why do young girls date older men?

[Mike059jig]

Maturity I guess and money....but Thats why my professor says nowadays they are more widowers than ever.....

Isn't Hillary Duff a Example of this Question...

 

[Alonsovich]

We should all be pimps like that at that age.
Don't squander the pimp gene that he passed down.

Considering how opposed I am to marriage I wouldn't discard that...

 

[Clouseau]

according to my wife (i'm 5 1/2 years older than her), it's my maturity that first attracted her to me...

of course, she has since learned that my maturity is a fleeting thing, but hey... if it works, it works!

 

[HellOnEarth]

oh you clouseua you

*growl*

 

[Clouseau]

oh you clouseua you

*growl*

what are you growling about?

 

[cryptic name]

I'm not a woman. But I play one on the internet.


At home I love the ladies. I'm bangin' a smokin' hot 19 year old in Chicago right now. Luckily I know all the door guys so I can get her into Cabaret and Rock'it. Bwahahaha!

*high fives Franklin Richards*

 

[Fanticon]

because they feel secure and they want the money...and if the older man doesn't have money...she is somehow under the impression that he does.

 

[skorponok]

I just dated a 22 year old. SOmehow things got really serious really fast (unexpectedly), it scared her, and so that's that...

Funny thing is, I also found out that I wasn't ready for the "serious" thing either.

 

[Alpha and Omega]

Young girls date older guys for a few reasons. . .

1) Older men seem more experienced in life, secular activity, philosophy, preference, etc. . .

2) The appeal of dating a person who's apparently more mature, although a lot of guys just age, and never really grow up. Some older men thank their lucky stars for the never-ending supply of inexperienced teen girls who they can sleep with, and also that these girls aren't as demanding as . . . well, mature women.

3) The showy display of it. Some girls like the image of being seen w/ an older man.

4) Like a bunch have already said, most older guys are more financially stable, and a lot of young women see an older man w/ money as a win/win.

5) Society used to portray the ideal couple as a man who was somewhat older w/ a younger, innocent woman as his partner. That's not how it is anymore in our modern society(older women date younger men more frequently now), but I don't think that the mindset has fully left.

Then again, maybe some girls feel that older guys are more experienced sexually. I dunno. The reasons probably differ w/ each person.​

 

[Cyclops]

Why? Because those older men are Hugh Hefner, that's why.

 

[Topdawg]

Gold Diggazzz!!!!!

 

[DBella]

Young girls date older guys for a few reasons. . .

1) Older men seem more experienced in life, secular activity, philosophy, preference, etc. . .

2) The appeal of dating a person who's apparently more mature, although a lot of guys just age, and never really grow up. Some older men thank their lucky stars for the never-ending supply of inexperienced teen girls who they can sleep with, and also that these girls aren't as demanding as . . . well, mature women.

3) The showy display of it. Some girls like the image of being seen w/ an older man.

4) Like a bunch have already said, most older guys are more financially stable, and a lot of young women see an older man w/ money as a win/win.

5) Society used to portray the ideal couple as a man who was somewhat older w/ a younger, innocent woman as his partner. That's not how it is anymore in our modern society(older women date younger men more frequently now), but I don't think that the mindset has fully left.

Then again, maybe some girls feel that older guys are more experienced sexually. I dunno. The reasons probably differ w/ each person.​

Very good analysis, P. The reason I don't date younger men is #5. Yes, I've been brainswashed.

 

[Hades]

Very good analysis, P. The reason I don't date younger men is #5. Yes, I've been brainswashed.

You have beautifull black hair, and an even more beautifull purple mask.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

Older men seem more put together. Usually lead more interesting lives. And have more experience talking to women.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

Very good analysis, P. The reason I don't date younger men is #5. Yes, I've been brainswashed.

Don't lie

 

[Deep Thinkin'!]

yeah so why do young women date older men. imt alking to a girl right now who i have'nt spoken to in a long time whos living with a 27 year old(shes 19) and basically just admitted shes mooching off of him.

just in answer to this...
Girls like mature guys. Everybody knows guys don't mature as fast as girls (it's a fact, i'm not being mean)

I know this because I'm a girl, and I've been interested in several older men.

 

[Alpha and Omega]

Very good analysis, P. The reason I don't date, but still occasionally pleasure younger men is #5. Yes, I've been brainswashed.

Don't lie

I fixed it SB. Now it makes sense.

 

[Equint77]

i don't see anything wrong with going to NYU... picking up freshman girls and convincing them I'm a professor by using my old NYU ID.....

 

[Erzengel]

I drive by the high schools every September and do the same thing.

"Hey baby!! You wanna ride in a car?"

 

[Equint77]

I drive by the high schools every September and do the same thing.

"Hey baby!! You wanna ride in a car?"

it's a good trade off... give them rides... take their bus passes and then sell them to adults...

 

[Mr. Credible]

A 27 year old man is more mature than a 19 year old boy.

obviously... that's why he's dating a 19 year old girl.

 

[Alpha and Omega]

obviously... that's why he's banging a 19 year old mistress while his wife is at home w/ the little urchins.

This makes more sense in today's society.

Not saying it's right, but it happens. A lot.

 

[Erzengel]

And girls even around 19-20 complain that men or guys their age aren't mature enough and remembering how stupid I was at the age, I can't honestly fully disagree with that.

 

[Equint77]

And girls even around 19-20 complain that men or guys their age aren't mature enough and remembering how stupid I was at the age, I can't honestly fully disagree with that.

that's why girls that age are attracted to us.... they complain about the immaturity but when their asses are laughing and having a great time... do they complain??

it's ignorance, immaturity and plain stupidity at that age that makes girls like guys their age.

 

[Capt Throbberson]

That's not that bad, I know a girl who's 16 going out with a guy who's like 26-27.