That's .... not even what the issue was.
Barry felt it was better to breakup to protect her from Zoom, or any other villian, which we've all seen is the route they go when they either want to keep two characters apart so that they can add some drama, or in this case, break them up completely so they can start focusing on Barry/Iris without trying to make either character look bad for leaving.
Sad to see her go. She was the last up beat character on the show. Now everyone is depressed.
And yeah if you got a woman that is the peferct match in character and looks you don't let her go like that. And he got the power to make a long distance relationship work. So she could be what she always wanted to be and they could stay a couple.
This is one of those cases where the person that the hero lets get away from him is actually a PERFECT catch for the hero. Out of all of the women that Barry could have let go in his life for whatever dumb or tragic reasons, this shouldn't have been one of them.
If the show had portrayed Patty as an unlikable person like how Iris was shown back in the second half of Season 1, then it wouldn't feel bad at all. But Patty was pretty much almost perfect for Barry.
She's attractive, possesses intelligence, selfless, caring, and has such a huge amount of patience. If anything, given on how Barry was acting as of late, she was too good for him.
This is backwards. I don't understand how you have Iris know of his identity, and have Cisco literally on the first date with HawkGirl (don't care for her actual first name) be "forced" to tell her about Team Flash AND Team Arrow, yet Barry feels like he still can't tell Patty. Really ridiculous imo. The actress brought something different to the role as well as the show, she was the Gwen Stacy to Barry's Peter. It worked, and I've always been a fan of that relationship in the Spider-man world. Iris has just irked me the way she's been portrayed and written since the beginning and I feel like having a character like Patty come in for Barry was terrific. And to give that character this kind of exit is really weak. It completely makes Barry look like a heartless jerk (he didn't even shed a tear for her, I mean come on) She's a damn good detective and has shown that she can defend herself and be an asset. So to say she would be the ONLY liability out of all the people he's told is a slap in the face to the character they've built so far (credit to them for doing that in such a short amount of time) Idk. Definitely disappointed with the writing for this, and felt this was not necessary at all.