How Would You Feel If...

[GoldenAgeHero]

question for ya guys,handicapped women, who are paralyzed from the waste down can still have feeling in her vagina as well right?

 

[Machx72]

Lmfao... I hope so .

 

[Kritish]

It isn't like your nailing a ******ed person, they're just as intelligent as everyone else. If you feel wierd about banging a wheel chair girl I'd shudder to think how you'd react to a blind chick. I've been in a relationship with one, it isn't that strange.

 

[Machx72]

I think I've went over that a couple times throughout this thread.

 

[Abaddon]

it'd be awkward.

 

[ScottyBBadd]

Is it the fact that I'm not from the South or is it that Foxworthy isn't funny that I don't get that joke?

Me neither.

 

[Immortalfire]

I don't understand this

 

[Abaddon]

He says he'd feel awkward being with a girl in a wheelchair because he has a much greater physical advantage over her, and she'd be "vulnerable" in a way.

The Foxworthy joke is about the clothes in Victoria's Secret being so small that he feels like he's shopping for a little girl, I guess.

 

[Machx72]

Just ignore the joke, it was a comparison.

And if you don't get it, don't worry about it. Problem's solved.

 

[Kyalesyin]

I think I'd feel uncomfortable. That slight discomfort is natural. Fist time my wife and I had sex it was the same thing- I was a vrigin, she wasn't. I was comfortable with my sexuality, she wasn't. I felt like I was taking advantage. Sure, I learned at a later date that she felt the same since I'm three years younger, but I think that says a lot about that sort of situation.

Saying that, by three months in, there was no more discomfort. It isn't a deliberate thing, but you can control it.

 

[Machx72]

Yeah I mean, I honestly don't think that her disability would cause any rockiness in the relationship... At least I hope not. It doesn't mean anything to me other than we'd have to go about certain things [I dont mean sexually, gutter-minds] different ways.

My wonder now is, should something happen... How does she go about dating? And, is her disability something that she feels she must discuss with others?

 

[Canadian Rider]

every once and a while I stumble into a thread and start reading it because I can't believe that the subject is REALLY what the subject appears to be ... and then it is.

Mach.

Dude. If you like her, ask her out. She will tell you or talk to you about any issues she has.

Don't make it a big deal ... she is a woman who has "alternate means of transportation."

The question is do you like her for who she is, or something about her personality? Or was it the fact she was in a chair that caught your eye ?

Man. *shaking head*

 

[Erzengel]

My wonder now is, should something happen... How does she go about dating?

Probably just like everybody else.

And, is her disability something that she feels she must discuss with others?

I think it depends on the person but I wouldn't come off and ask her. I'd wait for her to bring it up or wait til there was some comfortableness before asking.

 

[ang_hulk]

heres my take-get to know her,do all the fun tihngs,dinner,movies playing at toys r us.Forget the chair,I know its got its ups and downs but trust me,its not that big a deal.I can say with full honesty there alot more capable then you think.I wouldent bat at eye if my gf was in a wheel chair,id want her to have a clear one though so i could still stare at her ass.go for it,youll be abetter person for it,a hint on decideing where the date is,let her pick,chances are itll be somwhere where shes been and feels comfortable,stay away from roudy bars and stuff EXCEPT for dave and busters,its GREAT for wheel chair access,rumor has it one of them had a friend in a wheel chair and thats why its so open for that.Clean out your car(not saying its dirty) so she doesnt feel bad about finding room for the chair and dont question things,just flow with it and again,youll be a better guy for it.

 

[Machx72]

every once and a while I stumble into a thread and start reading it because I can't believe that the subject is REALLY what the subject appears to be ... and then it is.

Mach.

Dude. If you like her, ask her out. She will tell you or talk to you about any issues she has.

Don't make it a big deal ... she is a woman who has "alternate means of transportation."

The question is do you like her for who she is, or something about her personality? Or was it the fact she was in a chair that caught your eye ?

Man. *shaking head*

Dude, I'm aware of this... It's already been said, and I was just relating to what Kyal said. I'm not, "in despair," over the situation, I'm just curious as to what the differences would be.

I'm not making a, "huge deal," of this... Yes, I realize it's there, but I also realize I can't make any change in my approach due to that.

Erz: Yeah, I'm definitely not gonna bring it up to her... I don't see any hinderance due to it other than my, "conscience talking," like I mentioned earlier, but also like I said... I can get over that.

Eh, besides- I shouldn't even worry about her bringing it up... We're not even dating.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

Why would you want to wheel your girlfriend around?
There are plenty of great girls out there who can walk.
Enjoy helping her onto the toilet when you accidentally eat at a restaurant without those bars on the stall walls.
And wrapping her legs around you? You can forget about that too.

 

[ang_hulk]

........for **** sake...........they dont need those bars as much as you tihnk they do and just for facts if they dont have those bars then its on them and not only will your dinner be free you may get some nice cash out of it and whats wrong with pushing her wheel chair you dirt bag??? god dammit obviously shes capable enough to get around campus.I really hope your being saracastic.my ****in god.

 

[Canadian Rider]

Ah Wil ... always able to take it to the lowest common denominator ...

 

[Machx72]

Lmfao... He's a nice touch of society's real thoughts.

*Shakes head in shame*.

 

[ang_hulk]

bull****...

 

[Erzengel]

Um...new to these forums aren't you?

 

[ang_hulk]

no just putting in what i think of that comment.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

........for **** sake...........they dont need those bars as much as you tihnk they do and just for facts if they dont have those bars then its on them and not only will your dinner be free you may get some nice cash out of it and whats wrong with pushing her wheel chair you dirt bag??? god dammit obviously shes capable enough to get around campus.I really hope your being saracastic.my ****in god.

My brother has cerebral palsy and is in a wheelchair.

 

[ang_hulk]

still not nice things to say but Im semi releaved you were joking.

 

[Wilhelm-Scream]

still not nice things to say but Im semi releaved you were joking.

1) If those things sounded absurd I'd like to think the threadmaker might realize how absUrd it is to feel as if he's raping/taking advantage of a person just because their dumb legs don't function like most people's.

2) I'm not here to say nice things. Neither are you.