How big of an age gap is acceptable when dating? [read: I banged a hot soccer mom!]

[Kritish]

she could easily pass for 30. she's aged wonderfully. she was a physical fitness trainer for bally's gym for the past decade or two, too... she takes very good care of herself. plus, she has implants, so that's good.

Sounds like you’ve got a keeper, just don’t get sucked into something you can’t handle and make sure she doesn’t get too attached to you and go nuts when you dump her.

 

[Knives122]

**** it, I'll be the detached ass and just say you should turn her into a sex slave.

 

[jaguarr]

New woman + one week of dating + "I love you" = co-dependent freak you're going to regret meeting at some point. Good luck to you.

jag

 

[GoldenAgeHero]

in all honesty i want to see if credible can turn her into a sugar momma. make her give you money dude.

 

[terry78]

When they're older, they want them younger. When they're younger, they want them older. The irony being that people chide you for dating someone younger as if to say, "they can't handle a grown person", but when you were that age, they weren't thinking about your immature ass.

 

[terry78]

On the original topic, it depends on the people.

I have a tendency to get along with older guys, though I've never dated one that was more than a year older than myself.

That's not really older then, is it? A year difference is still pretty much liking the same stuff.

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

That's not really older then, is it? A year difference is still pretty much liking the same stuff.

I was saying that I tend to get along with older guys. I was saying that because my best buds are 19 and 20 year old guys. Not to mention a few flings I've had...

I haven't dated that are more than a year older though. Dated as in a "serious relationship".

 

[nosebleed.]

I think the Sugar Momma route is a bad idea. Hang with this chick for the sexual relationship, for the friendship, for what you can learn from an older woman...but steer clear of the money because then you'll "owe" her. I don't know about you but I can't STAND to be in someone's debt. I can't STAND chicks like that and if you reduce yourself to something like that then you are just turning yourself into a glorified prostitute.

That being said, does she look younger than Jennifer Tilly?

cuz SHE's pushing 50.

 

[Shuley]

age doesn't matter. i'm 23 and my fiance is 36.

Well what if you were 36 and he was 23? Would it matter then? Age don't matter but maturity comes with age,He may act like a gentleman at 36 but may have acted like a little kid at 23.I guess since I'm almost 31 now,I should ask out chicks at the local high school then,since age doesn't matter.

 

[zanos]

okay, so i met this girl (woman, i suppose) through work a couple of weeks ago, she was nice, pretty, and looked to be about 30 or so... maybe 35 (i'm 23, by the way)

well, i was wrong about everything except for the pretty part. she mentioned she had a daughter, and when i asked how old, she told me 22! she wouldn't tell me how old she was herself, but i saw her ID when we went out to the bar, (yes, she got carded, she looks that young) and she was born in april of 1963! she's a year older than my mom!

so, whatever, we kept flirting at work, then talking on the phone, then we went out for drinks, and ended up sleeping together (my god she's a firecracker!) she told me she just likes being in relationships with younger guys because we're funner, not boring, and because she acts like a teenager herself. well, we've been seeing eachother for about a week now, and she's completely off her rocker. she already tells me she loves me (i don't say it back yet, i just say "aw! thanks, babe."), we sleep together everyday (again, complete madwoman in bed, she's insane) and she calls me 7 times a day. oh well. beats being single.

so, i forget what the point of this thread was... something about age gaps in dating, i suppose.

She acts like a teenager alright. What woman of that age would actually say she loved someone after a week?! Looks like you may have a potential stalker on your hands.

Btw are security guards ******ed? Why would they card a 44 year old woman? I don't care how young she looks. You're not going to look under 21 when you're 44.

 

[Halcohol]

I'm 21 and I'm dating a 25 year old, and I already feel kind of weirded out by the age difference. I'm getting over it, but I don't think I could go out with anyone older than her.

 

[The Amazing Lee]

my girlfriend is a month older than me. That age difference is vital...I'm her ***** on a chain.

 

[Whirlysplat]

I am 40 and my partner is 29, she's getting a bit old and i'm thinking of trading her in for a younger model.

 

[Mr. Credible]

I think the Sugar Momma route is a bad idea. Hang with this chick for the sexual relationship, for the friendship, for what you can learn from an older woman...but steer clear of the money because then you'll "owe" her. I don't know about you but I can't STAND to be in someone's debt. I can't STAND chicks like that and if you reduce yourself to something like that then you are just turning yourself into a glorified prostitute.

That being said, does she look younger than Jennifer Tilly?

cuz SHE's pushing 50.

well, she hasn't had the benefit of plastic surgery, like tilly (unless you count the boob job), but she looks pretty comparible, age wise. there are a few wrinkles here and there, but i like them.

 

[Shuley]

Not to mention professional make up artists.

 

[Kyalesyin]

New woman + one week of dating + "I love you" = co-dependent freak you're going to regret meeting at some point. Good luck to you.

jag

I was waiting for someone to say that. Then again, co-dependency can work out. My wife and I were engaged within a week of hooking up...

I'd say anything more than a four year age gap either way is too much. This might change as I get older, but I'm only 19. 4 years is comfortable. There's 2 between me and my wife and thats more than enough.

 

[Showtime]

Well my posts are usually better than others. I've been on record stating that on numerous occassions.

Better in what way?

 

[Showtime]

Erz is part of a class of posters, that are good posters, but they've been around for a while... people start to like them, respect them, and then they form an ego... It slightly agitating at times, but it's really more a product of there being an excess of crappy posters

Erz, don't take it the wrong way, I like you, and your posts in the movie forum are great... You simply have developed a slight ego, as many before you have on the hype...

I didn't realize you can actually adopt an ego from posters on a message board liking you, heck it's good to be liked, but it is only the internet version of you.

I haven't really noticed Erz having an ego per say, he just seems to be having some fun.

 

[ROBOCOP CPU001]

age shouldn't matter when it comes to love.. unless there kids then your dirty bastards.. here in england a girl can be 16 and have sex..so i guess that the earliest..as for the other way around..if you really like the lady, age means nothing.

Its what you feel that matters.

 

[jaguarr]

I was waiting for someone to say that. Then again, co-dependency can work out. My wife and I were engaged within a week of hooking up...

I'd say anything more than a four year age gap either way is too much. This might change as I get older, but I'm only 19. 4 years is comfortable. There's 2 between me and my wife and thats more than enough.

I'm willing to wager your situation's quite a bit different from Mr. Credible's, though. By a long shot.

At any rate, my wife is a couple of years older than me. No big whoop.

jag

 

[Kelly]

To me its more about maturity than age.

 

[nosebleed.]

Older people dating drastically younger people need to realize that the second the younger person wants to move on...you should let them. The majority of younger people dating older ones are eventually going to realize that they need to move on to either other older people, people their age or do a 180 and start wanting people even younger than them. When the older person starts begging and pleading for the younger person to stay with them it becomes pitiful and sad. Of course there are going to be exceptions where the younger person just prefers older people and will maintain that relationship...but how often do you see that happening without materialistic issues being involved.

 

[ghost_x]

My sisters 20 and she's moved in with a 40 year old guy with two divorces and two kids, she's pretty damn happy with him. Plus he still acts like a kid

 

[nosebleed.]

My sisters 20 and she's moved in with a 40 year old guy with two divorces and two kids, she's pretty damn happy with him. Plus he still acts like a kid

sounds like a winner

 

[Mr. Credible]

Older people dating drastically younger people need to realize that the second the younger person wants to move on...you should let them. The majority of younger people dating older ones are eventually going to realize that they need to move on to either other older people, people their age or do a 180 and start wanting people even younger than them. When the older person starts begging and pleading for the younger person to stay with them it becomes pitiful and sad. Of course there are going to be exceptions where the younger person just prefers older people and will maintain that relationship...but how often do you see that happening without materialistic issues being involved.

yeah... i definately can't see this going on long term... more than a year, anyway. i think this is just a relationship of passion, more than anything, for me, anyway, we haven't had "the talk" yet, to see where we see this going, so... that'll be a fun day.