Girl Advice

[Mr. Credible]

Uh, yeah

Like if she looks like one of those Proactiv "before" pictures, a face like strawberry cobbler?
Say, "Nice complexion! Can I touch?"

well, if she looks like a strawberry cobbler, and he isn't like, the thousand pound man, or anything, then he should have no problem at least going up and talking to her.

my point is, that (more or less) everyone on this planet is insecure about something, hence why you see beautiful women every day getting some kind of plastic surgery... even models have to spend countless hours in the gym/dieting/doing drugs to stay the way they look. no one's perfect, and this girl is no different. if she has kind of a big nose, complement it, and so on and so forth... make her feel good about the thing that no one else will bring up, and that sets you apart form the crowd.

 

[Colossal Spoons]

Just talk to her...and make her do most of the talking, chicks like talking about themselves.

Too true

 

[Spider-X]

have you ever talked to her or hung out with her?...because if you haven't, you can't possibly like "everything about her"...if the answer to my question is "no", then it's probably just physical attraction and don't kid yourself past that.

if you want to get to know her then the only thing you can do is talk to her. and the most important thing (and i can't f#cking stress this enough) is this: BE YOURSELF! if she doesn't like the real you, not amount of impressing her and faking an attitude with her will ever get her to really like you...and she will eventually find out about the real you, so it is important to really just be yourself.

bottom line...if you play ANY games, you are an idiot. anyone gives you any advice like "talk to her, get her interested...then don't talk to her for awhile" or "don't give her too much attention, lead her on" tell them they are idiots because none of these people ever survive a relationship more than 1 month tops. it is stupid and you will ultimately be playing yourself and getting a nice list of girls who hate you.

if you want ANY advise about getting with a girl you really care about...i'm your man.

here's my relationship resume:

-been dating the same girl for 5+ years
-we met sophemore year of highschool and i'm now a senior in college and we live together
-i just proposed to her 2 weeks ago (if you want to see how i did it check my latest blog here: myspace.com/spiderxsg)...she said yes and was crying.
-i saw this girl walking through the halls of my high school and i never thought i'd ever be able to touch this girl, let along talk to her...and look where we are now...because i was MYSELF!

hey...it may be a bit of a long post...but it deserves more attention than it's getting...so, i will repost it

 

[Shuley]

I know exactly how you feel,the problem with HS is that no one has any confidence.Anyhow As I got older,and starting working I found myself around alot of cute girls,the best way to overcome your shyness is 1) get over the fact that she's cute and 2) try small talk...the weather,homework,how her day is going anything...don't talk about yourself!! Ask her about her.Little at a time,but be nice to her and most important, be funny! if you make her laugh,she'll think your cool and want to talk to you more. If she keeps ignoring you and giving you one word answers,that means she's not intrested...don't chase her! Don't give her anything to try and make her like you (candy,gum,jewerly,ect..) Until at least your her boyfriend.

 

[Movies205]

Yeah...oh well, we did not make much headway. That s'okay. At least he is not a total sketch a$$ like that bald, peach fuzz, cold sore having muddaf***er who keeps stalking my roomate...I never seriously had bloodlust for another human being until I met him

Is your friend a work'oholic like me or is he simply just shy? I simply work too much with school and things to have time to meet girls, because if that's the case, I wouldn't worry too much about it... As for the stalker, stalkers suck...

 

[Dangerous]

No I don't but I hope it's better than Land of the Dead that was terrible

Agreed.

 

[Black Goblin]

4th Post... In this ******ed thread... It occur to me that you barely know this girl, which means she's probably hot hence why you really like her. In which case it means your shallow and way out of your league. If this is the case, then give up. However if you do know her and this is a little deeper than that, then just ask her out... I can't wrap my head on why there are 30+ posts in this thread, it isn't rocket science folks.

I'm not way out of her league, and I'm not shallow...

it depends on why you're shy... if you're shy because you're ugly, or over-weight, (sorry for being blunt, but) and she's like, the hot girl in school, then just forget about it... sorry, just let it go. get over her.

but if you're shy just for the sake if being shy, and you're at least decent looking (not fat, not deformed, not a total loser), then, the best advise i can give you is get over it, and ask her out... i know it sounds hard, but it isn't... just reherse saying "i'm really not good at this kind if thing, but would you like to maybe do something sometime?" or some variation of that, and you're golden... if she doesn't say yes to that, then she's not into you.

are you on speaking terms with this girl? have you at least met her?

Well, yes of course I've met her...and I have talked to her a few times
And no, I am not ugly, or overweight...I have a great build..It's not like I'm ashamed of anything.

And thank's for the advice, and thanks for the post spider-x

 

[Spider-X]

I'm not way out of her league, and I'm not shallow...



Well, yes of course I've met her...and I have talked to her a few times
And no, I am not ugly, or overweight...I have a great build..It's not like I'm ashamed of anything.

And thank's for the advice, and thanks for the post spider-x

no prob man...good luck with your girl.

 

[Black Goblin]

Yeah
I'll take this into action on monday

 

[Spider-X]

so...how did it go?

 

[Spider-X]

given the lenght of time between posts here, let me rephrase that question:

how bad did you f@ck up?

 

[Lord Valumart]

when i saw this thread i was wondering what piss poor advice i gave or how i made the entire thread worse....i found it

the only non-hype advice i've ever been give about girls follows:

women like semi-rape

hope it helps

and to answer the only thing that arose from that

What kind of women do you know?

my mates boss told me...oh...and ****s