Haven't posted in this ere thread in some while, but here goes -
I like to get myself into akward situations and this part fortnight has been no exception. On a Tuesday night at my favourite night club, my best friend decided to invite his sister-in-law to come out with us. Throughout the entire night I got on so damn well with her, we were close, dancing the same way and having the best laugh I've had in months. I invited her back to my place, whilst my mate dropped somebody else off.
There wasn't going to be any funny business, she lived miles away, so therefore she'd have my bed and I would sleep on the sofa. I discovered that she had a boyfriend earlier, and that's something I can't do, come onto a guy's girl. Anyway, we were having a laugh 'n thats...and soon enough, at 4am, my friend knocks on my door asking to take her back to his. He doesn't even acknowledge me and takes her back - fair enough, he's protective over her, it made sense.
Problem is, we started texting non stop the following day whilst I was at work. From there, we met on the following Friday for a frappa and a neat little chat. We also went to the cinema, as I treated her to 500Days of Summer, which was an amazing time. On the weekend I had discovered she liked me, but I tried to play the good guy and helped her with her relationship problems which have arised in the past couple of months.
HOWEVERS. We met up again last night, even though I told myself I'd stop contacting her because I'd only get too attached and hurt. She turns up, and I spend the entire night with her. Dancing until the early hours of the morning, we start getting really close, holding each other...and suddenly, we close in. A few seconds of awkward silence felt like an hour of bliss, wanting to kiss her. I backed away, and she asked me to talk to her outside.
Whilst she was smoking, she informed me that she's never felt this certain feeling over anyone before. I told her how I felt, and even mentioned that I do get confused whenever she flirts - considering her FB status would be chock full of her mentioning her man (regardless of the fact she's told me she wants to dump him). Anyway, we settled on doing nothing but left for some alcohol induced Maryland chicken.
Holding hands on the way down, we bought our food and I walked to her mates house. She was telling me how much she adored me, mentioned my eyes and I told her she had the most beautiful blues I've ever seen. I dropped her off at 4am, and the housemate complained about me leaving him behind (which is rather rubbish of me tbh - but he understood).
She was sleeping round her mates house, who I've known for some while now. I received a text in the morning, informing me that she hadn't slept for the entire night because she was thinking about me.
Yeah.
Heavy.
Anyway, I don't know what to do. I'm really scared that I'll get hurt, because this girl is amazing. Same tastes in everything, huggable and downright beautiful. Her boyfriend would rather smoke weed than do anything with her, and she hadn't previously been to the cinema in over a year. She's not getting treated like the amazing woman she is, it's ridiculous.
I really want to do something about this - but I'm worried she might be seeing me as just an escape and nothing more. She questioned whether I'd still like her for months to come, but I can just see her turning straight back to her boyfriend about this. It's an awkward situation too, because in this situation I could fall out with my best friend too.
If anyone can clear things up for me, by saying what the best route is, please do.
Tah for reading
good thing I switched over to enotalone. (awesome advice and 
threads)
t:. That is the most important thing I learned from experience. If the girl is interested she won't mention she has a boyfriend period. I do not waste my time with girls if she has a BF, I just burn the bridge and look elsewhere (or they come back post-dumping); don't need the drama.
