I usually agree with stuff you have to say, but this I can't quite agree with(nor with your disliking of anti-heroes...i LOVE the Punisher, and Wolverine, when he was first introduced, was a good character), but Marv Wolfman is hardly a bad writer. His intention for the Crisis were good natured. Just because editorial didn't know what to do after the fact doesn't make Wolfman crap. Tomb of Dracula is by far one of the greatest comic books ever written, and that's because Wolfman made it that way.
As for Starfire, I like her. Not this huge knowledgeable fan, but I like her. And it pains me to see what's become of her.
As for Jason Todd, I'm with TruerToTheCore. Jason Todd was a really interesting, fun character back when he was first introduced, post-crisis especially. The Max Allan Collins run on BATMAN is one of my favorites and Jason was one of the reasons. He's a pretty compelling character in those issues. He wasn't a Dick Grayson clone. He was angry and brash sure, but to an extent. He was still incredibly sympathetic and you wanted to see him get better. And he's so fun in Mike W. Barr's Detective stuff, especially with Alan Davis on the art. The first two issues of their run, with The Joker and Cat Woman, is such a good story and Jason is one of those reasons. That Starlin ruined the character doesn't mean anything.