ragingdemon155 said:I see what your saying and I respect your opinion. It's just that I still don't see how the marriage is neccesarily a "bad" thing for Spider-man/Peter. There are so many possibilties and storylines that have yet to even be touched on with the marriage. From his very first issue..Spider-man has been in a constant stay of progression and development, almost growing with his readers. Now, granted...I don't want Spider-man to grow into an oldman with limping from roof top to roof top. But his growth from highschool to college to a job, having a few relationships along the way (Gwen, Betty Felicia), finally settling down with MJ. That's always been one of the charms of the character to me.
Joey Q is a complete idiot if he thinks giving MJ the boot will "fix" things. Fans for the most part love her, the marriage and she's easily one of the most popular characters in Marvel. The marriage had nothing to do with Totem nonsense, The Other, Sins Pasts, Spidey sucking up souls, stabing and eating people.
But even then, even with the shift to college and the back-and-forth between girlfriends, he was still Spider-Man. He still adhered to the core concept (although it was somewhat diluted when Parker became more popular among his peers in college). This, then, was the illusion of change, mere variations in window dressing.
The death of Gwen, while successfully keeping Spider-Man out of the trap he's since fallen headlong into, did, however, create a "tentpole" moment in his history. It limited his universality. After all, violently losing one's true love isn't a run-of-the-mill, "fun" problem like in the old days, now is it? This event created a sense of time, of history. It created a milestone (one which would be endlessly referred to and/or raped in the coming decades) and a chronological reference point for the anal-retentive lunatic fanboy fringe (which is now the majority) to latch onto (so they could begin pounding out absurd "Marvel Time" formulas to dictate how long it would take Peter to age to adulthood).
A successful, happily married Peter Parker is no Peter Parker at all.
Spider-Man spoke very well to his original target audience. Problem is, that audience still expects him to speak to them (and them alone) today, 40-plus years later.
Hey, 400 posts in this thread!
By the by, the quote in your signature--
"I'll always be there for you, MJ. Even if I'm standing on the edge of hell itself, if I know you need me, I'll come for you. I swear it." - Peter Parker FNSM #3
--is a rather good example of what's up these days. It's the kind of "realistic", faux-cathartic, faux-poetic nonsense that Stan Lee's Peter Parker would never, ever have said. Merely a mouthed platitude designed to sound "cool" and "realistic" and "deep". It's "junk food", compared to the simple truths delivered in that inimitable, Stan Lee-esque fashion of yore.