What's something you're embarassed to admit?

Oh God, that's terrible. Good on you for not going with it. Respect! I do mean that. I'm thinking quite a few guys would go with it, not really thinking about it.

I hate it when scenarios like that happen in teen flicks. Just ugh. Seen it so many times...

Well the part that I'm really embarrassed about is what happened afterwards. My friends held me down (one of them even tackled me) just so this chick could give me my first kiss. But I didn't want it that way. I wanted things to be special with someone I actually cared about, yet to my friends those reasons weren't good enough and I was just being 'gay'. One of my friends even recorded a video of the whole fiasco on his phone and showed it to a whole bunch of people in the school. And yet now they wonder why I don't talk to them or hang out with them anymore.
 
Well the part that I'm really embarrassed about is what happened afterwards. My friends held me down (one of them even tackled me) just so this chick could give me my first kiss. But I didn't want it that way. I wanted things to be special with someone I actually cared about, yet to my friends those reasons weren't good enough and I was just being 'gay'. One of my friends even recorded a video of the whole fiasco on his phone and showed it to a whole bunch of people in the school. And yet now they wonder why I don't talk to them or hang out with them anymore.

Outrageous! O_O Harrassment. They most probably thought it was funny (the stupidest things are "funny" when you're in college :whatever:) but of course it wasn't, it's never funny when it's happening to you. People never stop to think how stupid their actions may look in other people's eyes. What a bunch of idiots.

And typical response to you refusing ("You must be gay!"). You can see the retort from a mile away.

I hope you realize you've got more class than all of them combined and then some. It's funny, they all thought they're "mature" for having sex but their actions were certainly immature like whoah. If you wanted to spoil it for them really bad, you could have reported them. To me it would have been worth it... Just to see the puzzled looks on their faces. Sweet. PWN!

There's no cure for idiocy. :word: You're far better off than them.
 
Well the part that I'm really embarrassed about is what happened afterwards. My friends held me down (one of them even tackled me) just so this chick could give me my first kiss. But I didn't want it that way. I wanted things to be special with someone I actually cared about, yet to my friends those reasons weren't good enough and I was just being 'gay'. One of my friends even recorded a video of the whole fiasco on his phone and showed it to a whole bunch of people in the school. And yet now they wonder why I don't talk to them or hang out with them anymore.

Are you serious!? That story is outrageuos. I can't imagine people doing that. You did the right thing.
 
I blame it on my disorders and my own shallowness, which I'm kind of ashamed of. I also have OCD, ADHD, depression and a minor case of Aspbergers, and for awhile I suffered from depression. I have a tendency to make weird gesticulations with my body when I'm feeling certain emotions. For example, when I was upset I used to bite my hand or squeeze my face. I'm better now, but I still have some quirks I need to work out.

Problem solved, your just shy. Stop being so hard on yourself, I think your just guilty of selling yourself short. Ive seen 4 foot tall overweight midgets who work at Jack in the box score with super models, what women like most in men is confidence. Just work on building up your self esteem, it takes trial and error but you'll eventually find your groove and relax. When you meet someone you want, think of her and not your shortcomings like ADHD. I mean if George W Bush can be president of the free world then finding you a date shouldn't be rocket science. I have a suggestion get addicted to watching stand up comedy for a while, you will develop a natural charismatic attitude that most women will find appealing, the more trials and errors you put yourself you will eventually learn what to say, and be sensitive to body and behavioral cues. I know it's scary at first, but once you get over the first hurdle its smooth sailing.
 
Outrageous! O_O Harrassment. They most probably thought it was funny (the stupidest things are "funny" when you're in college :whatever:) but of course it wasn't, it's never funny when it's happening to you. People never stop to think how stupid their actions may look in other people's eyes. What a bunch of idiots.

And typical response to you refusing ("You must be gay!"). You can see the retort from a mile away.

I hope you realize you've got more class than all of them combined and then some. It's funny, they all thought they're "mature" for having sex but their actions were certainly immature like whoah. If you wanted to spoil it for them really bad, you could have reported them. To me it would have been worth it... Just to see the puzzled looks on their faces. Sweet. PWN!

There's no cure for idiocy. :word: You're far better off than them.

Actually it was last year when I was in high school, but the weird thing was that they were going through so much effort to "help" me yet neither of them have ever had a gf or kissed a girl or anything.

And about reporting them, idk maybe I should've but I was so embarrassed by it that I didn't wanna bring it up to anybody. And what's worse is during the summer, these guys kept coming to my house uninvited, and my mom wanted me to 'be nice' and talk to them. Later on one day, my brother was giving them a ride home and they showed him the video. That really got me mad because I always try to keep family and school separated and in an instant that last sanctity I had was taken away. These guys still try to talk to me today but I just ignore them. They call me a loser and everything but I don't care because I'm doing much better and I'm much happier without them.
 
I blame it on my disorders and my own shallowness, which I'm kind of ashamed of. I also have OCD, ADHD, depression and a minor case of Aspbergers, and for awhile I suffered from depression. I have a tendency to make weird gesticulations with my body when I'm feeling certain emotions. For example, when I was upset I used to bite my hand or squeeze my face. I'm better now, but I still have some quirks I need to work out.
Alzheimers might have just made the list. :oldrazz:
 
Problem solved, your just shy. Stop being so hard on yourself, I think your just guilty of selling yourself short. Ive seen 4 foot tall overweight midgets who work at Jack in the box score with super models, what women like most in men is confidence. Just work on building up your self esteem, it takes trial and error but you'll eventually find your groove and relax. When you meet someone you want, think of her and not your shortcomings like ADHD. I mean if George W Bush can be president of the free world then finding you a date shouldn't be rocket science. I have a suggestion get addicted to watching stand up comedy for a while, you will develop a natural charismatic attitude that most women will find appealing, the more trials and errors you put yourself you will eventually learn what to say, and be sensitive to body and behavioral cues. I know it's scary at first, but once you get over the first hurdle its smooth sailing.

Thanks, man. I try and adheed to your advice.
 
i'm slightly terrified of intimacy and letting my guard down
 
Are you serious!? That story is outrageuos. I can't imagine people doing that. You did the right thing.

Oh they have done much worse. Just right now I got an email of how someone posted on facebook of me on the verge of getting totally bi***ed out by a girl I liked from way back in junior year. Everyone's commenting on how hey remember that day and how bad it was, or they heard it was. Luckily for me I just take it in stride and don't let it bother me.
 
Thanks, man. I try and adheed to your advice.

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I have manlove for knowsbleed..
 
I'm often embarrassed to admit that i sometimes cry to emotional films... most recently, the end of We Were Soldiers.
 
I had a few friends who were trying to pay a girl to have sex with me just so I could get some "action" during my senior year. Even though she said she'd do it for free, that's not how I wanted it to happen. I'm proud of myself because I didn't let them pressure me into doing it.
As you should be.
 
Well the part that I'm really embarrassed about is what happened afterwards. My friends held me down (one of them even tackled me) just so this chick could give me my first kiss. But I didn't want it that way. I wanted things to be special with someone I actually cared about, yet to my friends those reasons weren't good enough and I was just being 'gay'. One of my friends even recorded a video of the whole fiasco on his phone and showed it to a whole bunch of people in the school. And yet now they wonder why I don't talk to them or hang out with them anymore.
Jeez man. Again, right decision.
 
I have a huge, huge crush on someone I've been attracted to for over 2 years, spend several hours with every week, rarely get the courage to say a word to, can barely look him in the eye for fear the admiration will show on my face... and funniest of all, the time spent with him involves him kissing someone else. Hahaha. Figure this one out.
 
I slept with my ex college roomates girlfriend my entire first semester, while he was seeing her

You sir, are a tit.

I was gonna comment on something I'm embarrassed to admit but, I seriously can't think of anything. Oh, wait...I'm embarrassed to mention that I care way too much about my looks and weight. Grr :cmad:
 
Well the part that I'm really embarrassed about is what happened afterwards. My friends held me down (one of them even tackled me) just so this chick could give me my first kiss. But I didn't want it that way. I wanted things to be special with someone I actually cared about, yet to my friends those reasons weren't good enough and I was just being 'gay'. One of my friends even recorded a video of the whole fiasco on his phone and showed it to a whole bunch of people in the school. And yet now they wonder why I don't talk to them or hang out with them anymore.
Was she an actual hooker? :wow:
 
I live with my girlfriend and her parents at the age of 27 :(
I just found a job though so I'm happy! ^_^
 
Im embarassed because...

because...

I see dead people!

In all seriousness, I'm embarrassed because my younger brothers are so stupid and I am also embarassed because pretty much everyone in my generation is STOOOOOOOPIIIIIIIIIIDDDDDDDDD.
 
I'm embarrassed to admit that (as an English major) I absolutely HATE reading; I'm more a writer.
 
Well the part that I'm really embarrassed about is what happened afterwards. My friends held me down (one of them even tackled me) just so this chick could give me my first kiss. But I didn't want it that way. I wanted things to be special with someone I actually cared about, yet to my friends those reasons weren't good enough and I was just being 'gay'. One of my friends even recorded a video of the whole fiasco on his phone and showed it to a whole bunch of people in the school. And yet now they wonder why I don't talk to them or hang out with them anymore.

Well, if it were me I'd be plotting to kill them right now. Trust me dude, you can. Your friends, are very simple folk and you are above them. Buy a gun and tell yourself - 'If any of those fools contact me again I'm going to kill them.' Problem solved, they challenged you and you rose above it. Case closed.

If you go to jail, so what. Plead insanity do to their cruel mistreating of you and the fact that they pressured and pushed you first. You'll do five years, at the most, in the mental ward of a minimum security prison and get out a much happier person.

DON'T MISUNDERSTAND ME! I'm not saying 'get a gun and go kill someone.' I'm saying, get a gun and don't let these people back in your life - you're better than them. I'm just preparing you for the outcome if you choose such route.
 
I'm embarrassed to admit that (as an English major) I absolutely HATE reading; I'm more a writer.

I love writing, and I have the same problem. Thing is, you gotta keep on reading them to let your skills improve :up:
 
As you should be.

Jeez man. Again, right decision.

Thanks, and it's one of those hard decisions that you know is right but usually don't make because of what people will say.

Was she an actual hooker? :wow:

LOL, no she was some crack****e at my school. She would spend all her free periods at the park across the street from my school which was where people would go to do drugs and get drunk. Seriously I thought I was catching something afterwards.

Well, if it were me I'd be plotting to kill them right now. Trust me dude, you can. Your friends, are very simple folk and you are above them. Buy a gun and tell yourself - 'If any of those fools contact me again I'm going to kill them.' Problem solved, they challenged you and you rose above it. Case closed.

If you go to jail, so what. Plead insanity do to their cruel mistreating of you and the fact that they pressured and pushed you first. You'll do five years, at the most, in the mental ward of a minimum security prison and get out a much happier person.

DON'T MISUNDERSTAND ME! I'm not saying 'get a gun and go kill someone.' I'm saying, get a gun and don't let these people back in your life - you're better than them. I'm just preparing you for the outcome if you choose such route.

Well I've never been a violent person so....:whatever:
 
I love writing, and I have the same problem. Thing is, you gotta keep on reading them to let your skills improve :up:

Meh. I dislike reading; any books I find entertaining are few and far in between. I simply don't care for the pacing of most books. My writing skills are mostly a result of bothering to learn a few techniques and mastering rhetoric. :twisted:
 

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