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"Not as good as you could be". What a concept.
First, Superman is a guy who tends to hammer away at people when he gets mad or to solve his problems, so let's not go on pretending his morals are as high as they could be.
I think you've got that one completely wrong. SUperman is known for using extremely controlled physical action to do his job and is certainly not known for using excesive force. He much more cerebral than you are giving him credit for.
Second, if you're Catholic, then you know that humans are inherently flawed. That we "fall short of the glory of God". We screw up. I'm not saying it's ok to screw up all the time, or in certain ways, but to falter because of emotional reasons is a very, very human thing.
And I'm simply saying that Superman is not capable of certain mistakes- especially sexual irresponsibility.
I don't think Superman has ever operated at that level. This is where we differ. I think, even with Superman, there's room for improvement. Superman's a very good person. He's got a lot of compassion, and he understands his duty to the world because of what he can do...but he isn't perfect. He's got some flaws.
And that explains how you don't understand the character. There's not room for that much imprvement- especially when it comes to his motivation. If you miss that he's supposed to represent what is best in man then you've missed the essence of the character.
Debatable. The average person does not give up on those around them when their loved ones die, so why would Superman suddenly abandon all the good he can do because Lois is dead?
As stated before, it's not simply that Lois is dead. HE's already lost the KEnts, and after Lois dies, Superman his methods and values are rejected by the society he's sworn to protect- it's an extreme situation, not simply Lois dying.
Re: RETURNS, it depeneds on if you believe doubt and fear are plausible motivations for not doing something. I'd say they are. I'm not saying letting doubt cause you not to do what would be harder is right, but this is a plausible and believeable motivation for someone to avoid a goodbye or updating someone about their whereabouts.
What's he got to doubt? What's he got to be afraid of if he's a mature adult in a mature committed adult relationship with someone who REALLY loves him?
The real issue I think is that your definition of being human means that you are capable of giving into that doubt and fear for any reason. I think that being human makes you capable of feeling that doubt, fear confusion, but your strength of character and moral fiber determine whether or not you will give into it. NOt everyone is the same. SUperman is supposed to have a high strength of character and strong moral fiber.
True, but you seem to misunderstand Superman's level of morality. You seem to think he should operate at the highest standard. That tends to mean near-perfect actions, does it not?
No. Perfection would mean that whatever he does would always work out for the best. SUperman's mistakes tend to come from the highest of moral and ethical standards. Imagine... SR... if he says goodbye and goes...going is still a mistake. Why? Because he's still going to suffer losing Lois, he's still hurting Lois and he's still not raising Jason. He controls what he can to the best of his ability, but the fact that he can't control everything makes him imperfect. The fact that he doesn't know that going IS a mistake. He is far from perfect, but he follows the high moral and ethical standards.
He operated from the highest moral standards- He must go to check out Krypton, it's what is right, he must say goodbye- it's what is right... and yet...it doesn't work out perfectly. However, it is through no fault of his own...it makes him sympathetic and noble. Doing the wrong thing does not make a character sympathetic.
You don't know the context of their relationship, though. This is why I keep asking if you know the details of their relationship when he left. How did he feel about her when he left Earth?
Since SInger didn't expound I think based on vague history we are supposed to believe that he lvoed her and was in a relationship with her.
If they were in a relationship, isn't it logical that he'd have wanted to stay, or would have told her?
Yes, that's why it's out of character for him not to have said goodbye!!!
Him not telling her points to things "not working out". It tells me he was not happy with how things were going in relation to her. If he was so lonely that he sought out Krypton...it seems rather obvious that their relationship was not what you claim it must have been.
No. Going to Krypton just shows that he feels a responsibility to help possible survivors and confirm or disprove what he already knows about Krypton. He would want to help survivors of any planetary destruction, not just KRypton, but since it's Krypton it is finally a chance to confirm what he's always believed, or open a new door to his past. That's why he's going, not b/c things with Lois were not working out. If they weren't working out why does he immediately come back and try to woo her? If things weren't working out why is he so hurt that she's moved on?
Yes it is. The point of him doing this is to show that this version of Superman is flawed, imperfect, all too human.
No. ALL version show his humanity, his flaws and imperfections. It's this version that differs in depicting him as NOT as good a person as Joe average guy and that he gives in too easily to his human flaws instead of fighting them.
What's not ridiculous is if Superman decided they weren't going to work out and moved on before this happened. Maybe Lois even KNEW they weren't going to work out, and they'd discussed it. Maybe she just wanted him to say goodbye, and he didn't.
But that's way too much detail for 'vague history.' The method of vague history is a technique where detailed exposition is not necessary b/c the simplest answer is what is intended, not some complicated backstory that the audience has little chance of getting from context.
Maybe they weren't even in a relationship when he left Earth.
Then how'd she get pregnant?
But the film never tells us the context of their relationship when he left.
True, but it suggests certain things, they were in a sexual relationship and that they were in love...do you see that?
As I've pointed out before, the average Joe doesn't give up on life and those around them because their loved one dies or because someone likes one other person's methods more than they do the average Joe's. So basically, the Superman in KINGDOM COME does what you accuse the character of doing in SUPERMAN RETURNS. He doesn't do what COULD be done.
No, the average Joe would not have lasted as long as Superman does in KC- he would have given in MUCH sooner than SUperman did.
And once again, you don't know the context of his departure. Maybe they were fighting or something. Split up. Not together. We. Don't. Know.
See above answers
True, he's an example of how hope, compassion and the proper application of great power can better the world. But he's not neccessarily an example of the best in relationships.
Certainly not in SR, but what about his comic appearance and the other Superman films?
I'm sorry..."emotional threshold?"
Limit your emotions can be pushed before giving in to them.
What a concept. A public figure who appears to have no issues having person problems...
Not that he doesn't have problems, but that he acts responsibly and not irresponsibly.
I think you're reading way too much into the film.
If that's not part of it then he learned nothing from his mistakes.
What limit? His wife was murdered. People have loved ones murdered every day. It doesn't cause them to shut themselves away and pout about it.
Ok...I think I've beat that point to death at this point.
That is not why Clark avoids a deep relationship with Lois. And it's not just Clark who avoids it.
Then what it is?
Because all the stories I've read about SUperman when he's not been involved with Lois is because he knows that if he were to get involved deeply he would have to give up being Superman so that she would not be in danger. Plus, you can't be in a deep meaningful relationship with such a huge deception at the center of your relationship. This is why Lois ALWAYS knows his dual identity when they are depicted in a serious relationship.
Good question? Do YOU know why? Do you know the exact circumstances of their relationship before he left Earth?
Unfortunatey, the only person who does is Singer. But he does suggest what it was.
What if they just wanted nothing to do with each other at that point?
Then Lois has no right to be upset at him for not saying goodbye, and doesn't make sense that he's so whiny and mopey when he finds that Lois has moved on.
No it doesn't.
Then SIngers film is even worse, because he's hiding a critical element from the audience when it comes to understanding the motivations of the main characters.
Then why did Superman leave to find Krypton, instead of just leaving, period?
To look for survivors and help if possible, and confirm or disproove what he's always believed about KRypton.
It's pretty clear that Lois knows Richard isn't the father in SUPERMAN RETURNS.
Not until Jason throws the piano. Up to that point she believes tha Richard is the father.
And if she had sex with him a while after Superman, so what? It's 2007.
While you may think this is a horrible thing to do, Lois probably doesn't.
What's a while? My concern is that for her to be unsure of Jason's paternity then she would have to have had sex with both men w/in the span of two weeks, othewise, her ultrasound would have made it obvious that Jason was conceived before she had sex with Richard.
And if she had sex that soon, she really didn't have a chance to realize Superman was gone if he hadn't said goodbye, did she? She wouldn't have realized that Superman wasn't going to be back any moment.
She's always been a pretty modern woman. And so it works for the character.
Even if you don't like the morality of it.
It's a shame that 'modern' has to be equivalent with low morality and irresponsibility.
True. The movies state neither thing. And all the comics really suggest is that Superman and Lois can't mate at ALL.
Not entirely true. Son of SUperman and Whatever Happened to the Man of Tomorrow? show that they can mate.
So...once again...we don't know. It seems silly to condemn someone for one element of something when you don't know the details of his situation.
It seems even sillier to ignore what the film suggests about their relationship.
They may not have been romantically linked. However, they were good friends at the time, and he cared greatly for her. So him not saying goodbye there doesn't help matters.
They weren't good friends at the time. Go back and check. But in terms of SR, it's his obligations due to being in a sexual relationship that really matter.
And since you think not being romantically linked in the comics means he has no obligation to his friend to say goodbye and update her on his whereabouts...then how do you know what their situation was in SUPERMAN RETURNS, and if he had any obligation toward her at that point?
In SR they were having sex. If Superman is not going to engage in casual sex then they were necessarily involved and even if they broke it off just before he left, he still has an obligation to her b/c they were so recently in a sexual relationship.
Exactly. And doing so without KNOWING ANY OF THE DETAILS.
C'mon, use your head and you can figure out enough to know what was intended.