Okay here it goes, my comparison between The Ultimate Spider-man comics and SM1 to show that inspiration was took form the Ultimate comics.
Ok, lets see what you've got then...
First, toward the beginning of the movie you have somewhat of a food fight that takes place between Peter and Flash. The same takes place in the Ultimate comics, just Peter doesn't have his powers yet unlike in the movie.
There was no food fight between Peter and Flash in the movie. Peter accidentally flung a tray at him when his web accidentally fired out and stuck to it.
In USM it's just Flash being a bully throwing food at Peter, and Peter just sitting there taking it.
Next we have Flash picking on Peter. Of course it happened in The Amazing comics as well, but not nearly as bad as in The Ultimate Spider-man and here we see Flash picking on him very similarly like in the movie imo.
You're joking right? Flash often got physically nasty in the comics with Peter, and in the 90's animated series, too;
Go to 10 minutes and 44 seconds in;
http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x21t8w_spider-man-make-a-wish_shortfilms
Here we have Harry somewhat defending Peter and the teacher stepping out just like the movie
That's not Harry defending Peter. That's Harry getting his mates to lay off his meal ticket for getting his homework done. In Raimi's movies Harry is Peter's friend and is hated by Flash and his mates, too.
Heres the actual fight between Flash and Peter. He grabs his hand just like in the movie and breaks it (at least I assumed he broke it in the movie)
No, Peter grabbed Flash's arm, not his hand;
Heres the wrestling that is really alike
Lastly, here shows how he got his name, just like the movie. Its even from wrestling as well
What is so alike about the wrestling scene? He's wearing a makeshift masked costume while wrestling, which happened in the original comics, too.
The announcer labels him The Amazing Spider-Man. That's the only element unique to USM and has got to be coincidental since Spider-Man was in production when that issue came out.
I never said they did make any changes after that meeting. He did provide feedback but I am guessing none of it was taken. Like I said, he discussed dialogue with them, because they asked him to. He tried to hand off quips for Spider-Man to say, which could have easily been dubbed by Maguire into the film for his Spider-Man scenes. But things like Spidey making fun of Green Goblins outfit were disregarded because "We [Sony] spent a lot of money on that suit", according to Bendis, Sony's exact reply. The interview was either in one of the Trades, or the back of issue 100, the latter if memory serves me correctly. He also said they asked him and Stan to sit down with them after the screening, and Stan swiftly declined (Most likely because he knew how the discussion would go). It was more than just getting feedback, even if they didn't use any of his suggestions.
Then why did you bring this up if you concede nothing Bendis said about the movie was put into the movie?
People have listed more than a few connections that could be made between the Ultimate origin and the first Raimi movie. Coincidental or not, you can't say those observations are inaccurate.
I just have with blake c's list. The only one that is in any way similar is the wrestling announcer calling him Spider-Man. That is coincidence because the movie was already filming when that issue was released.
He also was a part of the same accident that turned Norman Osborn into the Green Goblin and as a result knew that his father was a monster from the very beginning, which is most definitely NOT his main character arc in the Raimi films.
Excellent observation.
Also, the wrestling thing is done differently as well. In the film SM1, the promoter is pissed off that Peter beat his star wrestler and screws him over with regards to his payout which leads to Ben's death. In USM, both the promoter and the wrestlers are impressed and Peter is given a job for awhile as a professional wrestler where he lets the fame go to his head.
Exactly. The two scenes are apples and oranges.