The 'Make An Honest Confession' Thread! Part V: Rebirth

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JJJ's Ulcer said:
Look man, life isn't like the movies. Think you need to get off your high-horse a bit, and realize that in their own twisted way your friends were trying to help you. Sometimes first kisses and first lays are sucky, forgettable affairs. But it's still important to go through them relatively early, so you don't develop intimacy issues with the opposite sex later on when it's important. The longer you wait for that first kiss, the more awkward and weird it will be for the other person when it finally happens (for instance if you reach your 20's and have still never been kissed it will be REALLY hard and embarrassing to explain that to your date). And that will be a real shame if you really like her.
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Getting kissed ain't easy for everybody. Stop acting like it is, pal. It's easier for women to get ''action/fun''. I'm almost 24 and never kissed....it's not happening anytime soon. Better chance of zombies being out there attacking humans on Monday than that happening. Don't like dating...like tobacco in mouth...I'm a fetish guy...like TV..money wise my life ain't great. Not happening.
 
JJJ's Ulcer said:
Look man, life isn't like the movies. Think you need to get off your high-horse a bit, and realize that in their own twisted way your friends were trying to help you. Sometimes first kisses and first lays are sucky, forgettable affairs. But it's still important to go through them relatively early, so you don't develop intimacy issues with the opposite sex later on when it's important. The longer you wait for that first kiss, the more awkward and weird it will be for the other person when it finally happens (for instance if you reach your 20's and have still never been kissed it will be REALLY hard and embarrassing to explain that to your date). And that will be a real shame if you really like her.
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God I Hate to hear your opinon on going on 26 this year. Just hasnt happened. I didnt choose to date in high school. Lots of issues, the start of this year, was my change. Change has happened 70 pounds lost I was at my worst. Confindence is picking up some and other things to follow I love working out, it gives me a great feeling. My depression is gone for the most part.

So I confess, 25 and no first kiss. So dont feel bad if still in school.
 
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JJJ's Ulcer said:
Look man, life isn't like the movies. Think you need to get off your high-horse a bit, and realize that in their own twisted way your friends were trying to help you. Sometimes first kisses and first lays are sucky, forgettable affairs. But it's still important to go through them relatively early, so you don't develop intimacy issues with the opposite sex later on when it's important. The longer you wait for that first kiss, the more awkward and weird it will be for the other person when it finally happens (for instance if you reach your 20's and have still never been kissed it will be REALLY hard and embarrassing to explain that to your date). And that will be a real shame if you really like her.
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Not to mention, I am not ashamed or embrassed of myself either. I knew if I couldnt be happy with myself how the hell am I going to be with someone and make them happy. My goal in life is to help people and if i didnt feel good about me I would just bring them down.

Man I go to concerts now and have people over me, I just gotta work with some more confidence its picking up.:woot:
 
enterthemadness said:
Getting kissed ain't easy for everybody. Stop acting like it is, pal. It's easier for women to get ''action/fun''. I'm almost 24 and never kissed....it's not happening anytime soon. Better chance of zombies being out there attacking humans on Monday than that happening. Don't like dating...like tobacco in mouth...I'm a fetish guy...like TV..money wise my life ain't great. Not happening.
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Well, if that's your attitude, of course it won't happen. Don't know what you want. I was giving Spideyville a bit of advice, because he seemed like a nice guy. As for you, ditch the persecution complex, spit out the tobacco, try being a bit more positive and talk to as many girls as possible. Or don't. And let things continue the way they've been going for 24 years.
 
I'm just going to jump into the conversation and say that it seems just as hard for girls to get kissed as guys. I'm 16 now, turning 17 soon, and I always imagined that I would have hooked up with a guy by the time I was 13-14. I still haven't, and I still have never had a boyfriend. I truly am scared it's never going to happen :csad:
 
You'll be fine. I got my first kiss just before turning 17. More classmates than you think are in your boat, but some of them might lie and tell you differently.
 
I got my first kiss when I was 15. Granted it was a Barbie.
 
God I hope so. There are a few people I know who admit they haven't, which makes me feel better, but it seems everyone is moving forward, you know? The quietest person I know is even starting to flirt with people! I'm just going to be really depressed if I'm 20 and still haven't kissed a guy - no offence, to anyone out there who hasn't.
 
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HisMagicTrick said:
I'm just going to jump into the conversation and say that it seems just as hard for girls to get kissed as guys. I'm 16 now, turning 17 soon, and I always imagined that I would have hooked up with a guy by the time I was 13-14. I still haven't, and I still have never had a boyfriend. I truly am scared it's never going to happen :csad:
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Yes, but the difference is you're nervous about being 16 going on 17 and a bunch of the guys who are in here and are nervous are in their twenties...

If you're a girl, you shouldn't be sweating that or in too much of a rush to make it happen... because it will. You get scared ike that and your standards drop and you'll start making mistakes you'll regret later on.
 
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Hound55 said:
Yes, but the difference is you're nervous about being 16 going on 17 and a bunch of the guys who are in here and are nervous are in their twenties...
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Yes, you're absolutely right, I just think I'll be in their position when I'm their age.
 
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I confess that I am dating someone who has already graduated college, has a good paying job, and is now buying her first home. Top it off with the fact she is a year younger than me and I don't have any of those things yet makes me feel intimidated.
 
Bruce Banner said:
I confess that I am dating someone who has already graduated college, has a good paying job, and is now buying her first home. Top it off with the fact she is a year younger than me and I don't have any of those things yet makes me feel intimidated.
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I can see being intimidated (I would be too) but that sounds like a sweet deal.
 
I confess I think I creeped a female out today by saying she looked nice. Geez, can you not even compliment anyone nowadays? :doh:
 
I confess that I hopped in a hot tub with my iPod touch in it...I'm so mad at myself:cmad:
 
I confess that I'm not going to teach your boyfriend how to dance with you.
 
i am SO glad i didn't kiss this jerk who kept feeling my ass during our date.
 
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