Well, I personally would suffer because I do want to be married. Luckily I live in the more tempered New York State area. I'd find it a distinct challenge to prove people wrong about their negative views on marriage. It would give me no end of amusement to figure outr ways of keeping things fresh and exciting the moment I wake up. As anyone who knows me can tell you I'm a pretty unpredictable person. One day I'm quiet and chill preferring the comfort of home or the next I'm stir crazy and want to go out to a movie and something to eat. I find it a fun thing to make the mundane fun sometimes, like shopping. I'm just a grab bag of daily activities sometimes, though I do have my regiments I do like walking for fitness or those I would like to do, like learn yoga as an additive form of exercise. But I digress. All said being my husband would be an adventure in and of itself I'd hope. I have thought long and hard about this for decades and resolved that my marriage will be an exercise in using brainpower and imagination to keep it from going stale. So glad I'm not a citizen of Oklahoma because I would never be able to implement my marital experiment.
