How big of an age gap is acceptable when dating? [read: I banged a hot soccer mom!]

[Movies205]

well, you're not far off. i wasn't a loser in high school or anything, i've just been screwed over too many times... i'm just trying to give something back, is all. being a nice guy got me nowhere.

I kind of figured as much... I got hand it to you Mr. Credible, I love this thread... Because it just affirms my writer's instincts about people... So... By all means carry on, I find it fascinating, you get a thumbs up from me

 

[Mr. Credible]

I'll be the first to admit that the threads in these forums are lacking.

But if you want to get down to brass tacks, I think that no matter what type of profound or deep insight any poster here can give you, you will not change what you do in the real world. So I'm wondering what the point is?

It's very obvious that you look for attention regarding aspects of your life, seek validation for your choices, and congratulations for your activities.

Honestly, you treat these forums like your own personal blog but your topics under the "guise" of questions, are just excuses for you to reveal your sex life. But that's just the impression I get.

well, i never thought of it like that, but, whatever... i just thought it'd be a nice topic of discussion. something funny. do i brag a little? sure. is that necessarily a bad thing, though?

god forbid i waist precious thread space. like i said, if it's not talk-worthy, the thread will die out. no harm done.

 

[Movies205]

Are you serious Dr. Phil? It seems you use semi-witty dialogue to mask your judgemental attitude towards other peoples posts and threads while implying that your own threads and posts lack some kind of meaning and higher purpose towards the betterment of the forums as a whole.

Erz is part of a class of posters, that are good posters, but they've been around for a while... people start to like them, respect them, and then they form an ego... It slightly agitating at times, but it's really more a product of there being an excess of crappy posters

Erz, don't take it the wrong way, I like you, and your posts in the movie forum are great... You simply have developed a slight ego, as many before you have on the hype...

 

[Mr. Credible]

I kind of figured as much... I got hand it to you Mr. Credible, I love this thread... Because it just affirms my writer's instincts about people... So... By all means carry on, I find it fascinating, you get a thumbs up from me

word... i could totally carry on, too. i had just got back from her place before i made this thread, and we did some pretty messed up junk. all her idea. it's nice to date a woman who'll tell you what she wants for a change, even if what she wants is downright perverted. i think i might switch to dating older women for a while, it's a welcome change from skanky young mtv girls.

 

[Mr. Credible]

dirt dawg...

yeah, and she's mother-effing pretty, too. like her mom, but 20 years younger, and half japanese. hopefully just as crazy, too... i think i'm starting to like it.

the good thing is, mom tells daughter everything, and mom is in love with my junk, so...

 

[Movies205]

word... i could totally carry on, too. i had just got back from her place before i made this thread, and we did some pretty messed up junk. all her idea. it's nice to date a woman who'll tell you what she wants for a change, even if what she wants is downright perverted. i think i might switch to dating older women for a while, it's a welcome change from skanky young mtv girls.

As a wanna-be writer(some day teh wanna-be will dropped... ), I'd say I'd be more interested in the emotional and drama of simply... Of what happens when this older woman figures out your simply out for sex, and have slept with her daughter... I need to know how someone reacts to taht! Or how long this relationship can sustain itself since it seems like it's already goign hit a wall and fast... However, I suppose the sex stuff is interesting enough, if there can be culled some emotional data from it... Specifically taht an older woman isn't afraid to be in charge....

 

[Erzengel]

Erz is part of a class of posters, that are good posters, but they've been around for a while... people start to like them, respect them, and then they form an ego... It slightly agitating at times, but it's really more a product of there being an excess of crappy posters

Erz, don't take it the wrong way, I like you, and your posts in the movie forum are great... You simply have developed a slight ego, as many before you have on the hype...

Present company included?

 

[Movies205]

Present company included?

Duh... But I doubt my ego is from people around here actually respecting me... I just think I kick ass for no particular reason and I enjoy message board flame wars

 

[Kritish]

okay, so i met this girl (woman, i suppose) through work a couple of weeks ago, she was nice, pretty, and looked to be about 30 or so... maybe 35 (i'm 23, by the way)

well, i was wrong about everything except for the pretty part. she mentioned she had a daughter, and when i asked how old, she told me 22! she wouldn't tell me how old she was herself, but i saw her ID when we went out to the bar, (yes, she got carded, she looks that young) and she was born in april of 1963! she's a year older than my mom!

so, whatever, we kept flirting at work, then talking on the phone, then we went out for drinks, and ended up sleeping together (my god she's a firecracker!) she told me she just likes being in relationships with younger guys because we're funner, not boring, and because she acts like a teenager herself. well, we've been seeing eachother for about a week now, and she's completely off her rocker. she already tells me she loves me (i don't say it back yet, i just say "aw! thanks, babe."), we sleep together everyday (again, complete madwoman in bed, she's insane) and she calls me 7 times a day. oh well. beats being single.

so, i forget what the point of this thread was... something about age gaps in dating, i suppose.

Well, I doubt your mom's going to like her.

 

[Kritish]

Milk it for as long as you can. She knows what she wants, she's less likely to play all the stupid young girl mind games with you, she's a "firecracker" in bed and she doesn't want you for your money. She could probably teach you a thing or two. When she starts talking about marriage, reason with her. Tell her about how you two will not age well together and all that jazz...hopefully she's mature enough to realize that.

Sounds words of advice, Credible should treat this as a fling. It won't ever work out as a long term relationship. So enjoy the good sex for as long as you can.

 

[Mr. Credible]

As a wanna-be writer(some day teh wanna-be will dropped... ), I'd say I'd be more interested in the emotional and drama of simply... Of what happens when this older woman figures out your simply out for sex, and have slept with her daughter... I need to know how someone reacts to taht! Or how long this relationship can sustain itself since it seems like it's already goign hit a wall and fast... However, I suppose the sex stuff is interesting enough, if there can be culled some emotional data from it... Specifically taht an older woman isn't afraid to be in charge....

well, i plan on dating her for a while, so really, i'm not just all out for sex. it's just nice to be in a relationship, i think it's comforting for both of us. the sex is the main thing, for both of us i think, but i can tell she wants more. i think it's a way for her to feel young. i don't mind doing that for her, though. i'll play cabanna boy. i don't see this going long term, though. no way. she'll be 50 before i'm even 30, and that's just bad.

and i probably won't sleep with her daughter... that's just wishful thinking. it won't stop me from flirting with her, no siree, but if i break mom's heart, i don't think daughter is going to want anything to do with me.

she has another daughter that's 19, too... if i had all 3, that's be some kind of record, for sure. but, whatever.

if you want to know anything, y'know, for research into the human psyche or whatever, just let me know.

 

[Mr. Credible]

Well, I doubt your mom's going to like her.

ha! i told my mom about it... she laughed her ass off.

 

[Movies205]

well, i plan on dating her for a while, so really, i'm not just all out for sex. it's just nice to be in a relationship, i think it's comforting for both of us. the sex is the main thing, for both of us i think, but i can tell she wants more. i think it's a way for her to feel young. i don't mind doing that for her, though. i'll play cabanna boy. i don't see this going long term, though. no way. she'll be 50 before i'm even 30, and that's just bad.

and i probably won't sleep with her daughter... that's just wishful thinking. it won't stop me from flirting with her, no siree, but if i break mom's heart, i don't think daughter is going to want anything to do with me.

she has another daughter that's 19, too... if i had all 3, that's be some kind of record, for sure. but, whatever.

if you want to know anything, y'know, for research into the human psyche or whatever, just let me know.

So is the father of the kids, dead or divorced?

 

[Kritish]

ha! i told my mom about it... she laughed her ass off.

Really? I think if I nailed someone my Mom’s age she’d kill me and her.

 

[Mr. Credible]

So is the father of the kids, dead or divorced?

he was apparently a butthole, and they have been divorced for going on 3 years.

 

[Knives122]

So is the father of the kids, dead or divorced?

He's probably in a insane asylum, know how things usually turn out with credibles' gf's men.....

 

[Mr. Credible]

Really? I think if I nailed someone my Mom’s age she’d kill me and her.

eh, my mom's cool... i tell her everything.

(not to say your mom's not cool)

 

[Kritish]

eh, my mom's cool... i tell her everything.

(not to say your mom's not cool)

No, she’s not cool at all. t:

 

[Movies205]

he was apparently a butthole, and they have been divorced for going on 3 years.

I suppose that explains the sexual repression, so I assume we can chalk up the "I love you stuff" as either A) sweet nothings simply to fuel the sexual fling B)... let's not go there

 

[Kritish]

Now I have to ask, how does she look? Does she look her age or has she “aged gracefully” like Monica Bellucci?

 

[Movies205]

It'd be funny if she has a Diane Keaton look, a 1995 Diane Keaton

 

[Kritish]

It'd be funny if she has a Diane Keaton look, a 1995 Diane Keaton

Indeed.

 

[LouFerignoDemon]

I guess I don't really understand the point of the thread. Originally, it seemed like it if were okay if he could date this woman somewhere around a decade his senior, but kind of just dragged off into this unresolved something or other.

From what it sounds, just have fun with it, I wouldn't call it a relationship if she is literally looking at it like teenager stuff, which is primarily this whole "I need someone" thing.

As for gap relationships? At 22, I've held at least one long term relationship with someone nearly forty years my senior. It's just...how you look at it I guess. Is it a relationship, or just sex?

Because this one sounds like it's just sex.

 

[Mr. Credible]

Now I have to ask, how does she look? Does she look her age or has she “aged gracefully” like Monica Bellucci?

she could easily pass for 30. she's aged wonderfully. she was a physical fitness trainer for bally's gym for the past decade or two, too... she takes very good care of herself. plus, she has implants, so that's good.

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

On the original topic, it depends on the people.

I have a tendency to get along with older guys, though I've never dated one that was more than a year older than myself.