Tell me where am I interpreting.
Below, I've BOLDED the facts whose meanings we interpret differently. Because we've argued this before, I know how you interpret these events.
Superman has disobeyed Jor-El: You cant change human history. Superman reverses time.
Superman has disobeyed Jonathan Kent: Youre here for a reason but its not personal gratification (make touchdowns). Superman reverses time because Lois died.
Superman quits his mission leaving Earth alone: As seen in Superman II.
Superman has a personal revenge and abused of his super-powers to have it: With Rocky at the diner.
Superman has manipulated Lois' mind without her permission: As seen on the amnesia kiss.
Those are facts (Im not even saying how good or bad they are), they just happened on the previous movies.
Now the details!
Superman has disobeyed Jor-El: You cant change human history. Superman reverses time.
IIRC, you consider this to be a mistake for him to disobey Jor-El. Now I ask you- Why is this wrong? I see it as the right thing to do, not the wrong thing to do.
Superman has disobeyed Jonathan Kent: Youre here for a reason but its not personal gratification (make touchdowns). Superman reverses time because Lois died.
Interestingly, Jonathan Kent's admonission is to Clark as a teenager and Pa Kent ALSO says
You were put here for a reason. At the point in the movie when Lois dies Clark also recalls his feelings when Pa died:
All my powers and I couldn't save him. Juxtaposed with Jor-El's mandate and Pa's assurance that he's here for a reason, it is abundatnly clear that at that moment he truly understands that his reason for being here is helping others, and because he is emotionally human, helping those he loves. This is something Jor-El could not forsee happening- Kal-El (Kryptonian) becoming Clark (Human.) Any of us would do whatever was in our power to save a loved one, and since Superman has powers and abilities far beyond those of mortal men, he can do a lot more than we might be able to. But a paramedic could do more than you or I, and we wouldn't begrudge a paramedic using all at his or her disposal to save a loved one would we? Why should we begrudge Superman the same thing if there are no further repercussions?
In my interpretation of the film, Jor-El simply doesn't understand what it is to be human and can't imagine that Kal-El would become emotionally human, and therefore can't understand that Kal-El would choose to make a human decision as outlined by Pa Kent- using his powers for a reason, helping others based on human morality.
Superman quits his mission leaving Earth alone: As seen in Superman II.
This situation is more complex, IMO. What we have is Superman whose is being written in the mode of the comics of the day in which a relationship with Lois and his career as Superman are mutually exclusive. The film dramatizes this aspect of the status quo in a way unseen in comics.
This question to ask then is the above statement the wrong thing to do? Yes, as he learns his mission as Superman is more important than a personal committed relationship as a husband to Lois.
To me the way in which it comes about is extremely important in interpretting the meaning. Superman does not quit being Superman without a significant exterior stimulus. This is of course Lois finally discovering that Clark is really Superman. At this point, Superman has to make a choice- continue being Superman and just deny his feelings for Lois OR go 100% and commit to being Lois, b/c the situations are mutually exclusive according to Jor-El and his own sensibility- once his ID is uncovered his friends and family are endngered and the only way to eliminate the danger is to eliminate Superman.
The full answer is that, yes, the world needs Superman, but in the given situation, he went about committing to Lois in the right way.
Superman has a personal revenge and abused of his super-powers to have it: With Rocky at the diner.
I think others have argued this point well enough in the past that it can be seen as Superman teaching a bully a lesson. He doesn't hurt Rocky, he doesn't beat him to a pulp, he simply teaches Rocky a lesson- it's not nice to bully others. It's like the old Charles Atlas ad in the comics. It may SEEM like personal revenge, but he in no way gives Rocky the same treatment Rocky gave the powerless Clark.
Superman has manipulated Lois' mind without her permission: As seen on the amnesia kiss.
This is your favorite, I know. For me it simply comes down to motivation. SUperman uses the amnesia kiss so that Lois can continue on with a regular life w/o the burden of her knowledge of losing Superman's commitment to her as a spouse. Is is bad writing? Probably. Would we see it in a SUperman film today? No. But his motivation is intact and it follows with the comics of the time which depict a Superman that knows best. Mistake? No.
Well, after self-proclaiming expert on Superman, what stops you to become expert on what general audiences think or know without further proof to support your statement.
I'm only going on my personal experience based on conversations I've had who've seen the film. I've only met one person who actually liked it. THey are all definitely General Audience folks. Based on the divided fan base here and my experiences combined with what I've read online- the General Audience seems just as divided on Superman Returns as the fanboys (us).
Im sure some people thought Superman would never have sex with Lois out of wedlock and BAM! Superman II. Ah, but then he deleetd her memory so its pretty much like it never happened I guess. Hes still clean to the world.
Perhaps. But perhaps it was the fact that when they had sex it was obviously part of a committed relationship. That his honest intentions were for him to be with her.
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And GA had no troubles accepting that: Joker was the Waynes' killer, Duacrd and ra's are the same person, Ra's is Batman's mentor and trainer, radioactive spider from Spiderman is not radioactive anymore, the spider-webshooter doesn't exist, Doc Ock had a wife, Bruce Banner's name was David Banner (on the TV series).
That speaks volumes about people's "deep" knowledge and/or about the success of a movie linked to accuracy to the original source.
The point you make is that comsmetic changes don't make a big a difference as changes of substance. None of that really matters. With Superman the general audience already has a pre-conceived notion of Superman as a genuinely good, honest and caring person who puts the good of others above his own- especially Lois Lane. The events in the backstory of SR violates this conception.
My argument all along is that the changes in Superman Returns are changes of substance and not cosmetic changes. I can only go on what I've experienced from the above mentioned conversations and read on the internet.
Necessity of truth or not, its what happened. But yes, its pretty much as almost everything in life a case to case issue. Some movies have lots of actions and dissapoint, some are accurate to comic books and are pure crap, some are re-interpretationms and are successful. Anyone in Hollywood can tell you theres no formula to make a movie that most people will like.
True. But I think you have to maintain the essence of the character and the tone of stories especially with characters that have a life well beyond that of the comics. Superman is an icon. People are already familiar with him. They may not be intimately acquainted with him, but they still feel like they know him. To reinterpret a character like SR has, is bound to go over with mixed response b/c it's violating the general audience's pre-conceived notion of SUperman as a genuinely good, honest and caring person- especially when it comes to Lois.