Relationship advice please

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  1. passerby Registered

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    Ok so I have been going out with this girl for about 2 months.She lives about 30 minutes from my house and I can only see her on the weekends, but not all weekends. I am starting to think that I should end it because it is too hard, but I am not sure.

    Any advice?
     
  2. Ronny Shade back for a limited time

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    2 months is way too long a time for a relationship.

    3 weeks max.
     
  3. Batty for Bats! Registered

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    Go with your gut instinct.:cool:
     
  4. deemar325 Registered

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    We are the last people you should be asking, go with your gut ^ as Batty says.
     
  5. passerby Registered

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    I can't I am sure one moment and then I have a dream about her for some reason and then I don't want to break up, but then it changes. Endless cycle.
     
  6. Erzengel |-o-| (-o-) |-o-|

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    30 minutes is far?

    Dude if you want a way out just break up with her. Don't try and come up with a reason.
     
  7. Ronny Shade back for a limited time

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    yeah 30 minutes isnt far. Not with modern day communications and automobiles!

    tell her to join the hype...that way you two can talk every day.
     
  8. jusblaze21 Registered

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    I would'nt end a relationship with somebody I really like because of the amount of time we get to see each other. Maybe both of you should make a better effort to see each other more often. But I agree that you should go with your Instinct.
     
  9. passerby Registered

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    I don't want her to join the Hype. She might find out that I am a geek.
     
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    basically if you dont feel the relationship is not worth any suffering you have to make inorder to make it work.....it isn't worth it. If it is worth it, you wouldnt be on here *****ing about it.
     
  11. ookami Registered

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    Geeks are hot, why not ask her how she feels about the situation, she'll give you the best answer.
     
  12. Erzengel |-o-| (-o-) |-o-|

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    Doesn't sound like a great relationship.

    1) You think she lives too far. Don't you have a car?
    2) You are hiding an aspect of who you are out of a fear she may not like it.

    What are some of the positives?
     
  13. tzarinna Mamochka

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    I don't have enough info.

    Way is it so hard?

    Can we make it a rule that people don't ask such advice so late in the day, I need to sleep.
     
  14. passerby Registered

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    Postitives:
    She would never cheat on me.
    She's nice and we can talk easily at times.

    Negatives:
    Lives far away
    She never starts a conversation I always have to start one.
     
  15. Hades Guest

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    There is one sure simple method that can be done safely at home.

    You whip it out and slap her in the face with it, she either embraces it as a loving gesture or grabs it and shoves it in a waffle maker. Now either result could be horrendous, honestly. I would not recommend it, not unless you have the fire in your belly and the madness in your eyes. For that, that is what living is all about my friend.
     
  16. Dcknight Je Me Souviens

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    it's sure this could be hard, i have a friend that his ex-girlfriend lived like 1 hours from his city...now it's finish but the two had a 2 years relationship...but y'know it depends of you and her...cause if you see her only the weekend so you will stop go out with you're friends cause you missed you,re girlfriend and want to had times with her...for you're friends it's not really a good idea...it's not a bad idea but like i said it depends of you and her! if this girl is awesome and talk to you're friends and want sometimes to be alone with you it's great go with her! And try to see her more then the week ends...So at you to choice
     
  17. Asgard Kanga Fu

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    Call her a d****head and say you want to sleep with prosties. Seriously.

    If she laughs it off and agrees with you sleeping around then she's a keeper. If she gets all indignant and ****, then she ain't worth your time, brother.

    You see, you have to keep it real with the ladies, otherwise they walk all over your ass and all that. You want to snort crack outta some chickenhead's crack? Go for it! Just dont lie about it, ya hear? Hell yeah man. Im not talking out of my ass or anything. Just look at Charlie Sheen. He didnt keep it real and now look where he's at. Making abrasive phone calls and bein a *****. Dont play that man. Front your woman and lay down what it is you want and if she aint down with that then kick her ass to the curb. Believe me, theyre plenty of fishies in the sea.
     
  18. Erzengel |-o-| (-o-) |-o-|

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    Do you drive? A half an hour is not that far try living in another state from a girl.

    So you always have to start a conversation. Some people aren't as open and talkative as others.

    No one is perfect but if you let those idiocyncracies bother you then you have a problem.
     
  19. Calvin Muchas smooches

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    Try another continent.
     
  20. passerby Registered

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    Yes I drive, but I can't go to her house everyday because I have homework and stuff and on weekends I would like to hang out with my friends sometimes.
     
  21. passerby Registered

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    tell me what it's like to be with you
    remind me of the things we used to do
    and tell me that this time will never end
    tell me what it's like tell me again

    ^WTH that is in her profile on AIM. Is she psychic or something!?!?!
     
  22. Calvin Muchas smooches

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    I really wish people would keep their relationships off of the hype.
     
  23. passerby Registered

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    I wish that you would never bother me, but you don't always get what you want.
     
  24. Hades Guest

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    God i'm depressed. Somebody love me
     
  25. Calvin Muchas smooches

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    Yeah, but I deserve to.
     

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