Houston cops are trying to do just that...they stop at the parks and shoot hoops with the kids there if they see them playing on the courts, they will simply stop and play and talk with kids as they are out in the street playing football. IT MAKES A HUGE DIFFERENCE to these kiddos...just simple little things like that. They found one of the police officers that picked up a game of football with some kids later on in the day of his shift and interviewed him. He was looking at the reporter like she was crazy....he was like. "I just threw a few passes to the kids, it wasn't a big thing". The media is so weird sometimes, but it does make a difference to those kids.
I see where they are coming from with the police and how they engage with the public. But, that is a two way street....you have some kids out there that you even look at them wrong and they are in your face. If I speak to a student, that doesn't know me personally but knows I'm a teacher, and I ask them to hurry to class so they won't be tardy as we clear the halls for school....I don't necessarily expect them to take off running to class, or "yes, ma'am, I get right there", etc....but I also don't need for them to start yelling about how I always pick on them, and everyone else isn't getting in trouble, etc...etc. And I look around the hall, and we are the only people in it????? and we get that type of thing from the kiddos all the time. But many times teenagers will take things to a different level simply by their reaction to simple directives, rather than respect the authority. I can't tell you how many times one of our police officers at the school has had to hand cuff a kid, simply because the officer asked to see the kids ID (he wasn't where he was supposed to be and the kid knew that...) instead of just showing the officer his ID, he starts yelling at the officer...."you can't do anything to me", "you are just a school officer (which ours aren't, ours are actually police officers), "you can't touch me"...and then went to push the cop and the kid ended up face down on the floor handcuffed. WHAT THE HECK... so YES, IN BOTH CASES.... "not all teenagers are juvenile delinquents", and "not all officers are baton wielding jerks".