*Official* Relationship Advice Thread

[Ace of Knaves]

Hats off to you, man. I just came out of a 2-year relationship a little while ago, and one of the [many] reasons I left it was because I was growing weary with being with one girl for too long. I do want to possibly get married in like... Ten years, but I seem to have commitment problems (when I actually get into a relationship to begin with). Congrats to you- I dunno if I'd ever be able to do that.

Thanks man

Yea it's been one hell of a ride alright, ups and downs, the usual cliche stuff

But yea I suppose the good thing is, we both know where we stand when it comes to marriage and kids. So there's no real added pressure or anything. Neither of us want to go that route just yet.

 

[Anita18]

I'm also a firm believer in playing hard to get. So maybe you being "introverted" you came off as uninteresting or blaze' so it made him want to pursue you even more.

Well he's even more introverted than me, so I dunno. He came off pretty boring and aloof at first. Heck, he's STILL boring when we talk online or on the phone. (We've stopped talking on the phone, that's how useless it is.)

And I really am introverted, in the "it's hard to get me away from the computer desk" sort of way. I'm perfectly fine with it, usually. At least my bf gets me out of the house and be spontaneous.

 

[katie_girl09]

Thanks

Well we proper got together when we was 17. So 6 years! ****, that is a long time! Had rocky patches though, but I suppose all relationships do. Had a bit of a on/off thing going for a year or so a couple years back, but we sorted it out.

Six years is a really long time. Especially since you got together so young! I know this one couple that is around my age and they have been together since the 7th grade. Seriously.

 

[Erzengel]

Just don't put in pornography.....or do.....

 

[BillyZaned]

Just don't put in pornography.....or do.....

anal blasters 9?

 

[Erzengel]

Anal Blasters 9 doesn't measure up to 5 or 6.

Such a lack of a character development with a plot so predictable it make Boll blush.

 

[BillyZaned]

Anal Blasters 9 doesn't measure up to 5 or 6.

Such a lack of a character development with a plot so predictable it make Boll blush.

true... I honestly think they peaked at part 3... I mean, the camera work in that one has yet to be topped...

 

[E-Man]

Screw Anal Blasters period! Back Door ****s 9 is where it's at.

 

[BillyZaned]

Spear in the rear was a nice franchise while it lasted....

 

[katie_girl09]

...

 

[E-Man]

Please don't stab me Katie! *cowers in fear*

 

[BillyZaned]

Please don't stab me Katie! *cowers in fear*

she will spear you in the rear

 

[katie_girl09]

 

[Anita18]

 

[Anita18]

 

[uchiha_itachi]

Ask her, "If you're not seeing anybody else, may I take you out to see a movie or something?"

clever...simple...why didnt i think of tht lol

 

[uchiha_itachi]

and wow this thread turned in the few hours i was away lol

 

[LouFerignoDemon]

clever...simple...why didnt i think of tht lol

lol It's all about experience.

And understanding the opponent.

It lets her know your full intentions, grateful and polite nature, and asks the question all at one time.

 

[uchiha_itachi]

yeah i like that. Whenever i ask a girl out im always worried im to..i dunno the word, pushy? pressuring? or somthing...i dont think i have been before but i worry bout tht. Asking a girl out like that though covers all the bases and keeps it casual.

I also love how you called them the "opponent" lol

 

[LouFerignoDemon]

lol It's like any other game of strategy. The moment you consider them an opponent, you put on your A-game.

 

[uchiha_itachi]

I like this. alot.

 

[E-Man]

I think that I've learned in the past few days that Mistress Gluon is sexy samurai from another planet that owns slaves and loves lotion.

 

[TLH]

Okay, I need some advice here...

There's a cute girl on my bus to/from the University almost everyday. She's a complete stranger. I definitely want to meet her, but don't know how to go about it. My first thought is to start a conversation about something about her (i.e., ask her if she likes her iPod because I'm thinking about getting one). If the conversation doesn't take, though, I'd kind of miss the opportunity to work towards the "asking out" part...

The other idea I had was a bit more clever/original/impactful but also more risky. I'd tell her she dropped a sheet of paper (which she didn't) on which I had written "you're cute"...and on the next bus ride she could initiate a conversation over it...so this puts the ball in her court (good and bad). If this idea doesn't pan out, starting a conversation would be pretty much impossible.

I'm open to other ideas.

Thanks

 

[uchiha_itachi]

forget the paper idea unless ur 15.

go up to her and say somthing like aint it funny how where always on the same bus almost everyday yet i dont even know your name? and go from there. be confident and tht might even come off as charming.

 

[LouFerignoDemon]

I think that I've learned in the past few days that Mistress Gluon is sexy samurai from another planet that owns slaves and loves lotion.

I'm much more associated with rapiers over katanas.

Okay, I need some advice here...

There's a cute girl on my bus to/from the University almost everyday. She's a complete stranger. I definitely want to meet her, but don't know how to go about it. My first thought is to start a conversation about something about her (i.e., ask her if she likes her iPod because I'm thinking about getting one). If the conversation doesn't take, though, I'd kind of miss the opportunity to work towards the "asking out" part...

The other idea I had was a bit more clever/original/impactful but also more risky. I'd tell her she dropped a sheet of paper (which she didn't) on which I had written "you're cute"...and on the next bus ride she could initiate a conversation over it...so this puts the ball in her court (good and bad). If this idea doesn't pan out, starting a conversation would be pretty much impossible.

I'm open to other ideas.

Thanks

Yeah, no paper thing.

Do talk about the iPod though.

Position yourself closer to her, and sorta look over at it, and she -might- notice you.

When she asks (if she does), reply then you're thinking about an iPod, and wanted to see one in action. If she doesn't ask, then just ask her about the iPod in action.

But yeah, confidence. No stumbling. Stumble, and I'll cut you at the knee.