How do you get a friend laid?

[ShadowBoxing]

Btw, I honestly don't think sex should be something that you just do to do.

To each there own...but I still don't see why Jourmugand is so obsessed with "raping" to get laid.

 

[Kevin]

I, on one hand, could see that he was clearly joking, but one shouldn't make jokes of such things.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

I, on one hand, could see that he was clearly joking, but one shouldn't make jokes of such things.

This is the first time he's made this "joke"...and he hasn't really dropped it either. I thought he was clearly joking a while back, but Tzarinna is pretty convinced he is either serious or doesn't know how to separate humor from just being inappropriate.

 

[Kevin]

Then I should say that I HOPE he was joking.

 

[The Squirrel]

I'm about to be 20 and still a virgin.

I don't see why it matters so much whether or not your friend gets laid any time soon.

And I really don't understand why you feel like you have to get him laid.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

I'm about to be 20 and still a virgin.

I don't see why it matters so much whether or not your friend gets laid any time soon.

And I really don't understand why you feel like you have to get him laid.

He seems to want to...I think it mostly stems from the fact that my other roomate, Justin, got laid over the summer...so now he is the odd man out so to speak.

 

[Kevin]

You be proud of thatm Squirrel!

 

[Kevin]

He seems to want to...I think it mostly stems from the fact that my other roomate, Justin, got laid over the summer...so now he is the odd man out so to speak.

So he feels pressured? Do you guys make him feel that way?

 

[Eros]

I'm about to be 20 and still a virgin.

I don't see why it matters so much whether or not your friend gets laid any time soon.



And I really don't understand why you feel like you have to get him laid.

If you in your 20s and not yet laid, people tend to look down upon you.

 

[Kevin]

If you in your 20s and not yet laid, people tend to look down upon you.

But why is that?

 

[tzarinna]

Let's not give a **** what people think.

 

[The Squirrel]

If you in your 20s and not yet laid, people tend to look down upon you.

That doesn't make any sense.

People like that are stupid.

Being laid or un-laid makes you no more or less of the man that people expect you to be in today's world.

 

[Majik1387]

If you in your 20s and not yet laid, people tend to look down upon you.

Only the idiotic, moronic people.

 

[Eros]

But why is that?

Thats how the world is, sex is a big thing amongst young people. If you aint getting any, people will get on you.

 

[Kevin]

Thats how the world is, sex is a big thing amongst young people. If you aint getting any, people will get on you.

Those people should be looked down upon, because if they think that all to life is sex, they are sadly mistaken

 

[Eros]

Those people should be looked down upon, because if they think that all to life is sex, they are sadly mistaken

Walk up to 5 young adults[black or white] and ask them if any of them are virgins. I promise they all will say they have had sex numerous times, and they may even get angry at you for even thinking they might of been virgins. Also it doesn't matter if they might be lieing or not, they will still act like they have had sex.

 

[tzarinna]

So why should anyone give a **** what they think,Eros?

 

[Kevin]

It's sad, but It's true. Don't get me wrong, I'm know where near the type of person who thinks that people shuld wait until they're married to have sex. I think they should wait until they're ready, mature, and maybe (I don't know about this anymore) In love.

 

[Eros]

So why should anyone give a **** what they think,Eros?

Its not what they think, its the fact that in todays world Its not sociably exceptable to be a virgin at 20.

 

[Kevin]

I respect anyone who doesn't care what others think of them. People who judge obviously feel that they need to judge because they know they have flaws.

 

[Majik1387]

Its not what they think, its the fact that in todays world Its not sociably exceptable to be a virgin at 20.

That's not true at all.

 

[unstoppable]

Its not what they think, its the fact that in todays world Its not sociably exceptable to be a virgin at 20.

I don't believe in pre marritual sex so

 

[ShadowBoxing]

So he feels pressured? Do you guys make him feel that way?

No, not directly. But when one of your best friends goes from a virgin to...well...not a virgin, I can sympathize with his situation. I mean I am two years their senior just about, so with me it never bugged them, but this guy was his roomate in Freshman and Sophomore year...so, yeah.

 

[ShadowBoxing]

If you in your 20s and not yet laid, people tend to look down upon you.

Depends on your circle. This school (and surrounding town) happens to be very religious and very fundamentalist....so actually being a non-virgin carries a stigma here, and the topic of sex is taboo in most conversation.

Seriously, although it's scant consolation to some here....getting laid is somewhat of a feat around here.

 

[tzarinna]

Its not what they think, its the fact that in todays world Its not sociably exceptable to be a virgin at 20.

Maybe in shantytowns.

I get **** from people who don't believe or agree with my vow of celibacy. I don't get it. If it's not directly related to you why give a ****. Oh and some of these people don't even know what celibacy is,so yes I have to explain that as well. *big ass sigh*