It's best not to dwell on it anymore at this point. It won't change unless there are major shakeups at Marvel and Disney and there is finally some sort of will power to see crossover between TV divisions and MCU.
But you know what guys? Honestly, there are benefits to this deal.
Think about it. Marvel Netflix get to tell darker, more mature and adult stories in their corner of the MCU. So we can get a break from the more charming family friendlier stories of the MCU and get something grittier and darker when we need it.
That's another problem I see. How do you bring those darker stories and characters over without their being a clash of styles and disconnect?
You can't exactly have Jessica Jones meeting teenage Spidey and it going like this:
Spidey: Hi there ma'am. I'm Spider-Man.
Jessica: You look like a dukeebag wearing a bodystocking.
Spidey: *Nervous laugh* So...uh...what's your deal?
Jessica: My best friend and adopted sister murdered my mother who I found out was still alive almost 20 years after I was in a horrendous accident that killed the rest of my family and left me with godforsaken powers. Also, my mother became a deranged psychopath with the same powers as me who murdered my boyfriend and a boatload of other people. I was raped by a deviant who can brainwash people within five feet of him and forced to murder the wife of a man I later spied on and had an affair with. Also, I put down about five bottles of whatever liquor I can get my hands on a day. What's your deal? Got bit by a radioactive spider? Boohoo and cry me a river you wallcrawling wannabe.