I was never quite that big on when she became an actress/model and when she "died" but other than that... Love that spunky red head. I think it was Gerry Conway who said that Stan Lee had Gwen in his mind as the ideal match for Peter, but that's only because she was a mirror of his own wife, but Peter wasn't a mirror of Stan in the least. Peter was a traumatized and damaged young person. He wasn't going to end up with the perfect girl. MJ has the father issues, the scrappy up bringing, the twisting on the inside because of the secrets she keeps... Yeah, she's the match that Peter needs. She's of course beautiful but lets be honest, as I see it, Gwen is indeed that idealized girl next door. MJ is that crazy hot party chick you knew in High School. Her appeal is more sensuous than Gwen, and seeing as how Peter was over 18 when he met her it makes sense that she would be that way. Granted, like too many Marvel females she's LOOOOOOOOOOONNNNNNNNGGGGG suffering because of her love interest's superhero life and personality. Still, they are a great team and she knows why Peter does what he does and how it is so important to him. I think this is because as a younger character MJ was one of those, "let's drain life dry and live it to the fullest" types. It's only after the relationship with Peter deepens that I think that she realizes that she couldn't always be like that, and that's when the real worry about Peter coming home at night alive started in earnest. Still, she and he are a great duo and I think when a writer is on all cylinders they feel like an actual young couple trying to sort out everyday life in the Marvel U.