14 is cool, as long as you're cool (don't be a huge fanboy weirdo, don't break my stuff, don't smoke a bunch of weed in my bathroom).
I'm not considered "cool" or "popular" but I promise I won't do any of those things you mentioned... however if I do bring friends I'd have to be more careful...
I encountered too many fanboy weirdos to want to be like them, but I might (keyword might) come off as a bit nerdy and/or obsessive. Just tell me to shut up when needed. I (usually) never talk during movies unless it's really quietly.
O_O......... that's amazing. I would never be able to do that.I used to hang with college kids and write term papers for them (for a fee) when I was younger than you.