I Feel Like A Scumbag

[CConn]

3 years, once she's 18 not a big deal. Doomed and not advised, but not a big deal.

What? I know tons of people who are in relationships with people 3 years older/younger than them. Married too. I'd hardly say it's a "doomed" concept.

Hell, my parents are 13 years apart in age.

 

[Badger]

What? I know tons of people who are in relationships with people 3 years older/younger than them. Married too. I'd hardly say it's a "doomed" concept.

Hell, my parents are 13 years apart in age.

Sorry, maybe I wasn't to clear. Just meant an 18 (or even a 19) year old dating someone 21 or older, thats all. If the person is in their twenty's, then you cares what the age difference is.

 

[Erzengel]

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What's the issue with a 21 dating a 18 or 19 year old. You are both in school. While one is probably getting harder classes and maybe interning, you go to school on the same campus. Wha'ts the big deal?

 

[Hades]

I don't see why people make such people deals over age.

Maturity is a strange thing...I see no reason why it should matter if nobody is being harmed.

I mean sure, there is some cases where the older person could take advantage of the younger lesser experienced one. But I think it's up to the parents to teach the kids about the dangers and things that can come out of such a relationship and just hope they make the right choice..that's all you can do.
And if they do happen to end up in a ****ty relationship hope they learn something from it and take it in stride. I mean, every relationship has a chance of turning out bad. For many variables and reasons..but that's life, what are you gonna do?

 

[Erzengel]

Well the basis of this thread was the thread starter was 20 and he was interested in a girl, who broke up with her bf to be with him, who is 16.

 

[Hades]

Well the basis of this thread was the thread starter was 20 and he was interested in a girl, who broke up with her bf to be with him, who is 16.

Yes, I realize that. Why not?
Different strokes for different folks. If they're happy I see no reason not to.

 

[Erzengel]

Well maybe because in some states he could get arrested for statutory rape?

 

[Hades]

Well maybe because in some states he could get arrested for statutory rape?

**** the Po-leece

 

[Edd Extraordinaire]

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What's the issue with a 21 dating a 18 or 19 year old. You are both in school. While one is probably getting harder classes and maybe interning, you go to school on the same campus. Wha'ts the big deal?

Exactly.

 

[CConn]

Agreed.

 

[Edd Extraordinaire]

Indeed.

 

[CConn]

fo'shizzle.

 

[Edd Extraordinaire]

My....Nizzle...Perhaps?

 

[Badger]

Just my two shinny pennies, fo'shiggedy.

 

[Edd Extraordinaire]

You ruins it.

 

[Iceman]

Are you still a scumbag? I'm not going to read everything here.

 

[Edd Extraordinaire]

If you don't condone it.



Yes.

 

[Iceman]

If you don't condone it.



Yes.

I've not read since the 1st post but 20-16 sounds a little 'fresh'. 20-17 doesn't seem as much of an issue to me as a year makes a lot of difference at that age. It really depends on how mature she is for her age. As long as it's legal where you are and she's mature I don't see a problem.

 

[Edd Extraordinaire]

It is legal. She is mature. I act immature, but in reality I am very mature. By acting immature, I mean I am still funny.

 

[Badger]

You ruins it.

Sorry, Whitey-not-***-lately.

 

[Iceman]

It is legal. She is mature. I act immature, but in reality I am very mature. By acting immature, I mean I am still funny.

Having given the issues the level of consideration they deserve, you are free to continue.

 

[Edd Extraordinaire]

Goddamn right. It's a free country....Well...not that free.

 

[Orko Is King]

4 years isn't too much, but your trouble is, it's the WRONG four years. If she was 20 and you were 24, it wouldn't be any big deal.

What I was gonna say.

 

[hippy fascist]

It's like the old saying goes,

"If there's grass on the wicket, let's play cricket!" t:

Seriously dude, these days a 16-17 old is practically an adult and my rule was always 3 years older or younger (but nothing uner 16!) Ultimately if you see it going somewhere prsue it, if it's short term fun you're in dangerous territory...