I actually think that Abrams might be as renowned as Nolan, if we're going by sheer name recognition. But I think the biggest mistake was releasing it 4 years after the first exceeded expectations. Star Trek is not a known brand, so you have to keep people interested. In 2005, Batman was a known brand but was known more for stinker movies, so when BB broke that trend, they rode its momentum (even if BB
made less money adjusted than ST09) and well, TDK happened.
Because of TDK, TDKR could afford the 4-year gap. There's no question that the shooting had more effect on the box office than the gap. Nobody forgot about TDK in those 4 years. (And nobody sane believed that TDKR could make more money than TDK - $400 million is nothing to sneeze at.)
ST09 did well, but was not a
phenomenon like TDK and didn't have that luxury. They really should have timed it better, or gotten on JJ's case to hurry up with Super 8.
It's just disappointing that a movie seemingly firing on all cylinders has to fall victim to a timing issue...