ummm, you need help getting your friend laid? well anyone can get laid nowadays, its just a question of what they want, and it seems like your friend just isn't ready and you're just pressuring him to lose his virginity which i don't think is right. everyone moves at their own pace, and its a good thing that hes taking it slow, and hes only 20, for goodness sake, he still has alot of time! some people can be really psychologically hurt by hooking up at the wrong time or with the wrong person, some people seem to think this is a girl problem and men can bang anyone and be emotionally detached & unaffected but its not true! it seems u really care for him since u're trying to look out for him on this front but maybe what u need to do is stop pushing him or making him feel like hes less of a man cuz he's still a virgin, which u may not know u're doing, but u're probably making him feel inadequate. support him and encourage him to find a girl he likes not for sex but for love and nature will take its course! it may not be fun for u not being able to share stories w/ your inexperienced buddy or whatever, but its his well-being that matters. good luck!
btw, from a female point of view, a guy who holds out for a special girl is totally hot.
