That's how I feel too. I was one of those fans that was not happy that Tobey and Raimi were gone, however I liked that the new series was going to try and be a bit different. I said to myself, "okay, they are going to try and do their own thing, kudos to them for that." That's why I even gave a them a pass on trying to include Peter's parents. That being said, they haven't handled their story well, and how they basically ignored uncle Ben in ASM 2 was a crime.
ASM 2 comes along and it is chalk full of cheesy bad guys (I will give the goblin a pass although thought it was a bit too easy how he got his suit), terrible one liners and just very colorful. I didn't recognize this "new Spidey world" and spent more time thinking, "okay, I am watching something made more for kids then adults." I found it hard to stay interested.
What will be interesting to see is what they decide to do for the third. I still hope the first suit, or a modified version of it comes back, the movie looks darker, and they keep electro and rhino as far away as possible. Likely they will bring one if not both back.