craigdbfan
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Welcome to the hype Ra's. That's a really great story there and I'm glad that you've been able to heal one step at a time.This is my first post, and I will preface it by saying how much I have enjoyed reading your comments. Batman means a great many things to different people, and my response is personal in nature. It has led me to view Bruce and his injuries in a different light.
A year ago, my parents died within a month of the other. At this point in my life, I was in the best shape of my career, completing several High Intensity Workout programs with astounding success. Their death hit me like Rachel did Bruce. I was debilitated within weeks, racked with grief and depair. I lost the will to workout much less live.
I had panic attacks, phantom pains in my abdomen (my mom died of stomach cancer and dad cancer to), and began to fear death. I am a single dad and have no help whatsoever from the mother of my son. I feared I would die and leave him alone. He was all I had left to fight for.
Two months later I injured my shoulder lifting a box of books at work. Since that day, I have had one surgery, which failed, and have little use of my arm. I could barely get out of bed, and limped around in pain. This past week they fired me (legally) and the Doctor said I was permanently disabled.
Was I injured? Of course, but my mental fatigue and scarring debilitated me further. Grief and stress are just as deadly as any physical injury. Now, given the bad news, I am fighting back, for the sake of my son, who in this story is akin to Gotham. I would die to protect or safeguard his future. I live only for him now, so that his life is good. He is my greatest achievment.
My arm is still damaged beyond repair, but I am trying and seeing success in fixing the rest of my body. Once I was able to break the mental chains I had wrapped myself in, then I was able to overcome the phantom pains and fears I had conjured for myself.
I may never be 100%, and may never use the arm again, but I will do my best, and that belief allows me to ignore the pain I feel on daily basis; mind over body.
I think when Bruce learned the truth about Rachel, he was released from that metaphysical prison he had constructed, and while he was still in immense pain, he overcame it.
Bane broke him, but in that despair he saw what was important; Gotham and the image of Batman he had intended; anyone could be Batman. Anyone could be a hero.
Like an aging sports star fending off the younger rival, he had one last hurrah in him before the end. Overcoming the pain, he defeated not just Bane, but his past grief, and in the process made the Batman immortal, in ways that Ras Al Ghul had hinted at; legend.
Well, that is my two cents worth on the subject. I look forward to interacting further with all of you.
I agree with you completely too. Sure I had my problems with this movie but seeing a movie touch someone that much and for you to be able relate with it in such a way is something really quite special.
Can't wait to hear more from you.


