Dragon said:
It's responses like that that show how childish you are about all of this and thus why you rely on generalizations to make your case. I've been trying to get across to you that your take on this is merely your opinion. I've never tried to make it as though it weren't valid, or that my opinion is more important that yours. The premise of your argument has been that because YOU don't see any value in Gwen's character, that NO ONE does or should. I'm saying that those of us who are bothered by these events have a differing perspective and why. Not that you should think this way, but understand why we do.
Oh, yep, you got me down pat. Shoot. How'd you figure me out? Maybe I should just try the direct approach. I IMPOSE MY WILL UPON YOU! BOOGEDY BOO!!! Shoot. Didn't work.
Sarcasm over.
ME!!! said:
And yeah, Dragon. That's my take on things. Just because I don't toss the precautionary "IMO" inbetween every word I say doesn't mean I'm generalizing. All I've got is my opinion, hell, that's all anybody's got here.
Blam. You expressed your side of it, I expressed my side of it. How are my words imposing my will on everybody else? How is what you were saying any different than what I am saying?
Yes, I consider what Gwen did here an error in judgement. Either that, or her falling prey to Norman's manipulation in some way or another. Which is another point I've brought up, yet was ignored.
See, MJ at least has had alot more to her than Gwen. From being crafted as a joke in the beginning and really fleshing out into a fuller character than more or less anybody in Spidey's supporting cast, she's done quite a bit. We're privvy to her thoughts frequently, and at times has narrated quite a few issues of the book, or portions of others (see Kraven's Last Hunt for example). She figured out Pete's secret identity long ago, she's had more than her fair share of brushes with villains, particularly one who thought that she was Spider-Man, and so on and soforth. MJ developed more as a character because she wasn't initially intended to be Mrs. Spider-Man, that just kinda happened after Gwen died.
Aunt May, I'd agree with you up until recent years when JMS actually gave her a human personality rather than a "doting aunt" stereotype.
And I don't see Gwen running off to have the babies in secret as ******ed. She was young. Scared. Smart people make stupid decisions all the time, despite their intellect. Surely you know what I mean unless you're somehow flawless.
And that's what it was about Gwen that kinda bugged me. She was little more than "the perfect girlfriend" rather than an actual human being who makes mistakes and ****s up royally every once in a while. This adds that dimension to her. I mean, seriously. Can you honestly say that you've never done anything RIDICULOUSLY stupid that causes nothing but regret and misery in your entire life? At it's worst, this is what it is. Does it desanctify Gwen? Yes. Yes it does. Is that a bad thing? No. It just makes her what Pete himself is: human.
But anyway, I better get back to trying to program you guys to line up with my opinions.