My wife just left us

[DBella]

I want to cry but it wont help anything. I dont know what to do. I feel numb. Shes been wanting to quit since the baby was born.

Do you think she could be suffering from post-partum depression? How sid she feel when she first found out you guys are going to have a child and throughout her pregnancy?

 

[Equint77]

Do you think she could be suffering from post-partum depression? How sid she feel when she first found out you guys are going to have a child and throughout her pregnancy?

you're so glib

 

[ShadowBoxing]

Was you guys having trouble before the baby? If she just had a baby 5 months ago she might be going though "Post-Parten Depression". That might explain all of this. It's happned before.

Just a thought.

I believe he said this has been building upon itself for a while.

 

[Holly Goodhead]

I laughed so hard when I read the thread title.

 

[Equint77]

lol.. jesus.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

lol.. jesus.

Yes my son

 

[Equint77]

black jesus?

earl the pearl monroe??

 

[ShadowBoxing]

black jesus?

earl the pearl monroe??

What the f*** did you expect cracka.

 

[celldog]

My wife walked into the room said shes wasnt happy and was leaving. We have a 5 month old baby. The baby is still with me. Im not sure what to do. Advice?

BTW she left.

Advice? Don't come to this message board for answers.

Find a good church where you can get some sound counsel.

 

[Danalys]

what a world.

 

[War Lord]

We live in the same apartment building. There down stairs I havent told them yet. Daycare is so expensive I dont know if I can pay for everything by myself.

Joker,

You forgot the "L" in slow for your sig.

Who's her new man?

Odds are she found one.

 

[Anita18]

Ouch. I'm so sorry about that, mostly for the abruptness of it all. Parents don't get along sometimes (that's why divorce exists, after all..) but for someone to just up and leave without even showing concern for their child...There are no words for that kind of irresponsibility.

I have no idea what one should do in this circumstance. Is there a counselor at work who could help?

Hang in there, and just take it one day at a time. That's all you can do, really.

 

[Jerry]

I think the fact that you are posted this here right afterwards Stryfe, is part of the problem. What is wrong with you people? Honestly.

 

[Sensi]

My hearts goes out to you. I hope in time things will be better for you and your baby.

 

[DBella]

Some of you people here can be such ********s.

 

[Master Chief]

Hush lil girl, sweet baby don't cry. Tonight.
Daddy is here and he'll sing you a soft lullaby. Tonight.
Why can't it all be like it was before,
how can I explain why mommy's not here anymore?

'Cause daddy likes porno and ten dollar ****es.
Daddy gets wasted and robs liquor stores.
Daddy likes rubbing against little boys, on the bus.
I think that's why mommy left us.

Hush lil girl, there is no reason to fret. Tonight.
Don't mind the smoke, daddy just wants to forget. Tonight.
Soon it will all be like it was before,
any minute she will walk through that front door.

But daddy plays poker and drinks lots of beer.
Then he wants sex that involves mommy's rear.
Daddy has sores on his naughty parts oozing with puss.
I think that's why mommy left us.

Please don't cry, I swear I'll try
to be here by your side.

Right after daddy gets home from the bar,
visits his bookie, and steals a new car,
he'll drive to the strip club, and if daddy plays his cards right,
he'll bring home your new mommy tonight.

Srsly though dude, sucks.

 

[blind_fury]

it sucks when someone you love doesn't love you back but I suspect it happens most of the time.

 

[DOG LIPS]

it sucks when someone you love doesn't love you back but I suspect it happens most of the time.

Yeah, that happens with me and most females I stal-... er... watch.

But once you get them in the basement they love you just fine.

 

[Halcohol]

Yeah, that happens with me and most females I stal-... er... watch.

But once you get them in the basement they love you just fine.

Well, that's what you tell yourself to justify it, right?

 

[blind_fury]

Only a REAL man ignores restraining orders.

50-feet? pffft!

 

[November Rain]

The immediate problems seem to have been tackled already in this thread so i'll stay clear...

based on your words, i feel she may be seeing someone else...

also i wonder why it is that you are worried about her sexual past and other relationship when your wife had chosen to marry you. YOu should try and let the past stay in the past and perhaps realise what you have/had and shouldn't let it affect your present.

You say you were in the army, did your wife live on base with you or were you away from home for long periods of time? if it is the latter, i suspect that raising your child without your initial support may have been pretty hard on her and perhaps hindered the natural bonding process.

all evidence points to say she is seeing someone else her or at least is looking to others for comfort or affection (if not originally physically, then it's about to be that way).

You said yourself that you have had a particularly difficult few years, maybe that has taken its toll on your relationship and with the added 'dilemma' of childbirth and change in job, it may have been too much.

A lot of people will say that you are at no fault for what has happened to you, personally i see it as people make decisions to change their life if they are unhappy with it and somewhere down the line, either you have changed, or parts of you she originally thought were barable, she is now unable to take (even if she pretends to). So i hold both parties in a relationship responsible (to some degree).

there's a lot of stuff potentially going on here that has been bubbling away..

all in all, i hope it works out, especially for your daughter.

all the best Stryfe.

 

[Pyro Max]

Is she hot looking?

 

[Halcohol]

edit

 

[Sloth7d]

I laughed so hard when I read the thread title.

Aw, man, you are so evil.

 

[redmarvel]

She may be suffering from post-partum depression (I suffered a bit from it right after the birth of my son).

If you know where she has gone to you have a couple of options:

1. Just give up on the relationship
2. Call her or go see her and arrange for family counselling
3. Send flowers or a gift to her and ask her to contact you when she feels like trying to work things out

Good luck with whatever you decide to do.