes. Don't be an ass**** and don't be a loser. Remember that "girls" are human beings.....Yes, it's true, they have no *****, but they're really a lot like you nonetheless.
That's my "girl advice" for today, geek.

 

[Dangerous]

I like movies too.

Particularly-

1-Faster Pussycat Kill! Kill!
2-Batman Begins
3-Munster, Go Home!
4-Zombie
5-Robocop

 

[Dangerous]

Thats my top 5.

 

[Movies205]

I'm really sick of these threads.
How on Earth did I ever figure out how to meet girls, tell them I liked them, ask them if they wanted to hang out, get into bed with them and have sex before the internet was around?!?

Go out and live your life. Learn from your mistakes. Enjoy your successes. Don't be an ass**** and don't be a loser. Remember that "girls" are human beings.....Yes, it's true, they have no *****, but they're really a lot like you nonetheless.
That's my "girl advice" for today, geek.

Take htat Wilhelm I beat you to the punch... Yes I'm a sad, bored college student who doesn't have class or work on Fridays

Robocop=Awesome but I've seen it so amny times I've decided not to watch it for another ten years.

Zombie- Cool stuff however there's other gallio films I prefer such Deep Red, and in terms of the Living Dead series, Return is my favorite

Batman Begins- It's okay, I prefer 89' but I still dig Begins... The other two I haven't seen